To the OP, because a lot of the above aren't really midlife crisis.. where are you at - I'm divorced, my kids are getting older and you get this nagging fear that you can't do fun things for as long as you can. I'm not suddenly going to get an amazing career - doesn't happen in your late 50's.
So what do you think does define you, what do you want to do? What are you going to change to be where you want to be?
So what do you think does define you, what do you want to do? What are you going to change to be where you want to be?
If I had the answers to these questions I wouldn't be here! Early 30's, had kids young so they are now 16 and 10. Used to be very much defined by work, less so now. Pretty well off financially, own our suburban terrace. Life is comfortable but functional. Everything is functional.
