I have a 13 year old daughter back home in north east, seen her regularly for 12 years then the ex’s fella came into some money, I was told to jog on and they even rejected my maintenance (after twelve years of begging for it early every month).
A year has gone by since I saw her last and I’ve been told the courts would let her make her own mind up and not bother legal route, which I can’t afford anyway and to top it off they now have taken me to the CSA and now I’ve got £300 a month less to live on and pay it towards their smoking and drinking fund a child I can’t see. Plus, he’s texting me telling me to pay up quick and stop being a sperm donor, whilst still refusing to let me see my child because she hates me and don’t want to see me… which we know is rubbish..
They got married in March and my mum (who sits on the fence, but will soon be knocked off it) has occasional contact with daughter. She’s had her surname changed but we think it’s because they may have adopted her.
Thinking aloud, I’m not on birth certificate, I have no parental rights because we agreed mutual access when I took her to court when I found out about her when she was 8 months old so if they have said “there’s no father around’ could they wing it and have her adopted?
These cretins have brainwashed her to bits and we know she’s living in fear of disobeying him. Any ideas on how that would work??