[Closed] further to the scrote story

At the very least, keep everything well documented as supporting evidence on the off chance that it has an affect on her exam performance. Let the school know you're doing it for this reason. Exam/league table seem to be the only words that spark them into action these days.

Do you own a set of Bombers?

+1 for Ton's post (3rd one)
It does work..

No TJ yet, must be busy polishing his Halo 😉

just had some very constructive advice via email. many thanks.....

Just be careful and yeah I'd be flipping miffed.

Bullying is disgusting, can your daughter capture it on mobile video.

Bloody schools are powerless these days, we need the iron fist back and chuck these scoates out.

I'd be taking two weeks or the morning and afternoon off work and accompanying my daughter to school and also talking to the Headmaster each day, until the school got the message to deal with it! Hope you have a good weekend iDave!

Really sorry for you and your daughter mate. We had a problem this week with an older girl grabbing my daughter by the hair and threatening go beat her up. We went to see the head master and the girl was suspended today for 1 week.

We were pretty impressed with their response although it sounds like the girl is known to them and is close to being expelled anyway.

Why can't all schools take this sort of thing seriously?

i'll be seeing the head on monday, and putting some other activities into place should the head and police fail to prevent it occurring again

I'm 100% with Ton on this one

Many moons ago I was having problems with one of the local scrotes (I won't go into detail). I went to the police and they said that until he actually comitted an arrestable offence, there wasn't anything they could do. Despite them being depressingly familiar with his antics

Then the copper said to me "Off the record, what I'd do is get a few of your mates together and go and have a word. And i do mean a PROPER word!"

Said word was had. Result: The shit stopped there and then. Its the only language they understand unfortunately

oops. Double post

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I'd love to know what your preferred methods are idave, I read the other thread, didn't comment but was intrigued! You obviously have a lot of trust in them and I really hope they work! Got two kids myself and already dread the day any of this sh¥te occurs for us! All the best to you and yours and hope it all works out.

ton:

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Well thats' 50% of the odd couple accounted for.

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Kuco - Member
No TJ yet, must be busy polishing his Halo

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Perhaps TJ is still in a Londis shop talking to the local mentally ill chappie from another thread 🙂 or perhaps it was him.

actually my plan was to send TJ round to chat to her family for several years

I have to agree with Ton and a few others, let me get this straight though, I worked the doors in Manchester and Liverpool for over a decade, worked for Damien Noonan and a few other tasty chaps, so know a little about violence, I did the doors to keep the wolf from the doors and I have hurt people, some of then quite badly, I look back and wonder who that person was.

I am happily retired now with a great job and young family, but, if anyone hurts my kids or family, then I have a funny feeling that someone will get hurt, sod the police etc, it doesn't work with some of the scrotes around at the moment, if the bully comes from a respectable family then it will end once they get called into the school, if not then you have to resort to what they understand.

TJ you may not like this but at times it is the only way, if you turn up and try to reason with these people they will think that you are weak and nothing will change.

Short sharp shock I believe it is called

Chris

iDave, good luck dealing with the scum.
As my Krav Maga coach said: "If it's me or them it has to be them. And it has to hurt badly."

plod just phoned, scrote has been read riot act, i'll be doing same to school on monday - TJ will be kept on a lead for now.

on the krav maga front, if she used that she'd be in a load of trouble - she wants to get on with passing her exams

TJ will be kept on a lead for now.

my 13yr old daughter is terrified............ 😆

Inciting violence is a crime (just needed to get the disclaimer there) but

Break their fingers, or get 'someone' to do it for her!

well i've learnt a new term: "read the riot act"

To this day many jurisdictions that have inherited the tradition of English Common Law and Scots Law still employ statutes that require police or other executive agents to deliver an oral warning, much like the Riot Act, before an unlawful public assembly may be forcibly dispersed.

Because the authorities were required to read the proclamation that referred to the Riot Act before they could enforce it, [b]the expression "to read the Riot Act" entered into common language as a phrase meaning "to reprimand severely", with the added sense of a stern warning.[/b] The phrase remains in everyday use in English.

was keeping up with the other thread last night and about all i can say is best of luck idave. really hope your daughter comes through fine.

On a less violence oriented front (although I wud feel the same) when you visit the school mention you have written a letter to ofsted. Ofsted inspect schools and wud have an obligation to investigate claims that a young person was vulnerable but unsupported by the school. Info in bullying advice for you and your daughter www.bullying.co.uk
hope she's ok. Best of luck

good call emma, thanks. the school has a v good reputation, they'll want to protect that. today she had a plate of chips thrown at her and the teacher just said he'd make a note of it. i might launch a kebab at him.

Said word was had

plod just phoned, scrote has been read riot act

LOL - that will be utterly, utterly useless

police and schools have no effective powers to prevent bullying

The more you complain, the more you provoke the bullies

Finally, the police will tell you there's nothing they can do - probably while the bullies are listening

Your only hope is to move to somewhere with schools with a lower proportion of scum in their intake.

Eton or Westminster would be good

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the school is actually a very good school with a great reputaion. only one expulsion in 5 years. this works in my favour as it would be a shame if it became widely known that there were issues there right now... they have a duty of care, they're failing in it, and i'll be a thorn in their side until they get it sorted

Still keeping those issue resolving methods of yours a secret then.

The troublemaking kid probably has pondlife parents who have no duty of care and won't give a monkey about their offsprings behaviour at school. Hope you get it sorted

the school is actually a very good school with a great reputaion. only one expulsion in 5 years.

I think we're starting to see how they maintain that record... A friend of mine is a teacher and her last school expelled several kids a year but it was the safest in the area because they took no crap at all from kids or parents where the safety of other kids was concerned.

How come your school isn't taking this seriously? Most heads and teachers I know ( and I know plenty) abhor bullying and any school worth the name good have a robust anti bullying policy. If you're not getting what you want from the head ask to talk to the governors and ask them to look into it.

On a less violence oriented front (although I wud feel the same) when you visit the school mention you have written a letter to ofsted.

+1 OFSTED and also get in touch with your local cooncil's education department (as senior an individual as possible). An email CC'd to the headmaster and chair of the governing body complaining about a breakdown in discipline should begin some interesting conversations.

Update, and it's not good. Today scrote assaulted my daughter again, pulled out clumps of her hair, punched her, pushed her into a hedge in a totally unprovoked attack which had been threatened for the last few weeks. A teacher was present and was assaulted and injured attempting to protect her. Police weren't bothered initially. Took legal advice to get them to even come and take a statement. Now however scrote will be arrested. Horrible listening to my girl describe the attack. Scrote also came at me when i was at the school. It was very hard not to rise to it and deck the little cow. Our day will come. I had held back on activities, no longer. And the police have been a bloody disgrace.

Unleash a pile of shite from 10 miles up onto the little ****er and her no good family. Hope you get it sorted soon.

It was very hard not to rise to it and deck the little cow.

You should be very proud of yourself, well done for remaining calm. You can guarantee that she wants you to hit her, and then use that to her advantage. Horrible situation to be in, you have my sympathy.

You have my support in whatever you deem fit to do. Rule 1 protect your family.

****in ridiculous!!

I'm sorry but if this was my daughter then someone would have been on the recieving of a pretty severe bitch-slapping by now.

The scrotes in this country now do not regard 'the law' and 'the police' as the same thing. 'The Law' is their to protect THEIR rights as far as they are concerned. The police are seen as a minor irritant in proceedings, as they can always seek recorse to afore-mentioned 'Law' to protect themselves.

I listed before what I did in a similar situation. IT WORKS! Go and have 'a word'. I assure you, anything less and your wasting your time

im scared of "tango man" and wondering if he was ever in the movie essex boys??

Ofsted once again, get onto them, get a local paper, kick up a fuss. Call "The Sun" or "Daily Mirror" if needed. FFS It's your kid, do whatever it takes to sort the situation out. And write to your MP, complain about the Police inactivity, the school's unwillingness to act, the head's lack of action. Demand they look into it too.
And stay calm, don't punch her. By now I'd be teaching my daughter some Krav so the scum had it the only way they understand.

+1 for being in control, well done,

karma will sort it eventually don't worry about that, 😉

you did the right thing for sure, she was defiantly trying to get you in the mire,

I have two georgous girls 5 and 3 and i'm pretty sure i would want to slaughter the scrote,
2 years ago in spain, we had an intruder in our apartment at 3.30am, he woke my wife while climbing in our daughters window, i beat him unconcious with the help of a english police man next door, a local spainard thief high on drugs, it wasn't easy, it took 30 mins to knock the steam out of him, he was in a bit of a state, we did think we where going to get arrested, but the spanish police seemed to be amused by what we did to him, but it isn't that way here, be careful, don't ruin your life or your families,

carm and in control will win the day, as i said karma will dole out the rest,

good luck

said it once...knock **** out of the dad....it will stop then. 8)