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I am a Mrs. I am married to Molgrips. 🙂 My real name is not Lucian. Though I do have the letter 'L' in at least one of them 🙂
I did wonder if people would think your username related to a company called M.R.S. Grips making bar grips. 🙂
If you fancy her then you've got to put it to her - simple as that. If you don't, then you may never take the opportunity. The worst that can happen is she'll say "no," at which point you'll know where you stand and can move on from there.
If you don't fancy her then you've nothing to worry about - just get on with the next 20 months of your life.
EDIT: I spent 6 years "seeing" someone even though we weren't technically going out with each other, and we both had other proper relationships for much of that time anyway. We never crossed the line, but we were always there for each other (emotionally as well as for going out and just having loads of fun). In the end I asked if she thought we should have a go at it ourselves, but she declined - it made perfect sense and would never have worked. Nothing changed between us and we carried on "seeing" each other up until we both settled down.
PMSL @ cougar !!
I am a Mrs. I am married to Molgrips.
Pah - you don't fool me. Admit it, the 20 minute gap between posts was enough for the alter ego to take over 😆
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Oh lordy there is two of them now. Will jnrgrips be making an appearance soon?
If it was me, I'd imagine my schlong is a small/compact yet lethal Uzzi 9mm. I'd let her in then shout YAAARRRRR Whilst spraying in a wide arch. She will either:
A). Be impressed
B). Be impressed
or
C). Stop her 20monthly visits to tell her metrosexual friend about her life.
Will jnrgrips be making an appearance soon?
Nah, she's far too mature for this silliness 🙂
20 months......many many years.....You should have slam dunked that along time ago mate. Do it or get over it. Lifes too short.
Her: Friends/pals/mates maybe if she was single who knows.
You: Confused P£nis.
You risk telling her and losing pal forever unless she flirts like hell with you.
Use your head, no the other one you think with. Forget it, get a GF and be happy.
Any pics of her 😀
I think MrsGrips earlier post made a lot of sense but now I think you need to think tactically...
What was H complaining to you about, was it her fella? You’ll to need to act cunningly.
Empathise with the problems she’s having, nad if you can start subtly pointing out his deficiencies (without her taking offense) then you’re half way there. The master stroke is being able to get her to realise that you have none of these weaknesses, you can’t directly point this out though, she must come to the conclusion through the way you act.
This could all backfire though, you look like a sly ****, her macho fella gets wind of it and you become intimate friends with his fists.
her macho fella gets wind of it and you become intimate friends with his fists.
A man who doesn't keep his goats tethered tends to lose his flock.
Indeed Hora. No way I'd let a Mrs of mine go off for 'fun days out' with another man. Unless he was as much of a sexual threat as Gok Wan.
She doesn't take you off shopping does she Ian?
A man who doesn't keep his goats tethered tends to lose his flock.
Easy Confucius.
hora - Memberher macho fella gets wind of it and you become intimate friends with his fists.
A man who doesn't keep his goats tethered tends to lose his flock.
A moral victory may not be much to hang onto, when he is lying on the floor in a pool of claret wondering why his legs bend the wrong way at the kneecaps.
Depends how good one is at begging or how quickly the Police can respond 😀
If it was me, I'd imagine my schlong is a small/compact yet lethal Uzzi 9mm.
So you only need to imagine the uzzi part then.
No way I'd let a Mrs of mine go off for 'fun days out' with another man. Unless he was as much of a sexual threat as Gok Wan.
PMSL
Although i must say the amount he touches up all the ladies on his show i might have to 'have words' anyway
You risk telling her and losing pal forever unless she flirts like hell with you.
She might already be flirting with you.....
what do you want from the relatiohsnip for the future?
I think someone once said that you can get any woman into bed if you are willing to listen to her problems until 3 in the morning.
TSY she doesn't like shopping except for motor bikes and climbing stuff.
The conversation had lots to do with mental disibilties in parents and child carers.
No I am not in anyway going to start bad mouthing her bf, to her face, it can only end badly and I don't want to be the one who ended their relationship.
My god I need to get a grip
I need to get a grip
Sounds like that's all you be getting on this occasion 🙁
My god I need to get a grip
mol and mrs grips to the thread again please.
I got a two word reply to my txt which I thought was very fitting and sums up our relationship.
And no I'm not scared of her pathetic bf
deadlydarcy- someone called? 😉
ianpinder- quite agree get a grip. Text and let be if that's what you need to do. Stay calm cool and collected and don't let anyone rush you into something/anything. You sound like a nice down to earth guy. Keep it like that; you'll find that even if nothing ever happens with this girl another will come along. As others have pointed out we've all lusted/fantasied about someone one time or another. And sometimes we do think 'what if...' but when things are right to happen they do happen. Go with the flow and listen to what your brain is telling you as well as your heart (they sound like they're pretty much saying the same thing).
😛 A lot of cliche mumbo jumbo but *shrug*
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jon1973 - MemberI was obsessed with a girl called Wendy
That's not the one that's been in the news recently is it?
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Ha!
...'at sixth-form college', rules out the delectable Miss Lewis 😛
I got a two word reply to my txt which I thought was very fitting and sums up our relationship.
Do we have to guess?
...k off, love you, I'm fine, ding dong, can't wait, cu 2012................??
and I don't want to be the one who ended their relationship.
Sometimes (not particularly infrequently) people need to be nudged out of their relationships. I have no idea if this is one of those though.
So I've learnt how to spell some words and I've realised that if it's meant to happen then it will. The situation as it is now is not something which can be sorted out in the next month, so I guess I'm in this for the long term, which is good, and at least it's good that she is coming to me for support rather then going to her boyfriend.
I'll still be on the look out for others but with H I feel safe and content, which is not something I have experienced with anyone else, but that's not to say I won't providing I keep looking. Though it's going to take someone truely amasing to eclipse her.
Thanks for all the advice particulally to the grips, I think I just needed to work through it with an independent (ish) point of view as I can become quite narrow minded and silly at times.
So I have the cowboy boots, ky and horse whip, now all I need is tj, or a guy called dave 🙂
[b]FFS WHAT DID THE TEXT SAY?[/b]
[i]Sometimes (not particularly infrequently) people need to be nudged out of their relationships[/i]
WTF? seriously WTF?
Never mind nudged - I wish someone had dragged me out of some of mine by the testicles, as that was obviously where my brains were at the time 😯Sometimes (not particularly infrequently) people need to be nudged out of their relationships
Oh yeah - OP please tell bigyinn what the txt said, he's getting fractious 😉
Just a simple thank you.
it didnt say thank you,all that and she just says thank you,shes a woman after all.
Taking a picture of yourself naked in the mirror and send over to her.
Make sure you think dirty thoughts about her first and give it a good shake otherwise she'll think someones sent her a picture of Chicken Giblets.
Send her a picture of an alsation, and say "if you were my alsation I'd put you on a lead, take you for walks and only feed you Iams."
Sometimes (not particularly infrequently) people need to be nudged out of their relationshipsWTF? seriously WTF?
In my experience, sometimes people muddle along in relationships that are not ideal for them, without realising that there is someone else they know that fancies them and would be better. People often have a tendency not to believe that someone else might like them - a self esteem thing.
I think you mis-understood what I was getting at. I wouldn't advocate the breaking up of a happy relationship, but not all relationships are happy or productive, despite being long-lived.
Actually text her first and ask her opinion on Chicken giblets. She may actually like them boiled with alittle rice. You never know with girls nowadays.
So I have the cowboy boots, ky and horse whip, now all I need is tj, or a guy called dave
IT dep'ts up and down the country are feeling nervous/worried/excited at the news 😆
Grips, just checking; you do know that other peoples relationships are none of your business, right?
Except when they ask for advice on STW, then it becomes [b]everyones[/b] business 😉
Nickc,
grips didn't say anything aimed directly at h and her other half.
I have a strong feeling though that there's is a relationship which was born out of requirement rather then based on true feelings. However I don't know enough about it tbh, as I don't see her enough and I have never ever been with h and either of her ex/current bf when they have been togeather.
So when did you last actually meet up and does she tell her BF where she is going and who with?
You've also never met her boyfriend and yet you say
And no I'm not scared of her pathetic bf
so presumably that has come from something she said to you, unless are you assuming that he must be pathetic as he lets his GF go off for "weekends of fun" with another bloke?
Nope I have met her current boyfriend, twice once when they were not going out and again when she was not present.
I last saw her on may 18th last year for a couple of days, but ii stayed at her mums house for a week last september. I don't talk to her about her bf either.