Yeah, I would guess that. for a man it's usually "I'm not ready for commitment"
Probably yeah.
Both literally mean "look, you were alright for a shag, but I wouldn't want to have to pass up a better opportunity because I was with you now would I!"... Again, cynical, moi?
The one and only time I ever dumped a girl though, I actually used the truth! Which made her feel awful for about 3 months it would seem... Oops! Still, we're good mates now, and besides, she now bats for us so I feel less guilty for having dumped her in the first place...
Still, I believe in karma and all that. Better to be open and honest withe people, one day it will be rewarded.
It is really hard though, to find kind words to say something which is obviously going to hurt the other person. To make things worse, when I get nervous I giggle, which is not the right thing to do at all...
I've never used the 'its not you its me' line
But have had the 'not ready to commit' one thrown at me.
Bottom line - Being single is fun!
Give yourself time to discover who you really are and what you really want from life/love. DON'T settle for second best. Be true to you!
Good luck x
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