Been with my other half for 13 or 14 years, neither can quite remember exactly how long.
I do remember we got together on a Thursday cos it was at a club we always went to after work that day.
I´ve never done the whole Hallmark presents deal and we´ve had the same bank a/c for years. I buy bike bits and she buys clothes/shoes, neither asks the other what they cost 😉
Once in a while I´ll suprise her with a little present or a weekend away, but its because its something I planned or wanted her to have. Dates are for history books.
But since you asked, a second vote for a weekend hotel break with nice food and a walk along the beach.Good luck.