Here’s some full on crazy for you…
(this is quite long but it’s still the abridged version)
I’m back on the dating scene. No one seems to meet in real life anymore so Tinder, POF etc seems to be the accepted norm.
A girl messages me last week. Bit of chat back and forth, we arrange to go out on Saturday night. Dates going well. Later in the night she’s very, very drunk. Starts asking me if I want to have kids with her. Later in a club she nearly starts a fight with another group of girls. 😯 I chalk it up to drink. Taxi home, kiss goodnight, she goes home alone as do I.
Monday morning she messages me berating me as she can see I’m online on the dating app she contacted me through. I point out she can only see I’m online because she’s online and mention this may be slightly hypocritical. She apologises and suggests the cinema and some dinner that night. I take the chance as I’d like to see her sober.
On the date she’s cold, awkward and aloof. I have to force the conversation and she appears totally disinterested. A forced peck on the cheek at the end of the night. Clearly nothing happening.
The next day I decide to draw a line under it and send her a polite message saying I had a nice time but there was no spark there. She agrees, says she was about to message me the same thing. We have a mutual laugh about it. All good.
Then the nasty messages start. She has a dig at me for being back on the dating site. She accuses me of making decisions for her. Culminates with a full on rant at me. This is all via WhatsApp.
I’ve met her twice. I owe her nothing, so I just instantly block her without saying anything. Maybe a bit harsh but ultimately the right move. I also block her on facebook as she had stalked me on there.
I then get 6 text messages in the space of a few minutes. She’s having a complete meltdown. Accusing me of all sorts. There’s a phone call and a terrifying voicemail where she’s sobbing and saying I can’t treat her like that. Later on I get a message via the dating site from a “friend” of hers, threatening me and demanding I unblock her and speak to her.
Being genuinely afraid for my own, and her safety, I unblock her on whats app and ask her to calm down. Get her vaguely back on track and assume thats it.
The next day she messages me berating me again for not unblocking her on Facebook. I point out there’s no way I’m giving her access to anything public of mine. She says she wants us to be friends. I remind her I’m terrified of her. I suggest she’s clinically insane and advise her to get help.
Thankfully I haven’t heard from her since. Quite miss her actually. 😆