used to have 2 riding buddies – one of which i never see, nor get asked to get riding with (which he still does 🙁 ) he got me into biking, but clearly doesnt wish to ride with me anymore, we spend a year most weekends riding everywhere together and often midweek too…then nothing, not sure why but he still gets out and i never get an invite 🙁
my other riding buddy is actually a ‘proper’ mate, got 2 kids comes out midweek with me for a longer night ride week in week out without fail, but not at the weekend, he does road riding then mega early so hes back for the kids etc….
another mate who used to race xc and road, got back into mtb’ing last year, came out with me alot to start off with…then had a baby and sold his 6 month old bike he just pimped up and got back into road riding…hence me now being a loner 🙁
definite pattern emerging here
i then ride alone every sunday without fail 🙁
tried to meet up a few times with a couple of guys but its never quite happened, usually due to weather…
funny thing is i actually love being out alone, im not complaining at all, i get around quicker, i dont have to wait for punctures etc etc etc and i tend to push myself quicker if alone…i do miss sometimes on a sunny sunday afternoon being with other riders, but it doesnt bother me at all if i had to choose between 0 riders and 4 or 5 riders, i would still go out regardless….
i always see plenty of folk out and about and have good chats with them, often riding around the same bits with them, sometimes thats quite nice in itself…