[Closed] The rise of rudeness on this forum ?

tazzymtb - Member

been pretty sound folk

fixed that for you!

no one (myself included)from STW is pretty. Cyclists road/track/atb are all ugly ****ers with a dreadful dress sense (lycra 3/4's with baggies FFS!) and if the majority of the STW forumites I've met are anything to go by mostly broad of beam heavy treaders as well.

Puts down pie, lifts up hand.

In all honesty, I quite like the forum the way it is - including most of the attention whores 😀 Can you really imagine a list of the most prolific posters? The competition to get to number 1 would be fierce, but unremittingly dull.

Still think I might be onto something regarding the limited posting opportunities though.

Everyone I've met from here has been very pleasant in real life and I'm sure that would apply to the vast majority.

The "really nice in real life" thing sounds like the sort of thing we hear after somebody has been on a killing spree.

Not saying anyone from here is dangerously psychotic of course (because they might put me on their list).

No. It's words in the public domain. Publishing them requires the same concern, respect and consideration as any other means of publication. After all, we don't generally say, "it's only a newspaper.. Tv programme.. Or whatever". Saying it's only a forum othe Internet is just a rubbish excuse to try and get away with saying anything you like, no matter how insulting. You type it, say it, broadcast it or whatever and people will quite naturally react to it with whatever emotion they feel. You don't get a pass just because it's on the Internet.

i wasn't trying to excuse voicing opinions that are only there to inflame but rather people letting themselves be annoyed by what people they don't know post on an internet forum.
same goes for the mainstream media (tv newspapers) anyone who thinks what's reported/written is the absolute truth or the whole story is deluded. getting worked up about a bit of lazy 'journalism' is pointless.
"concern" "respect" and "consideration" are hardly at the forefront of the media. they come a long way behind profit and sensationalism.

Oh and Spoony: Mark Datz was a wind-up - and he was funny not rude.

if there are not a handfull of bans arising from the armed forces day thread, i for one shall vote with my feet. Im disgusted.

about to read some of "Oh Dear" similarly locked.....

*Adds cha****ng to list*

I can spot a Norwegian Bridge dweller from a mile away so I know when there's no need to get upset over their comments.

well that really is the shocker for the day, padded-**** gets yet another ban.

:yawn:

I cannot stand all this intolerance.

padded**** Que? Obi twa was smee. Who was fred masquerading as now?

This forum has taught me two things. One, the majority of mountain bikers are so lovely. Really. They'll help and advise people they've never met on all kinds of random subjects, send route maps through the post and patiently explain the mechanics of metabolism for anyone who asks. That's awesome.
The other thing I've learnt is the definition of the word troll. And that people with psychiatric disorders/problems are disgusting and not worth bothering with *shrugs* I knew some people thought that anyway. Que cera. The latter will never remove the happiness at finding the former, to be honest.

So, is there any reason for people on this particular forum to be so touchy and rude? Or is it the people who mountain bike, as opposed to any other sport/pastime.

I've very rarely seen an argument develop on skiing or clmbing/mountaineering forums as they do on here, for such incredibly trivial things.

I know for a fact that many of my friends look on here from time to time, but never post as they are scared of being 'flamed' by some desk-bound forum-warrior. That cannot be a good thing, yet looking at many of the posts above it would seem that most of the 'prolific' STW posters deliberately come on here for an argument! Why not come on here to either ask for advice or help someone out? Would that not be a more positive 'ethos' for a forum?

Still, this one's going quite well so far...

Let's hope no-one comes along anytime soon with the idea that sixty years after a supermassive black hole of grief that's still bleeding into the world, it's O.K. to say the sickness is funny.

i think in general that the forum is good.
i have met and ridden with loads off here,and never had a bad word/feeling about any of them (even barnes) 😆

some people do come on here just to wind people up...(i have done so in the past)
i now tend to not read posts put up by these people, and i think people will do the same about my post's.

it takes all sort's......... 8)

"And that people with psychiatric disorders/problems are disgusting and not worth bothering with "

hmm

"People with psychiatric disorders/problems are disgusting and not worth bothering with"

Well..... I've just finished taking my anti-depressants,anti-psychotics and mood stabilisers for the evening, so i'm gonna assume that that sounded better in your head than it looks on the page:)

dont mind a humorous insult - and you forget banter between people on here has built up over time so it is said between mates.
Dont mind having what I have said insulted or my reasoning but some people just call you a names which I find pointless.
Occasionally I respond after enough baiting

As well as the arguments etc, the thing that i find anoying is the people that insist on trying to put down people, who may not be particualy accademic. This forum is for people from all walks of life, some are bright/clever, but some may not be (me?) Is it the end of the world if someone makes a spelling mistake / poor gramma on the forum? i dont think so, and would certainly not try to discredit someone for it. They may be bad spellers but they may be a genius in their own life!
On a brighter note, there are some genuinly funny members on here, that i enjoy their comments, and hope that if i ever do meet them they are as entertaining in real life.

Dont mind having what I have said insulted or my reasoning but some people just call you a names which I find pointless.

evening shortar5e.......... 😉

manc.................. 😯

I've always worked to the theory that if the best comeback you can muster is to attack someone's spelling, you've already lost the argument.

Buzzlightyear/Jahwomble -> someone else informed me of this in a discussion about losing weight. It's not my view, it's someone elses here. I meant I knew people thought that, and you know, they can think what they like.
Yours, a fat person who's taken more pills than she'd like to admit to in an attempt to cheer the hell up. And for whom biking is anti-depressant in a non chemical form. Sorry guys, that was an appalling way of expressing things.

S'ok, I assumed it had just come out wrong 🙂

OK no worries.

I've always worked to the theory that if the best comeback you can muster is to attack someone's spelling, you've already lost the argument.

totally true. I try ot mkae my potss as spulling mistak free as pssoblie btu tehre aer poelpe woh cna't splel btu I woludn't atatkc tehm beacues of it!

loulou, feel the warmth............. 8)

Lou was saying "that's what some people seem to think" - not her opinion!

Spelling / grammar - some people are dysexic, don't have English as a first language, or downright can't spell. That doesn't necessarily make their points any less valid.

That said, I'm a proper grammar nazi when it comes to things like "professionally" printed signs and such, there's just no excuse. And I've little time for people who intentionally speak like 'tards.

We've already made up 🙂

And that people with psychiatric disorders/problems are disgusting and not worth bothering with

I think people can be unpleasant without being mentally ill, and this comment is prejudicial to those with real mental health problems 🙁

I've been on this forum for 7+ years and it's a better place for having more people even if I do miss kluster's uberleftfield comments...

crappy comments don't deserve a response imho

kaersae is a genius and made me laugh

no-one ever beats theprawn for trolling etc... forum legend. the rest just try too hard 🙂

My observations.

1. There are several who seem to spend almost every waking hour on the site
2. Their knowledge is vast........or is Wiki their friend 😉
3. Spelling really isn't important
4. Those who spout loudest about bullying are actually the worst offenders
5. Not everyone on STW votes labour
6. Some people take themselves waaaaay too seriously (see posts 4 & 5)
7. Most only care about their own viewpoint and don't bother reading threads properly
(so you are all @rseholes! See no-one noticed)
8. The Scots are easy to wind up (testing no.7)
9. The vast majority are genuine helpful people who really enjoy their bike(s)
10. Classifieds etiquette appears to have gone by the wayside. Does it really take that much to let someone know if you've changed your mind etc. ?
11. Thank god Ro has gone.
12. If the site didn't exist I would probably ride more/get more done but on the other hand, 3 of my bikes and parts have come directly from here.

So, on balance it's a damn fine source of knowledge and amusement [img] /happy-smiley-541.gif[/img]

I think people can be unpleasant without being mentally ill, and this comment is prejudicial to those with real mental health problems

I think people can be unpleasant because they are unpleasant people. What you may consider to be unpleasant is not what I would consider to be. Again, c'est la vie. FWIW 2/10 for the troll. Pathetic attempt.

I fail to see any connection between this and what I posted 🙁

I've not read all the posts but I've always held the belief that if you post it on the internet, you should be prepared to say it in real life, and that works for me.

A friend once pointed out to me that he did the opposite, on the internet he was reasonably timid and would be far less confrontational online than he could be in real life. Now this chap is 6'3" and heavily built. It was a nice contrast I thought.

edit: Ooh, also, some levels of humour simply do not convey as well on the internet as they do in real life, for sure. That's a big reason for the arguments on here I reckon.

I do wonder if some people would still say the things they do if they were within slapping distance.

I do wonder if some people would still say the things they do if they were within slapping distance.

for me personally, Yep, but then I'm a little sweetie that never says anything offensive and I look cute and fluffy, so even if I did inadvertently upset someone they'd never have the heart to slap me. 😀

I do wonder if some people would still slap the people they say they would if they were within slapping distance.

do civilised people still really slap one another over badly/well chosen words?

sheesh and that..

and indeed crikey

"do civilised people still really slap one another over badly/well chosen words?"

Nah but i.t. bods, keyboard warriors and other assorted mit mots and meffs constantly threaten, as they can be fairly sure that they will never get called out on it.

Handbags at dawn and all that.

Cougar - Member

I do wonder if some people would still say the things they do if they were within slapping distance.

Me - pretty much I guess altho some arguments would clearly have ended earlier or not started if we were face to face as misunderstandings would not occur.

I find this place fairly intolerant of views that don't meet the consensus. I have been on both sides of this one

I also find some people resort to infantile mockery when they have nothing left to debate with - that annoys me.

I was shocked when I arrived on this forum at the attitudes of some of the more caustic members.. (all of whom seem either rather transient or often misunderstood)..

I have met with some unpleasantness and I now half expect some kind of rude and petty argument each time I post and so I'm ashamed to say that I have adjusted accordingly..

I agree that many times poorly judged humour is to blame or often the demand to try and construct a concise and suitable response to a rude and irritating Wally when we really have more important things to do!

Occasionally I have been threatened with a beating on here. Never had one to my face though. Funny that! 😆

I view such behaviour on forums as the same with road rage. Mild-mannered people who simply seem to lose it when someone takes their space on the road/perceived insult etc.