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[Closed] Dutch man, 69, starts legal fight to identify as 20 years younger

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When is someone finally going to get round to removing the “B” from LGBT?! Totally out of date now

Back on topic, I can’t wait to be 20 years younger!


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 3:42 pm
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there’s a vast body of medical and cultural evidence for one causing people intense psychological pain, but not the other

which is not the same as not causing pain, just no one may have collected the evidence yet.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:03 pm
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which is not the same as not causing pain, just no one may have collected the evidence yet.

...and if pain is the measure of validity then Trans-people who don't feel "intense psychological pain" are somehow invalid which is harsh to say the least.

Then there's the issue of someone who *is* suffering "intense psychological pain" due to a mismatch of their own perception of their age and their "calender-age". That person *is* valid under the 'pain' criteria.

So is 'pain' a differentiator at all?

Probably best not to judge people at all, but if you are going to judge people, at least pick a decent metric.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:25 pm
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Anyway, now he's famous and all the Tinder wimminz know how old he actually is, changing his age will be a bit pointless eh.

[i]That person *is* valid under the ‘pain’ criteria.[/i]

Oh, I can assure you that there is a lot of pain involved when using Tinder.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:30 pm
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he’d have to start a legal fight to not be considered ugly

Now that really *does* pass the pain test. Being considered ugly by society when you know you're not really does cause “intense psychological pain”. DAMHIKIJDOK.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:34 pm
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It would have been a *lot* quicker to simply write “One causes people intense psychological pain but not the other.”.

in the interests of decent forum debate, there is no reason to deny a person the right to record a detailed account of their opinion - especially where it appears well written and reasoned - rather than attempting to capture it in easily digestible bites for the baying crowds.

Had nach just written the short comment, we would not have the benefit of its basis of opinion on what is clearly a deeply upsetting topic of conversation for some people. Perhaps, oob, you could keep your responses to less than sixty characters so we don’t have to wade through the chaff.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:39 pm
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Perhaps, oob, you could keep your responses to less than sixty characters

Ack.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:47 pm
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Does that mean if he wins he can only claim his pension 20 years later?


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 4:50 pm
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Does that mean if he wins he can only claim his pension 20 years later?

He did apparently say he's happy to give up his pension as part of the ruling... should he win.

Although I imagine him to be wealthy enough to have plenty of income so not to need a state pension.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 5:04 pm
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which is not the same as not causing pain, just no one may have collected the evidence yet.

Ageism is also an issue in our society, but if you think people in their 40's not wanting to bang a dude who's nearly 70 is ageism, I have some great deals to offer you on bridges.

OOB: thanks for all the very clear indicators for everyone to ignore your whataboutery.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 5:29 pm
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A 69-year-old Dutch “positivity guru”

He must be a pretty shyte "positivity guru" if he can't be positive about himself and his age.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 5:29 pm
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Anyway, now he’s famous and all the Tinder wimminz know how old he actually is, changing his age will be a bit pointless eh.

Not necessarily.

"Don't I recognise you?"

"No, I don't think so".

"Yes I do, you're the guy who changed his age so he could get his leg over with some younger totty"

"No, I identify as someone who has always been 20 years younger so I can't be the same person you're thinking of"

"But you look like you're 70, not 50"

"I identify as someone who had a hard paper round as a child, which wasn't as long ago as you think"

"Well, drop that zimmer and rip my knickers off then"

How can it fail?


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 5:34 pm
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<p>When is someone finally going to get round to removing the “B” from LGBT?! Totally out of date now</p>

<p>Oh believe me, there are plenty in that "community" who would love to see the back of the B's (not fully committed you see).</p><p></p><p>As for the difference, as said transexuals have biology and science on there side, age dysphoria does not since a persons age is simply a measure of time passed since birth. Unless he's going to tell us he's a time traveller he's failed at the first hurdle.</p>


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 6:14 pm
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 Unless he’s going to tell us he’s a time traveller he’s failed at the first hurdle.

Next thing you are going to tell me The Doctor is a woman


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 6:55 pm
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Although I imagine him to be wealthy enough to have plenty of income so not to need a state pension.

If he had plenty income/wealth he wouldn't need to go to court to become younger in order to match with the ladies. It's not like wealthy older men are kryptonite to attractive young women.


 
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Posted : 09/11/2018 7:08 pm
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Next thing you are going to tell me The Doctor is a woman

illegal alien who currently identifies as a woman actually


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 7:41 pm
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Thing is if he looks 49 he is a very aged 49!  To me he looks into his 60s


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 7:46 pm
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If he's successful I kind of hope that some woman meets him, shags him and then reports him to the police cos she identifies as an 8 year old.

Serve the **** right.


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 8:51 pm
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He's still going to die in the next 20 years. Probably be better spending his time and energy enjoying those years rather than wasting them being a tossbag..


 
Posted : 09/11/2018 11:31 pm
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As for the difference, as said transexuals have biology and science on there side, age dysphoria does not since a persons age is simply a measure of time passed since birth.

That's different to Nach's 'pain' difference, but leaving that aside is age simply a measure of time passed since birth? In one sense it is but I doubt this guy is asking to have the date he was born changed. I think age in this context is about aligning his age in years to the age the believes/feels is appropriate to him. That is different and loads of people feel an age different to their calendar age. In fact I think all of us do, which is why I'm surprised this is remotely controversial. (Well the legal aspect might be, but the fact someone feels a different age to their calendar age shouldn't be.)


 
Posted : 10/11/2018 8:29 am
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People regularly mistake me as being around 10-15 years younger than I am, but my increasingly achy knees and shoulder are adding the same amount to how old I feel, and meanwhile my brain insists I’m actually around forty years younger than I actually am.

I’m confused 😐


 
Posted : 10/11/2018 7:19 pm
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I’d happily say I’m 20 years older and get my state pension now.


 
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