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IanM - I'd wanted basically the design I've had for years. My wife is/was extremely anti tattoos, so it's one of several things that I'm doing, because I want to, now that I'm no longer subject to her stifling veto power. That's not "rational" as such. But it strikes me as not a wholly bad or absurd reason.

The chap who did it drew it, based on a picture that I drew, based on my recollection of a tiny little sticker that cam with an MBUK in the late 90s that Jo Burt had painted. I had it on the back of a beautiful pearly-white set of forks, and it always made me smile. The process behind transferring it to me wasn't entirely rational, I like tattoos, I tend to think they look cool. I'd not want to get one because Beckham has one or whatever - mine's decidedly retro and a bit merchant navy really. And I wanted to start with my drive-side calf as I quite like the idea that it gets flashed at people as I overtake them, and of course it's my best and most-flexed lump of muscle.

You don't get many facial tattoos because it's by no means universally accepted as alright to have any visible, and people who have a problem with it are disproportionnately likely to be sat on the important side of the desk in job interviews, I should think. I'm proud of mine, but I'm a tax lawyer. Tax lawyers with any commitment to working don't have facial tattoos, or indeed beards, generally. Mine is part of my private life, and isn't visible when I wear office clothes. No-one who has seen it has any problem with it, but I'd not want to be judged on it alone in this day and age, certainly.

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Posted : 23/08/2010 8:58 am
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the only people i know who regret their tattoos are people who got them for the wrong reason or just picked them off a wall.

if you have something completely custom designed, personal to you and something you feel is important enough to want to remember you're whole life then unless you get it in a "life-ruiner" place (hands, neck, face) then there should be no regrets...

as this thread shows there's a large side of society that wouldnt judge a person 'cos of their skin colour but seem quite happy to make assumptions about a person cos of the colours ON their skin and the result is this effects job prospects etc.

most tattoo'd people will save the hands/neck/face til last as they're all too aware of societies view on standing out... kids have started going straight for the hands and neck whilst still having lots of empty skin, this (in my humble opinion) is a bit silly and i'm in no way surprised that people will see this as attention seeking.

all my tattoos remind me of a time/place, who i was with, what was happening in my life, what i believe in and what lessons i've learnt.

all mine can be hidden by normal work clothing and often are as a lot of the meetings i go to are full of older people who are already judging me 'cos of my age, why give them more ammo to blindly assume i'm not as smart as they are?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:02 am
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important enough to want to remember you're whole life

my point is, surely something that important isn't going to be forgotten, and shouldn't need a inked reminder. or is it that you really 'want' it to be that important?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:09 am
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These days it shows your individuality by not having a tattoo. Awful lot of defensiveness going on. ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:09 am
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Lots of pointless arguing going on to, DD.

What would this place be without it, eh?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:11 am
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These days it shows your individuality by not having a tattoo.

Agree. considering those with tattoos share something in common with knuckle-draggers, the common and the poor who automatically have tattoo's...well your not in great company are you?

'Yes but mine is really tasteful' - is it? To you it is. ๐Ÿ˜†


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:12 am
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Hiya Elaine-Anne

The only thing I would say is that lizards and geckos have been kind of a popular design for a few years now. A bit like dolphins in the 90's.If you had one it would look like you were jumping on the tattoo bandwagon because it's seen a resurgence in the last 10 years. If you really want a tattoo I would think about having something that is a bit more personal to you. Go to a reputable (read you pay for what you get) tattoo artist and perhaps discuss ideas and options. A decent tattooist will always want your business but should also be willing to help you find what you like and spend time doing it.
If you're still not sure try something non permanent like a piercing as a form of bodily adornment before going for the big T.
Good luck.
P.S. Whatever you decide geckos really are a bit faddy and trendy. Tattoos shouldn't be about fashion but self expression.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:13 am
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@ nickc

Tru dat ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:15 am
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That is a classic piece of hora. ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:19 am
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considering those with tattoos share something in common with knuckle-draggers, the common and the poor who automatically have tattoo's...well your not in great company are you?

i'm pretty sure that you've got legs and arms and fingers.. that means you've got something in common with hitler... he was human too ๐Ÿ˜‰

would it make you feel better if everyone who had a tattoo had to take an IQ test and have the result tattoo'd to their forehead so you could judge them even quicker?

(trolling to a a degree here) different strokes for different folks 'n all that, i have tattoos and i'm not fussed if i get judged to be honest... just as someone might be sitting there looking at me thinking "what a cretin, he's got his whole leg tatoo'd, i bet he's on benefits and doesnt work, probably a druggy too... i hate other people, i'm off to moan at the internet"... i'll probably be sitting their judging someone else completely unaware lol ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:21 am
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I had to write an order reference on the inside of my hand this morning- I wont be making it permanent though or adding any Anchors or pictures of Mermaids on.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:25 am
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Given the ill-considered nature of your opinions, and their weather-vane changeability, I'd be wary of giving you a permanent marker pen. ๐Ÿ™‚


 
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"Agree. considering those with tattoos share something in common with knuckle-draggers, the common and the poor who automatically have tattoo's...well your not in great company are you?"
Hora - you do talk s**te at times. I was born and brought up on a council estate, and people never 'automatically' had tattoos. I'd moved out, got a career and bought my own place years before I got my first one done, and whether or not you find them unpleasant is completely immaterial to me. The fact that you choose to slag off the 'common and poor', however, isnt. If it's an attempt to troll, then it's probably had the desired effect, and if you actually believe what you posted, then you've got some serious issues. As an aside, my wife's got a tattoo, but unfortunately she's from Cambridge, has several degrees and is currently lead occupational therapist for the local NHS trust. Last time I checked, her knuckles were well above dragging level, so, sadly, youre theory doesnt really hold water.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:30 am
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Hora - you do talk s**te at times. I was born and brought up on a council estate

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Posted : 23/08/2010 9:35 am
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I agree with [b]don simon[/b] that alcohol is an unnecessary evil and the sooner people grow up and abandon it the better, however I don't see tattoos as a useful alternative...


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:36 am
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Care to explain the 'rolling eyes' thing further hora?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:39 am
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as this thread shows there's a large side of society that wouldnt judge a person 'cos of their skin colour but seem quite happy to make assumptions about a person cos of the colours ON their skin and the result is this effects job prospects etc.

the difference being that you have no choice about your genetic physical characteristics but few tattoos are inflicted unwillingly


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:47 am
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24 percent of Americans between 18 and 50 are tattooed; thatโ€™s almost one in four

Says it all. It really does.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:50 am
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[url= http://www.guardian.co.uk/artanddesign/2010/jul/20/tattoos ]A higher proportion of British teachers have tattoos than do soldiers[/url], supposedly. What does that say? Or is there nothing left to say after your quote about the Americans? ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:52 am
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I believe, finally, and thank **** that Godwin's Law has been invoked. can we stop now...


 
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being tattooed can mean a small flower behind the ear or a huge xtr chainset over your face - so what you posted says nothing hora, other than that you have an issue with Americans.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:53 am
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Anyway, calm down. Its highly subjective. Its your body and unlike smoking it doesn't affect others does it?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 9:57 am
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No point in talking to other people about whether to get a tattoo or not. Only you will really know whether you should get one or not.

If you do get one, keep it to yourself or only show it to/discuss it with people you know are interested. As this thread shows, there are a lot of people out there quick to judge.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:00 am
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Anyway, calm down. Its highly subjective.

This is correct, but contradicts your earlier silly remarks. Do hush. ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:02 am
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dolphins and lizards? people will be tattooing themselves with cartoon characters and cycling logo's next!


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:05 am
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Everyones allowed an opinion, mine is that I really don't like them and from experience the sort of people who had them tended to come from the rougher parts of Huddersfield where I grew up.

It is personal choice but if my view of them is its 'common' then so what? People smoking also looks common (slightly simple) to me.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:06 am
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[i]Everyones allowed an opinion[/i]

This is true, most people though have a filter betwixt brain and mouth that stops them from making a tit of themselves rather than saying (typing) the first thing that pops into their brains.

you need to plug yours back in.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:09 am
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Indeed. Coming from the proud owner of a pair of cowboy boots... ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:09 am
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Coming from the proud owner of a pair of cowboy boots

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One thing I will say about Tattoo's (oh you mean another thing) - you need an amazing body to pull them off. Slightly overweight or getting old just looks wrong.


 
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never got tatts, i just dont see the point in branding yourself then covering it up 99% of the time.

each to their own of course.


 
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Ah. I've seen pictures of you. You've made good choices then. ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:13 am
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Ah. I've seen pictures of you. You've made good choices then

Exactly imagine me in the gym changing room. I'd look like dr zoidberg without his shell


 
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One might say the same about cowboy boots, Hora.

Tattoos - Personal opinion - often look crap, tryhard, tacky and just not very aesthetic. But occassionally, on the right person and the right design they look spot on - fantastic even, sometimes. Only you can know which camp you'll fall into or at least you can hope you do ๐Ÿ™‚

(I have no tats - I can't think of anything that wouldn't look crap and that I want permanently on me)


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:14 am
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[i]each to their own of course[/i]

Yes monkey boy, spot on, shame it's taken 5 pages to reach that conclusion, eh?


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:15 am
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[i]Exactly imagine me in the gym changing room[/i]

Mr Nutt to the thread please


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:15 am
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Part of my brain is now imagining hora, naked except for his cowboy boots, looking as if he comes from the sophisticated, urbane end of Huddersfield. ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:16 am
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Yes monkey boy, spot on, shame it's taken 5 pages to reach that conclusion

A few facts:
1. This is STW
2. Its cyclic. We discuss the exact same subjects monthly.


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:16 am
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BD, thanks for sharing, no really....thanks

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Posted : 23/08/2010 10:18 am
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Exactly imagine me in the gym changing room

I'd much rather not ๐Ÿ™


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:18 am
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Seems a shame sfb - he's thinking of you in the same...


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:20 am
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Hora and SFB sittin' in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:21 am
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Hora and SFB sittin' in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G

[b]nickc[/b] you have problems ๐Ÿ™


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:23 am
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Kiss the Rivington Yeti? ๐Ÿ˜ฏ


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:24 am
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Arguably since Hora is letching on you SFB, not as bad problems as you have... :mrgreen:


 
Posted : 23/08/2010 10:24 am
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I'll give you 50p?


 
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