the possibility of there being other options in between

I graduated from Oxford, having been educated at a rural comprehensive. I'll say this: I certainly met some over-privileged tossers, some of whom need shooting*. But I wouldn't take it for a general rule.

(*I'd start with the oh-so-daring members of the 'Piers Gav'… 👿 ).

looks like there is some mileage in the good old torry bullingdon days yet….

borris and daves excellent adventure