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 hora
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Sounds like your boyfriend has been single for too long.


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 8:26 am
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Wrong Hora he should remain single and keep his life and bikes 😀


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 8:47 am
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My best road bike used to live in the bedroom as the shed was full.It did piss the missus off a bit.She also gets pissed off with the cutlery drawer being full of spares as well!!


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 8:55 am
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At last! A male version of me! Bearing in mind that I live in a caravan: 1 bike in awning, 3 bikes in lounge, half of seating area taken up by wheels and saddles/seat posts, bike under my bed, crash helmets on shelf above bed, various batteries on charge, sweaty bike gear hanging around, STW on laptop, dog on bed.

Sounds quite normal to me.


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:36 am
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Karinofnine you sound like the ideal woman to many on here!!


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:41 am
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Karinofnine you sound like the ideal woman to many on here!!

LOL - I advertised (on here - in Classifieds) for a boyfriend and got no takers


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:44 am
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3 bikes at the end of my bed. There are also enough spares to rebuild a road bike... and bike bag under my bed.

2 bike frames, a dozen wheels, many tyres, tool kit and a couple of forks in my 'walk in wardrobe'.

joys of being a student!


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:51 am
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When I lived on my own the only place I could put my bike was in the bedroom, thanks to a thoughtfully provided bay window.

Spares were kept on an adjacent shelf. A few lady guests did pass comment!


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:53 am
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I couldn't keep my bikes in the bedroom as the sex swing took up a fair space (especially in motion with a few ladies in the room).


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 10:58 am
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is he normal? not if any of those parts are for 29ers or singlespeed!
[tries desparately hard not to mention 69er]

in any case, if his bedroom is already full then i think it's time he got a bigger bedroom 😉


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 11:12 am
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"is my boyfriend normal?"

i've got good news for you; your boyfriend isn't 'normal' - he's so much more interesting than any 'normal' person. you're a very lucky woman.

normal people are boring, they have boring lives, they go on boring holidays, they clean their cars at the weekend, they list their hobbies as 'watching tv, going out with friends, having a laugh'.

(those are hobbies in the same way that 'cleaning your teeth' is a hobby)

your boyfriend is special, he has a passion that will burn like a fire for his entire life, he will experience highs that normal people cannot even imagine, and if you give him a chance he will take you with him.

his passion for cycling will keep him young, healthy, sharp and attractive for many long decades - as effectively as any fountain of youth.

encourage him, cherish him, and ask him to tidy his house a bit. he won't mind.


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 11:12 am
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LOL - I advertised (on here - in Classifieds) for a boyfriend and got no takers

Maybe they were worried about 3-in-a-bed 😉

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Posted : 16/10/2010 11:23 am
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Well, his lifestyle might be uncommon (generally) but its harmless.

Therefore the truly useful question is not 'is it weird?' but 'can I live with or adapt to this lifestyle and can he live with and adapt to mine without one or both of us being miserable?'

People dont change, we just think they might.

However much you might like him if he lives like this and you cant hack it then it will grind you down long term.

Where I live looks a bit like your description and I am female and like living among my interests and pets. Reality is, I will never become a tidy person who lives in a version of Architectural Digest with white carpets and palid furniture. There would be too much grease!


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 11:53 am
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Still remember when I went to Mogrips' for a week holiday and there was a bike in the bathroom... 😆 I had no idea what I was getting into!Oh the joys. 😉


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 12:31 pm
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So long as he moves some stuff to let you get your bikes and dog in, what's the problem? 🙂


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 12:38 pm
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gloats at being higher up the housing ladder [possibly] than Karin... I live on a narrowboat and all bikes are in the mooring/decking shed


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 12:46 pm
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So long as he moves some stuff to let you get your bikes and dog in, what's the problem?

+1


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 12:59 pm
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Narrowboats are way cool, but I chose the caravan so I can take my little home with me to races and events etc.

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LOL - I advertised (on here - in Classifieds) for a boyfriend and got no takers

Maybe they were worried about 3-in-a-bed

My dog would share, if you give her a biscuit 😉


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 1:52 pm
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My dog would share, if you give her a biscuit
What sort of biscuits ? posh ones in a tin?


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 2:00 pm
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Actually, I lied about the biscuit (for comedy effect*), what Missy really really likes is broccoli, indeed, she prefers broccoli to smoked salmon, 'tis true.

*a nod to the joke: On seeing his mate's dog licking its balls, man says "I wish I could do that", mate replies "Give him a biscuit and he'll let you"


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 2:03 pm
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I think it's weird

+1, unless there's nowhere else for the bike to be stored. I had to keep my bike in my room for most of my last year of uni and always felt like it was a bit weird 😆


 
Posted : 16/10/2010 2:18 pm
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When we were refurbished our house, i made sure it had a bike room for storing my bikes, but they still get repaired in the kitchen. There is currently a bike striped down in the kitchen waiting for a new frame.

But Mrs Nezbo (to be) knows that there are 6 girls in my like my 4 bikes and Mrs Nezbo and the Titchy the Rabbit in that order (sometimes the order of 4 bikes, Titchy and Mrs Nezbo)

So he’s perfectly normal to be, but I am sure he can be trained a bit 🙂


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 11:10 am
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The fact that you can see the bikes and they aren't covered in a pile of dust and clutter and unwashed clothes, pizza boxes etc bodes well.

But the dog has to go !


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 11:15 am
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Bikes upstairs, motorbikes downstairs, cars in the garage and trolls under the bridge.

All is good.


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 11:58 am
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I hope it's normal otherwsie I'm definately strange!


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:11 pm
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I'm a bit short of space where I live.
I was lying in bed one day, looking up at the ceiling, when I suddenly thought, "Look at all that wasted space up there. If I raised the bed up, I could store stuff underneath."

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There's a motorbike under that bed.
There's bike, motorbike and Land Rover bits in every room, but only ever one bike at home at any one time.
Do I win ?


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:19 pm
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i find it hard to believe i haven't posted on here yet.

between us, Jose and I have... 6 bikes, and 3 unused frames, in our one bed flat above a shop.

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and its a carpeted floor, with a 3m x 2m square of wood patterned lino in one corner to keep the filth off.
annoyingly, we are finding we are going to have a very clean corner to the carpet.


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:19 pm
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Yes MTG, you most certainly do win!


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:24 pm
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LOL - I advertised (on here - in Classifieds) for a boyfriend and got no takers

Judging by the number of 'Don't buy from so-and-so' threads on here...you'd only get disappointed when your preordered boyfriend didn't turn up or turned out to be not quite what you ordered.


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:32 pm
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Surfboards, windsurfers, motorbikes in the garage, two bikes in the hall (3 when the gf is here), two in the kitchen, cars in the street. Bike parts on the desk in the bedroom, ST mags, NS, Guardians, books around the bed. Oh, and a 'decorative' surfboard in the sitting room. Radiators frequently obscured by lycra and neoprene. All this is a manifestation of priorities and loves for one definitely outside that demographic.


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 12:59 pm
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No bikes in the bedroom here, but to get to the bedroom you will have to pass numerous bikes. At the moment each evening there are two in the kitchen drip drying from the snow, not ideal as we have a small kitchen. Most of the others are in the dining room. Bike bits everywhere though. I keep meaning to get more sorted but it doesn't happen.


 
Posted : 22/12/2010 2:46 pm
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Nice chair Olly;-)


 
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