A friend (female) is having serious boyfriend issues.
He is active on dating websites and meets other girls for flings. She set up a fake profile that he responded to and proved this to herself (and me). As far as we can tell he has had at least 5 other women the last 8 weeks.
I and many others have told her that she should dump him and move on (he is a fricking weasel) but it is not sinking in. (So please don’t state the obvious, I’ve done it to death.
She is currently in crocodile mode (in de-nile): She say’s if he could just admit all the lies (of which there are billions) then I can forgive him and we can be happy together.
Am I alone in thinking this is madness?
I wonder if there is anyone more “girl smart” than me who can recommend a cleverer tack to help us persuade this lovely person see the value in herself and stop her from being abused by this and probably other future boyfriends.
I though of buying her a book (My knowledge is limited to “Erica Jong Fear of Flying” and other 70’s stuff) ..
Any help.