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Just my experience with complete honesty but I have to say, although I love her dearly and she will say she has the best dad in the world, becoming a dad was the 2nd worst thing that I could ever have done (the first being getting into a work accident that has mentally and to a much lesser degree physically kiboshed me).
Maybe being a dad is not for you or you might as others above had said, love it.
I was excited during the pregnancy, intensely overjoyed and emotional at the birth and adore my 8 month old daughter more and more every day, watching her personality develop is fantastic.
However this is my second child, my first with my ex-wife was a whole different ball game, I just wasn't mature enough and the relationship wasn't solid.
Hope it all works out for you.