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I don't mean to knock any feminists, I do try to be equalist, but generally fail as my prejudice and other crap get in the way.
Anyhoo - this [url= http://time.com/4214512/donald-trump-ted-cruz-p-word/ ]article[/url] by Jill Filipovic about Trump and his calling people pussy, promotes the idea that Trump's use of the word Pussy is misogynistic, because it means vagina.
BUUUT HOLD ON!
In terms of cowardice Pussy means cat doesn't it? (I do appreciate that if talking about sex or vaginas, then the word pussy does actually mean vagina)
On [url= https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pussy ]wikipedia:[/url] it says
Meanings of the verb relate to the common noun senses, including "to act like a cat", "to act like a coward", or "to have sex with a woman"
Doesn't this mean that in the cowardly sense "pussy" means scaredy cat?
Has she written a whole feminist hit piece based on her misunderstanding of the meaning of the word pussy in relation to cowardice?
(By the way, I do think that the Trump is a cock, and prick, and possibly a pussy too, in the scaredy cat sense)
A feminist once told me there was only one slang word for lady parts but many for gentleman parts. That was a funny 45 minutes...
A feminist once told me there was only one slang word for lady parts
Was it jizz-pot?
...and possibly a pussy too, in the scaredy cat sense
Trump is such a pussy that he is always trying to hide under a cat.
I think it looks a bit foxy 😉
I assume its not gender related but I tend to avoid using it [ unless as a pun] as its [s]a bit gay*[/s]easy to misconstrue the intentions of the sayer when they use it
* like that one is and i avoid that as well
😆Was it jizz-pot?
... and in Trump's case I suspect it's a reference to the cat that sleeps on his head
I avoid using it as there are plenty of English slang words for the same type of thing, like asshole or douchebag.
Trump and his calling people pussy, promotes the idea that Trump's use of the word Pussy is misogynistic
Trump uses the word [i]and[/i] is a misogynist - the question is perhaps whether he (and others like him) change the meaning of the word by using it. Maybe he's not using 'Pussy' to mean 'mimsy' instead of 'coward' - i.e. swapping two definitions of the word that already exist - but giving the word his own definition in which 'cowardly' and 'womanly' are the same thing.
I avoid using it as there are plenty of English slang words for the same type of thing, like asshole or douchebag.
Neither of those are even close to being synonyms.
In terms of cowardice Pussy means cat doesn't it?
No!
Pussy is an objectified word for a woman (because it means vagina), a concept in which independence is removed and compliance suggested, like 'bitch'. Being someone's bitch means you do whatever they say, which is along similar lines to pussy meaning coward. See also pansy. Also consider concepts associated with the word 'emasculate'.
All these terms build on the idea of women as weak, feeble and compliant and men as dominant.
So yes, definitely misogynistic.
You said it, but that doesn't make it correct or true, it's like your opinion man, it means scaredy cat to me in reference to being weak or scared. 😆
Yes it means vagina if talking about vaginas, but if talking about people who are afraid or weak it means cat. Wikipedia said so..
It means coward and like any word can have various meanings, and in this case 2 at the same time, scaredy cat and lady bits.
Trump knowns this as he is a professional troll
and cock, nob, prick etc?So yes, definitely misogynistic.
Are they somehow reinforcing masculinity in a positive way?
I say bollocks 😉
... and what about the "c" and "t" ones for ladybits which are not generally used to imply any compliance or submission
doesn't make it correct or true
"Trump" and "Truth" are on the same page in the dictionary, but so is "Trumpery"
and cock, nob, prick etc?
Are they somehow reinforcing masculinity in a positive way?
I say bollocks
... and what about the "c" and "t" ones for ladybits which are not generally used to imply any compliance or submission
I agree which is why I mentioned those words, and C and T but they got deletes..
and cock, nob, prick etc?
I suppose you have to think why various synonyms for penis are rarely applied to women.
You said it, but that doesn't make it correct or true, it's like your opinion man, it means scaredy cat to me in reference to being weak or scared.
Yes, but the whole point of words is to convey meaning to other people, and if enough of them think it's misogynistic then you should not use it.
See also ****.
Otter's Pocket?
You said it, but that doesn't make it correct or true, it's like your opinion man, it means scaredy cat to me in reference to being weak or scared.
So why the case of Siliconosis Vaginitis about it?
Yes, but the whole point of words is to convey meaning to other people, and if enough of them think it's misogynistic then you should not use it.
I disagree, before this article it meant scared cat. If Jill can change the ,meaning of words by misunderstanding them then we all can. That's called postmodernism and is horseshit.
I suppose you have to think why various synonyms for penis are rarely applied to women.
Because women are rarely cocks or nobs? They can be arseholes.
**** was used to insult people for their perceived race. That is racism and wrong. Pussy is used to insult people for their cat like fear, that's just basic insults and OK by me.
dunno DD, - tbh in my experience, almost all of those genitalia(l) terms (M&F) tend to be applied almost exclusively to blokesI suppose you have to think why various synonyms for penis are rarely applied to women.
if I called a woman a nob would you construe it as a compliment ?
if I called a woman a nob would you construe it as a compliment ?
I dunno...is it Stupid Question Wednesday?
I've always got time for you - fire away 😀I dunno...is it Stupid Question Wednesday?
Yes, but the whole point of words is to convey meaning to other people, and if enough of them think it's misogynistic then you should not use it.See also ****.
I'd imagine the vast majority don't consider the 'pussy' to be misogynistic.
In fact I know no-one who would even think of it being so, apart from a few people on here who seem to be professionals at being offended at everything.
Edit: And a few so called feminists.
scaredypants - Memberdunno DD, - tbh in my experience, almost all of those genitalia(l) terms (M&F) tend to be applied almost exclusively to blokes
You've not met me clearly 😆 Maybe it's a regional thing but dick/cock etc are pretty unisex here, in the same way as a dude can be a *. But not a *.
Pussy, used like this, is obviously misogynistic though. When you say it to a guy as an accusation of fear you're saying "You're womanly", and simultaneously trading on negative assumptions about women. It makes no sense to link it to cats, because the behaviour it derides isn't at all catlike.
I mean, "cat like fear", seriously? Cats are the animal you link with fear? Ironically, the animal you're looking for there is a mouse.
I'd imagine the vast majority don't consider the 'pussy' to be misogynistic.
Imagine all you like! Unfortunately imagining doesn't count. There are however plenty of people who do call 'pussy' misogynistic, which is enough. There are plenty of other words to choose from.
In fact I know no-one who would even think of it being so, apart from a few people on here who seem to be professionals at being offended at everything.
Weak response! 'You're just being hysterical dear, calm down'
Pussy is used to insult people for their cat like fear
Sorry - did I miss the definitive etymology of this word?
A feminist once told me there was only one slang word for lady parts
[url= http://www.rathergood.com/hedgehogs/ ]Some very, very, very rude hedgehogs would like to disagree. Best not to play this on loudspeakers in the office, or if the kids are with you. [/url]
I've always got time for you - fire away
My first fairly easy one was answered with "I dunno". I don't want to tax you any further tbh sweetheart. 😉
what about pussyfooting around ?It makes no sense to link it to cats, because the behaviour it derides isn't at all catlike
I suppose you have to think why various synonyms for penis are rarely applied to women.
Various synonyms for lady bits are rarely applied to women.
You're on to something. Something odd.
deadlydarcy - MemberSo why the case of Siliconosis Vaginitis about it?
Because he's wrong and so is Jill. Not itchy about it, just interested. Also I am kind of an equalist and I think spurious offence taking by Jill in this case undermines the proper road to equality.
I'm not denying that Trump isn't a misogynist, but just because a misogynist used a word doesn't make that word misogynist. He was calling a man a scardeycat.
scaredypants - Memberwhat about pussyfooting around ?
Pussyfooting [i]is[/i] catlike, and obviously derives from cats. But that's a whole different term. Cruz hasn't pussyfooted about waterboarding.
Specifically here, what's kicked this off is calling Cruz a pussy for not being as into torturing people as Trump is. And again ironic, because what animal is more into torture than a bloody cat?
aww jees, is it constructive answer Thursday already ?
OK my guess (or rather attempt to answer a question that I don't really think is valid)? - Those terms are "not" applied to women because they are (outside of Northwind's experience) generally considered somehow TOO insulting to be applied.
That would make "prick" worse than ****, wouldn't it, and the implication of masculinity toward a woman worse than the emasculation of a male ?
(or [u]are[/u] you going to suggest that implying masculinity toward a woman is not an insult)
AFAIC, all those words are pretty much applied just because they're "rude" - same reason it's "you f*** c" rather than mere c***
scaredypants - Member(or are you going to suggest that implying masculinity toward a woman is not an insult)
It could be. But again, context. If you call a guy a dick are you saying he's masculine? Or are you just saying he's a pure [i]dick[/i].
molgrips - Member
Sorry - did I miss the definitive etymology of this word?
Obvs you did
from [url= https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pussy ]the venerable and unquestionable because its in colour -wikipedia[/url]"to act like a cat", "to act like a coward", or "to have sex with a woman".[4]
That's my problem NW - if I call somebody a dick, i'm not trying to imply anything about their masculinity (or even about their dick itself), and I'd be just as likely to call "him" a fanny or some other "lady"term that I suspect would be blocked and similarly that wouldn't be me suggesting he had one or trying to feminise him.
They're just rude words to blurt out in my view
Bitch is a more intersting one in my view as it (to me) has 2 definite interpretations and isn't (I don't think) often used just as a general rude word to shout.
(oh, and pussyfooting to me implies evasiveness or being overly cautious, maybe sneaky too which is how I'd interpret Trump's labelling of Cruz)
I'd say that calling a bloke a "dick/prick/cock...etc" is different from calling him a "fanny/pussy".
The "c" word is interesting because, despite the discussion about the nuances of penis-related insults and vagina-related insults, the "c" word is pretty much the worst* thing to be called isn't it? i.e. it's reserved for the lowest of the low. I wonder if the taboo which has built up around it has more to do with it being "the worst" thing to be called than it being a naughty word for the vagina. There's definitely a difference (not strength-of-insult) between it and being called a pussy or a fanny.
And to counter pussyfooting, what about "pussywhipped"?
Pointing out a woman and saying "Nice piece of pussy" is misogynistic.
Pointing out a man and saying "Nice piece of pussy" makes no sense.
Calling a man "a pussy" is not misogynistic, as in the context it means cowardly or scaredy cat, nothing to do with female genitalia or treating women as sexual objects.
White knights and professionally offended to the rescue........
pussywhipped is just the same as henpecked or jokes about who wears the trousers, isn't it. Just "cooler" because your mum would be shocked if she heard you saying it.
(and in with the #notaracist defence: ) I don't use the word pussy at all, incidentally - otherwise I'd probably not be on this...
... but if pussy implis a feminine approach to something like waterboarding (or general foreign policy) then suggesting he has a more considered, less overtly aggressive approach would surely be good, anyhwere other than middle America (where this shit is taking place, of course - all it really means is that Trump's going for the redneck & college-dickhead (or **** if we prefer) vote
lastly:
regardless of accepted etymology or rigid interpretation by some groups, language is a beautiful, vibrant and evolving thing and only pedants insist on strict application of outdated rules - don't they ?
Maybe pussy really does just mean coward* these days
*(Middle English: from Old French couard, based on Latin cauda ‘tail’, possibly with reference to a frightened animal with its tail between its legs)
professionally offended
As has to be pointed out quite often to simple minded souls (present company excepted), it's entirely possible to have these discussions and to take either side without being offended on behalf of somebody. HTH.
it means cowardly or scaredy cat, nothing to do with female genitalia or treating women as sexual objects.
Not sure how you know this for sure? Given the connotations of the word I am intensely sceptical. Cowardice is not the dominant characteristic associate with cats, despite the 'scaredycat' term. If I called you 'cat-like' what would you think of?
"to act like a cat", "to act like a coward", or "to have sex with a woman".[4]
from the venerable and unquestionable because its in colour -wikipedia
You've entirely mis-read that, it's talking about a verb form, which I've never even heard, and wasn't the form used by Trump.
Further down the page it says this:
The word pussy is also used in a derogatory sense to mean cowardly, weak, or easily fatigued. The Collins Dictionary says: "(taboo, slang, mainly US) an ineffectual or timid person."[17] It may refer to a male who is not considered sufficiently masculine, as in: "The coach calls us pussies."[18]
That clearly links weakness to the word. Given that historically women have been derided as weak, timid and feeble, and cats have not, this to me indicates a misogynistic usage.
That clearly links weakness to the word. Given that historically women have been derided as week, timid and feeble, and cats have not, this to me indicates a misogynistic usage
Yet, I wouldn't have made the connection. So maybe it's just how you think?