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Sharki I'm sure they'd have found it creepier if you just showed them the video afterwards...
No not you Sharki, you sound nice!
Skanky is a great word. Just the right level of abuse, not too bad but at the same time, to the point
I sound nice? Aww thanks.
Now where do we stand with that word?
NICE
When i was married and i used 'nice' to express my opinion on what her hair, dress, shoes, GF, lover, etc, looked like i'd get slated for it.
It would either have to be it looks lovely or erm it looks fantastic/gorgeous. Well anything but nice.
I couldn't even say it looked horrible.
Nice was deemed as meaning, plain, ordinary, boring..
Is this the usual response from girls when nice is used?
(as my speech therapist kept telling me...) women do tend to use a wider range of adjectives in normal speech. Men tend not to. Can't quite remember why.
Your wife of the time was just probably trying to get you to widen your range - but unfortunately doing it in a negative way, picking on what not to do rather then on what to do. Women eh??
🙂
Rachel
there's loads of other things, too - men emphasise words using volume, women use pitch etc etc
"on paper" the whole lesbian affair thing sounds fun, but I think in reality I'd probably not be so thrilled after the initial excitement wore off and you realise that it's still cheating.
It think it may of stemmed from our primal beginnings.
Women would sit and socialise with each other whilst doing domestic duties. Whilst men would go out and hunt forage whilst just grunting to each other.
Women created a further range of words to use, so it's inbuilt in them to use them.
Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.
'Nice' is only one step away from being okay.
'Really nice' has a bit more impact but clearly is not as good as 'lovely' or 'great' or 'fantastic'.
TBH if I tell a girl I had a nice date... I'm probably not going to call her again.
Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.
lol - I know a few that still do!!!
"nice" can be used but, to me at least, it means something very specific - something like warm, comforting, safe.
edit - oo - just looked it up...
nice |n??s|
adjective
1 pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory : we had a nice time | that wasn't very nice of him | Jeremy had been very nice to her.
• (of a person) pleasant in manner; good-natured; kind : he's a really nice guy.
2 fine or subtle : a nice distinction.
• requiring careful thought or attention : a nice point.
3 archaic fastidious; scrupulous.
TSY. I understand that. 🙂
If i tried to use lovely, great, fantastic, she'd tell me i was saying it just to please her.
Therefore i developed a compromise between saying it looked great and her thinking i meant it looked skanky, by using the word nice.
I was never going to win.. Basically i lost 9 years of my life to a bitch who i wasn't meant to be with.
Moi bitter? NO!
I so wanna ask a question. But the mods will kill me LOL.
No go on, it'll be worth it. 🙂
go on....... do it!!
****ing hell Sharki I can understand why you just went off and rode bikes in the woods!!
She sounds like a right ball breaker... a bit skanky.
emsz - 15 min edit rule!! 😀
does that mean i have to keep refreshing my browser now????
I've not hit buttons like this since Daley Thompsons Olympics on the C64..
Do it.
Blimmey. DTO on the c64..i remember breaking countless keys and then joysticks playing that.
I'm trying to pre-guess the question...
Ok,
Blokes on here saying the gay girl thing is a fantasy. Why?
How long do I have to wait? 😉
Edit: I see emsz has put her question to the font of all knowledge STW'ers. 🙂
yeah - i wanna hear the answer to this, too
emsz - It's not so much a fantasy (IMO) but men respond better to visual stimulus. Women to verbal. If I'm being completely blunt I would rather see two women, than a man and a women. I blame Ron Jermey. 😯
I'm trying to pre-guess the question...
The question is obviously "what tyres for...?"
So, 1x Continental Rubber Queen + 2 x Schwalbe Nobby Nics?
Or 2x Continental Rubber Queens + 1x Schwalbe Nobby Nic?
Edit: I'm too fuggin' slow. 🙄
It's not the "gay girl" thing - it's the idea that a "straight" girl might be a bit naughty. Being naughty with another girl is OK (see 5thElefants reasons). Being with two naughty girls is just building upon that same reasoning - here's a chance to impregnate two women and double his genes distribution.
Me too. I'm so confused I might have to consult mumsnet, they'd LOVE this thread, right up their street
lol @ noteeth.
that's brilliant!!!
emma82. I've already put in on mumsnet.
Aleigh,I find I am in a heightened state of awareness after Round 1.As far as I recall anyway.
Have been cheated on twice over the years [in my 20s] but never felt the need for retaliatory actions.
Would NEVER forgive.Regardless if OH lickety-lib-labs or otherwise.
What you confused about?emma82 - MemberMe too. I'm so confused
Men have an extra little brain to think about these things. Its found about 3 feet below the "normal" brain.
how little?? 😉
Well its not very compilicated
We only have the blood to power one at a time though.
Hmm good one emsz.
Some men would look at another man and compare himself to him, thus being a distraction to the optimum gain.
So by having two objects that they desire in the same scenario they can watch without those distractions.
Quite often i'd assume.;) Whilst watching a couple displaying affection of a sexual matter, the man would imagine himself as one or other of the girls whilst being able to swap between the two of them.
If they could manage to not compare themselves to the other man, then they could easily enjoy watching man on woman action.
Girl on girl is more for those who're insecure , perhaps with a small willy or just not confident in bed, perhaps even selfish.
actually, that sounds really insightful, Sharky.
🙂
Rachel
TJ I'm just confused about the cheating thing, not the girl on girl thing, I get that :p
Tsy- what thread?
Edit - I was probably saying too much there.
Emma82 - The Love Story thread?
Sharki ok, so am I right in thinking that it's actually not an issue that it's gay girls just the idea that one of them ISN'T a bloke?
emsz - Member
Sharki ok, so am I right in thinking that it's actually not an issue that it's gay girls just the idea that one of them ISN'T a bloke?
That's certainly the way I see it. If the guy doesn't stand a chance of getting involved with either girl, where's the stimulation?
Has a conclusion been reached yet?
emma82 - MemberTJ I'm just confused about the cheating thing, not the girl on girl thing
What - why to some men ladies having fun is no threat?
I think it isn't really rational.
If MrsTJ had a drunk fling with a women I think I could forgive, with a man I doubt it. If she fell in love / had a full blown affair with either I probably couldn't forgive.
I guess the woman is not a threat. NO impregnation possible
It appears not to bee rational at all really.
C_G you gave us a conclusion a couple of pages ago about it not being black & white. Not really sure what we're talking about now...
[i]I guess the woman is not a threat[/i]
Unless she's far better at going down on your G/F than you are... 😀
No we did cheating.
Conclusion: it doesn't matter if it's with another girl or a boy, she's skanky. 🙂