[Closed] Mate advice

Can you summarise this in less than 20 words?

Is she fit?

If it looks and sounds like a bag of lies......

Go.

Sounds like she likes c*ck.

She sounds like a nightmare.

I read it all! It was fascinating, cos it was similar to a situation I've been in (although definitely not all of it!).

My advice - he should make his own decision.

All I've taken from this is she's OK with a three-way.

Get some better friends? There is bound to be a few "spare" ones hanging around on this forum?

Can you summarise this in less than 20 words?

She a ho!!

smell_it

said friend brought some chap back to the twin room they were sharing, and the obvious happened.

They spent the next 5hrs arguing about 650B??? 😉

Is there a large teddy bear involved?

Sounds very needy, she'll always be seeking 'ahem' attention. Such people can be great for fun but not relationship material.

Yes....sounds like a good 'date', but not a long term GF.....far too dodgy!

Already questioning trust. Find someone else, She sounds like a two penny whore.

said friend brought some chap back to the twin room they were sharing, and the obvious happened.

He fixed the cable?

She sounds a bit mental and of loose morals.

IMO he should dump her.

There's kids involved on both sides who have already been through plenty already.

Your mate seems to have my slightly outdated values in this area. If her behaviour is making him doubt or worry, given that she seems to have slightly more modern morals, then I think she needs to consider the impact her behaviour has on him. If that means toning it down on nights out and away, so be it.

And I'd suggest he gets checked out at the clinic.

She's out of a relationship and having a bit of fun. Good on her.
Your mate sounds obsessive. Tell him to move on, get one night stands and have fun.

Sounds like your mate should offer for her mate to come round for dinner one night.

Run for the hills, she sounds a bloody nightmare. If he (and indeed she) can deal with a bit of in bed fun with no strings there is no harm in that but any kind of relationship would be a big no IMO.

Can someone please summarise the unedited OP or get it on google archive or whatever?

Bloke meets Chick, Chick like causal flings with more than 2 people involved, Bloke is worried as she's been "doing it" whilst dating (although agreed to some extent). Chick has questionable morals, but STW massive disagree as usual as to the extend of harm. both parties have kids from exes,to compound moral compass issues.

She's been reasonably honest about what's gone on, I'd give it a go and see what happens.

Thought she wasn't being honest and the kids were letting on who she was with.