We are having a cellar conversion done at the minute and we were told pretty much the same thing, however the guy did say he wouldn't recommend not having one, if anything more due to peace of mind.
Since he has started work he has found the water table about 1ft below the current floor level so its a good job we are having one. Our cellar space is approx 30sqm and the pump is costing approx £800.
Many people who quoted us said you had to pay them to come out every 1yr to a maintenance check at £200 a pop. Our builder says all they do is clean the filters etc and he will show me how to do it.
Just out of interest how is the pump adding 60% costs? We got 4 quotes and £22k was the cheapest, so the pump represents a minute amount of the total cost
Where abouts in the UK are you?