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I need your advice....

Been living with new partner for about a year now – last night was the second time she has worn PJ’s to bed (last time was -5’c outside and we were in a tent – I complained then, but kinda let it go…).

Anyway, having spent the whole evening rebuilding her bike and not even getting on to mine, which needs some serious work before the weekend, I got to bed to find her wearing PJ’s. She made some random excuse, but I suspect she was making some point about me ignoring her all evening. OK, so I did ignore the odd suggestive text, but both bikes were in a bad way and mine still is (oh, and Zane Lowe was on form on the radio… That plus a beer on the go and a major re-build in hand, I was in the zone!).

So should I be concerned? Should I just leave it or what?


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:53 am
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If PJ's worry you, there no chance! But you have to remeber- the bikes will wait, she might not..


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:55 am
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Mine likes her PJ's and Horlicks.

But she's let me build a bike room so she's ace.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:57 am
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Bikes or nookie.....bloody hell there is no question in my mind.

Unlucky 😛


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:58 am
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Why are you talking to US about it? Shouldn't you be talking to her?


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:58 am
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I did ignore the odd suggestive text

You Sir, are an idiot. Or over sexed 😕


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 10:58 am
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whats the problem here? , she wears the jimjams warms up then (if the mood takes you both) they're easy to remove . no problem.

I never wear pj's and haven't since I was about 12 but mrs carlos feels the cold and nearly always does. It hasn't got in the way for the last 20 years!


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:03 am
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"I've changed my mind about your PJs, I think they're really hot. Will you wear them for me tonight? I'll bring the flash grenades". 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:04 am
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OP not everyone is oversexed. Well, just you and your missus 😉


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:04 am
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Have some Kahoonas' - just tell her you find PJ's in bed replusive!

This forum is the WORST place to come for advice on the fairer sex. You would be better off asking a hermit for that kind of advice than on here!

Good luck


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:06 am
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And sorry. You text one another from different rooms of the same house?!


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:08 am
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PJs are fun to rummage in 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:08 am
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Can we make "rummage" the word of the day please? 😀


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:09 am
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BD, is that a quote?


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:10 am
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PJ's are easily ripped off.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:11 am
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*has mental image of SFB 'rummaging' in PJ's*

Pass the bleach..........


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:11 am
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This forum is the WORST place to come for advice on the fairer sex. You would be better off asking a hermit for that kind of advice than on here!

+1
Asking a BIKE forum about your bike getting in the way of your relationship kind of either shows or expects a certain amount of bias.

IMO- plenty of ladies I have known have gone for the PJs, if they're not on I'm on for a cert' or will atleast find myslef so charged up at the posibility I will pester until sated. Even if they are worn though, they soon come off. I sleep in my T shirt that I've had on all day, so I'm hardly Mr Lover man am I?

Just beware of cuddly toys coming into the picture- that's the real end of it all.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:12 am
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PJs = Decorators...

😉


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:13 am
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PJs are fun to rummage in

😆

Edit: Sleeping in a tent? Quite frankly if you're too mean to pay for a good quality hotel, there really wouldn't be any point in bringing out the Myla. 🙄


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:14 am
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Posted : 26/03/2010 11:15 am
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Yeah, hate it when our lass wears her PJ's like this.....

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its a sure sign of the beginning of the end!!!


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:16 am
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I wear PJs and am a hnuge success with the ladies.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:18 am
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*has mental image of SFB 'rummaging' in PJ's*

yes I have that mental image too and quite enjoying it 🙂

PJs = Decorators...

which need not be any barrier to activity either :o)


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:27 am
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How is this bad? Or is it not quite like that chez House? 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:30 am
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PJs are the work of Satan and all his little demons. Full stop.

It isn't the beginning of the end. It IS the end. Give her her marching orders


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:32 am
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Mine significant other does & I had the same reaction.... just splash out on a few pairs that you find her attractive in ...then cut holes in the others 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:36 am
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[i]then cut holes in the others[/i]

Or "rummage-ports", as we like to call them. 😀


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:39 am
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skiprat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PJ's is not the begining of the end. The beginning of the end is when her legs are hairier than yours


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:41 am
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Simon - which are you, the 'rummager' or the 'rummagee' ? Just so, well you know, if I ever find myself in an awkward situation (cough).


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:42 am
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No nookie then go and strip her bike down again.


 
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Simon - which are you, the 'rummager' or the 'rummagee' ?

The former - I'm not good at taking the passive part and don't posess any PJs.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:44 am
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Lol - thanks guys - feeling better already

So are you saying I should give in EVERY time she demands it 😉

I think I have two issues I am struggling with. The first is that I'm a bit grumpy 'coz my bike still isn't fixed, but hers is and she didn't show any appreciation, well, not in the way that I was hoping for 😉 The second is that she knows I don't like her PJ's... OK - I could buy her some PJ's I like, but doesn't that mean I am encouraging her to wear them?...

Why oh why are women so complicated?


 
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Not sure why, but I have an image of you snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'. If I'm to be completely honest, it's an image that makes me feel dirty, and not in a good way 😕


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:47 am
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[i]are you saying I should give in EVERY time she demands it [/i]

You are an EPIC bastard. 😀


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:47 am
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[i]snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'[/i]

Actually chortling out loud at this... 😀


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:49 am
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"rummage-ports" !!

Had me L.O.L.ing - fantastic.


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 11:50 am
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Its a slippery slope. It starts with PJ's, then its tracky bottoms and slippers around the house in the evening. Before you know it....

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Posted : 26/03/2010 11:51 am
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Sorry Cinnamon Girl - missed your post - [url= http://www.rainorsfarm.co.uk/yurtindex.html ]Posh camping...[/url]


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:04 pm
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I'm hearing the voice of bitter experience talking binners... 😉


 
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Not sure why, but I have an image of you snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'. If I'm to be completely honest, it's an image that makes me feel dirty, and not in a good way

hey, don't try to hold me responsible for your diseased fantasies!


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:09 pm
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IME pjs are the start of the end

when she is wearing PJs and a fluffy dressing gown to bed its really over


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:12 pm
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Gets worse if she put her rollers in before sex.


 
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Did woner if the pic was a bit risky but what the hell, you like Hora??

The second is that she knows I don't like her PJ's... OK - I could buy her some PJ's I like, but doesn't that mean I am encouraging her to wear them?...

Why oh why are women so complicated?

Why not play mind games back? Make/ask her to wear the ones you like (see above) when she thinks thats all you find her nice in, she'll soon be back to wearing these....

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(don't blame me if it doesn't work though, like you say, women are so complicated 😉 )


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:16 pm
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Skiprat - you are a GENIUS!!!

I am sure it will all go wrong, but I may as well have some fun along the way 😉


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:24 pm
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skiprat when hora jnr wants to feed he stares at mrshora's top with saucer-like eyes. Same as pappy hora :mrgreen:


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:29 pm
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Bloody hell. Between Barnes snuffling like a badger as he rummages in Mitch's PJ's and Hora staring, saucer-eyed at his missus' swollen, milk-dribbly bosom and begging to be suckled this thread is far, far out of control. 😯 😀


 
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Just to help that along: I'd like to put this picture in your head, grievoustim.

Doggy position. PJ top still on, bottoms not completely off...

😯


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:37 pm
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PJ's are a great excuse for bone-idle lazy sex


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:40 pm
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PJ's are a great excuse for bone-idle lazy sex

A w4nk?


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:43 pm
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Are we at risk of being shut down if we carry on like this???

How about your teams football shirt Woppit?


 
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Why oh why are women so complicated?

'Why does the Universe exist' would be an easier question to answer...


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:47 pm
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PJ's are a great excuse for bone-idle lazy sex

A w4nk?

A full explanation FAIL from me 😆


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:48 pm
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Dear god! I feel violated reading this


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 12:58 pm
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I feel violated reading this

wishful thinking laddie 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 1:00 pm
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Surely if you want to end a relationship you just say something? The wearing of a specific type of clothing is certainly a novel form of communication.


 
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Why oh why are women so complicated?

'Why does the Universe exist' would be an easier question to answer...

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Mr Woppit - Lol - If only they were so simple - put a gremlin behind the panel changing wires over every time you think you have worked out what a nob does and I think we're getting close 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 1:15 pm
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Dear me. Not all women are complicated, men just need to take their blinkers off. 🙄


 
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you have worked out what a nob does

thankfully I know [b]that[/b] bit :o)

but FWIW I think men are really just as complicated/simple as women!


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 1:18 pm
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OK guys. Just a suggestion - 40% off sexy lingerie here:

www.myla.com


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 1:22 pm
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Please can we get this thread off entry-level woman-bafflement and back on to slightly sleazy middle-aged sex when no-one can quite be bothered to undress?

Simon was suggesting earlier that PJs meant period sex, which I thought was a promising tack for us to take. 🙂


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 1:23 pm
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Any rumours of me having lingerie in the boot of my car, beside my bike at the start of a bike ride, is ... er ... just a rumour 😉


 
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Please can we get this thread off entry-level woman-bafflement and back on to slightly sleazy middle-aged sex when no-one can quite be bothered to undress?

Oui!

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Posted : 26/03/2010 1:40 pm
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Simon was suggesting earlier that PJs meant period sex

no, I was only quoting someone else!


 
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I suspect this thread will end up with someone regretting saying something. It's a good thread 😀


 
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Woppit, do i read that right, is that from "giz mag"?

Great name for an adult publication!!! 😆


 
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wickedweasel anyone ?
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Posted : 26/03/2010 1:53 pm
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Aren't your pics usually of the rear rather than the front SFB?? 😉


 
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Aren't your pics usually of the rear rather than the front SFB??

the saddle and clothing do less to conceal the charms of the behind 🙂


 
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PJs are a definite message. They are saying things aren't good and she needs to talk. Carry on like this and you'll be fettling as long as you want all to yourself.


 
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Woppit, do i read that right, is that from "giz mag"?

Great name for an adult publication!!!

😆

Might be. I haven't got this month's yet...


 
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You Sir, are an idiot. +1
frankly if you turned down an open invitation you deserve to be punished. and this isnt really punishment, when she refuses to sh@g you for a month then youll know punishment.
p.s. zanes good but you should have been listening to him whilst doing it, not doing that.. 😉


 
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They are saying things aren't good and she needs to talk.
COAB! She sent him suggestive txts and he couldn't be bothered to reply as he was [i]in the zone[/i] bike fettling ! Can you get [i]in the zone[/i] bike fettling ? Sheesh 🙄

Could at least have replied along the lines of "see you in a few minutes, just lubing up and thinking of you.."

...............or maybe not 😆


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 2:38 pm
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Mr Woppit - that really is sooo wrong. Not only PJs but wellies as well. The end really would be in sight. 😀


 
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The end really would be in sight

briefly, before plunging deeply ?


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 2:48 pm
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Pandora - what's all that "needing to talk" stuff about? Surely if you've got something you want to say you just say so??


 
Posted : 26/03/2010 2:51 pm
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The end isn't when she wears PJs - it's when you're glad she does.


 
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PJs are a definite message. They are saying things aren't good and she needs to talk. Carry on like this and you'll be fettling as long as you want all to yourself.

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PJ's or no PJ's, my Mrs can't talk with her mouth full 😆


 
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Maybe you chaps hadn't noticed that over the last few months temperatures have plummeted to -18 in some parts of the country.
I confessed during the cold spell to wearing jimjams and a nighty all at the same time. They were bought for me at Christmas by hubby no less. Maybe he's trying to tell me something.

Funny thread all the same.


 
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