[Closed] Etiquette question.... possible lechery content..

Whether or not it's acceptable to look, would you feel that telling strangers on an internet forum that you [i]did [/i]look was (a) affirming your manhood or (b) proving you are a lecherous old man?

I think providing you don't lick them as she leans over to wash your hair you'll be fine.
That's what I've found anyway.

Just stare the next time, see what transpires.

Its bad form not too.

A mate of mine used to get his missus to shave his head for him. He then convinced her that to avoid getting hair on her top and getting itchy, she should do it topless. She went for it too. He was always sporting a fresh number one all over

dunno bout obvious looking but using them as pillows when they move in close is acceptable.

If they're showing, they're fair game. If women didn't want you to look, they'd hide them away.

you don't need to risk being caught, that's why they have mirrors all over the place

I didn't look largely because I don't think it's a pleasant thing to be ogled all day, but I'm intrigued as to what people think when they dress in revealing clothes.

I try to talk to the person, not the tits, if you know what I mean.

Talk to the tits, not the person. Gauge the reaction to see if its ok to look at them.

It was interesting that the other ladies who work there and who I know to say hello to seemed to spend time watching me while she cut my hair. I suspect she may not last long if I read the signs right.

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Marvellous

but I'm intrigued as to what people think when they dress in revealing clothes.

assuming you mean what women think i think it's safe to say that it's a long way from what men hope/wish/presume they thought

i often work with people who's job it is to look nice in or mostly out of clothes and they are just numb to it.

crikey - Member
It was interesting that the other ladies who work there and who I know to say hello to seemed to spend time watching me while she cut my hair.

Meanwhile, over on hairdresserworld.com ...

Is it ok to ogle a male customer if he's sporting a hard-on while looking at a colleague?

Druidh, I've been on nights and this was the first human interaction I've had for a week...

meanwhile, over on crikeysworld

i'm the centre of all these girls attentions, they are jealous because i am looking at the new girls boobies. Should I:

a) encourage fighting (with various shampoos/conditioners used

b)....etc etc

Genuine LOL @ druidh 😆

The other women in the hairdressers salon watched the new girl intently as she served the first customer. There was something about her that didn't quite fit in

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Ok, I'm not showing you the pics then.. FLOUNCE!

So....If ladies dress like that, is it ok to look?

you should be ashamed of yourself!

Of course its ok to look. how dare you question your manlyness!

Did she keep dropping her comb then, & did you notice if she was wearing panties 8O. A good clue if she wanted you to look is if she stood over ones of your legs when trimming your fringe so you get a faceful of boobies.

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which fine establishment is this?

I really miss having hair..... 🙁

Philistines the lot of you, I come on here asking a perfectly reasonable question with regard to modern manners and etiquette and all you can do is scoff. 😆
Now, how do I get my hair to grow quicker?

When I go to get a massage (from a proper sports masseause type) she always rests her ample bosom on my head while working on my shoulders. I told her that was my favourite bit and she told my wife! She still does it though!

a perfectly reasonable question with regard to modern manners and etiquette

I [i]think[/i] the well-mannered gentleman does not let any woman know that he has even noticed what she looks like while they are in public. In private it is sometimes appropriate to comment favourably, if he knows her well or if they are about to become intimate.

[i]I think the well-mannered gentleman does not let any woman know that he has even noticed what she looks like while they are in public. In private it is sometimes appropriate to comment favourably, if he knows her well or if they are about to become intimate.[/i]

Ah BD, I see you have been well brought up and are thinking along the same lines as me.

BigDummy with his commuting "companion" earlier toady.

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"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it!"

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I think BD is just improving his online image, in case any of the cyber stalkers he's picked up from his online dating activities have followed him here 🙂

now, any gent will tell you they never look.

Thats just bollocks.

A guy at my work refused to comment on a beatiful woman who waltzed into our office one day, stating that he "loved his wife". when we all reported we loved her too, he got a bit angry.

I really dont see the issue with appreciating beauty, as long as its not done in the manner of a patron of a porn cinema (at least not in public)
its entirely natural for humans to seek out the best of the species for breeding so have no qualms keeping my eyes peeled. Of course the real trick is to do this while the wife is next to you 😉

She was clearly begging for it

as gentlemanly as DruidH is, his membership of an internet dating site is proof, if any was needed, that in this day and age gentlemanly conduct is most often considered as some kind of disease by the fairer sex

a fella told me once:

"if women didnt want me to look at their ass, they better bend at the knee not at the hip.

Clear sign if they want it or not."

bit like fight club, do you you give them the balls or the ass.?.

rude not to imo.

'Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at.'

I walked down the street today with very short shorts on. I know I'm going to be looked at, probably more than usual. I take the decision to wear them anyway because I balance the slight discomfort of self-consciousness with the pleasure I get out of wearing bright purple short shorts..

She obviously takes pleasure from displaying her bosom, and if you don't look, someone else will..

Ok, how would you feel if the lady in question was your wife, girlfriend, lover, daughter, etc.?
Still ok for everyone to lech?

Ok, how would you feel if the lady in question was your wife, girlfriend, lover, daughter, etc.?
Still ok for everyone to lech?

Sure, just don't touch.

[i]Ok, how would you feel if the lady in question was your wife, girlfriend, lover, daughter, etc.?[/i]

How would you feel knowing that she was putting them out on display to other blokes? 🙂

Ok, how would you feel if the lady in question was your wife, girlfriend, lover, daughter, etc.?

Well my ex had big boobs (34E) she always put on display, couldn't care less if other blokes looked, she dressed like that when I met her, it's not like I'm going to tell her to cover them up now I was her partner. Anyhow it's more to make other women jealous.

I walked down the street today with very short shorts on. I know I'm going to be looked at, probably more than usual.

[i]I walked down the street today with very short shorts on. I know I'm going to be looked at, probably more than usual. I take the decision to wear them anyway because I balance the slight discomfort of self-consciousness with the pleasure I get out of wearing bright purple short shorts..[/i]

Ok, so slightly more seriously...
Is there a conciously sexual element to your choice of clothing? Do you wear stuff in order to attract the attention of men?

I know there's a fine line between sexy and slapper, I also know that men are not very good at knowing where the line is...

It has to be said though, that the OP has hinted at an interesting and as yet, mostly, unanswered question

So....If ladies dress like that, is it ok to look?

The hinted question behind this is what are people (usually ladies) thinking when choosing what to wear? What statement is a woman making when she wears a super short skirt and a top so low cut that it's a miracle the puppies don't spill out all by themselves? By and large blokes are tuned to spot these things quite quickly (and also quite adept at spotting and studying them without the SO noticing) and almost certainly will.

Yes, that's what I'm getting at!

Appears we had the same thought and posted at the same time. I couldn't be bothered to modify my post at the time though.

Agree though crikey.

Bound to kill the thread now....

i've already alluded to this:

assuming you mean what women think i think it's safe to say that it's a long way from what men hope/wish/presume they thought