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First step in winning this lady is asking...
'How are things with you and pissflaps (insert bf's name as appropriate)?'
You need to find an angle, get some leverage, for all you know she might be head of heels in loce with the fella, in which case your wasting your time.... and ours! 🙂
ianpinder, I know, my incredulity is based merely on grips assumption that he's happy to 'nudge' people out of relationships. Something I'd never presume to do.
[i]In my experience, sometimes people muddle along in relationships that are not ideal for them[/i]
the molgrips Clinic for relationship counseling will presumably be opening presently...
In all fairness I have had friends who bumble along in relationships, but like I said I don't know enough about this one to comment. Though her mum doesn't really like him to much
[i]Though her mum doesn't really like him to much [/i]
Mum in: "Not Liking Boyfriend Much" shocker
😀
This thread is great, has brightened up my day. Please do keep it coming, freudian spelling slips and all.
And do we know if she likes chicken giblets yet?!
You have to ask yourself this........
Am I prepared to wait another +/- 5 months to find out if there is 'anything there' on her part, and if there isn't, am I prepared to carry on with seeing her every 20 months in the vain hope that she, or circumstances, might change her mind.
Surely it is better to know and get on with your (love)life, whichever way it pans out, than carrying on in virtual limbo. You're only in your mid 20's so you have plenty time but wouldn't you rather know [b]now[/b]!
From my own (bitter) experience and having the grand total of 3 'ex-wives', the thing I regret most is the one that (maybe) got away. She was engaged when I met her and being an honourable chap I didn't say a word about how I felt and she duly got married to the other guy. Never experienced anything quite like it since and it may not have worked out but at least I wouldn't occassionally think, [i]what if[/i] .............
ps. what does her Mum look like and is she single 😉
You don't want to go near her mum. Read page 2 for the explanation.
I am prepaired to wait, I still see other girls, just they are not quite as good, not that I tell them that. So were meeting at the end of September then will have a 3 day jaunt to the alps with her next summer.
Weird.
Read page 2 for the explanation.
Ah! I thought she was ranting about her [b]job[/b] 😯
100!
100 posts who would of thought it was that interesting