[Closed] how do you tell your partner they are fat

Gets biscuits (hides them from OP's wife)

Link them to this thread?

So, if you live in Marple Bridge, and are married to a milkman called Craig...LAY OFF THE PIES!

send them a text

Buy her some trainers?

You don't think they know?

Buy them a mirror & some scales !

Offer to do something active together, or take on more of the cooking/shopping duties? Or when they buy new clothing, ask what's wrong with the old stuff. "how come you never wear that dress anymore"

If you've noticed then the chances are that he or she has noticed well before you. Don't do or say anything.

You can't, just be honest with her.

You don't think they know?

Here we go...

You could always get on with you own perfect life and let them get on with theirs?

Get her to go on a bogtrotters ride and Simon will show her big butt to the world!

leave the nhs BMI calculator open on the laptop?

or this chart?

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what ever way you tell them it WILL be your fault 😯

joking aside it all depends on what type of relationship you have as to how to approach this, only you can decided this as you know your partner.

Buy a 'Save the Whale' sticker for their underwear drawer?

mr grim
i think your right, very akward topic, love her to bits and she must have noticed, she eats chocalate like its going out of fashion, then goes to weight watchers, my approch is this blunt as i am
you eat to much excercise not at all and your getting fat, i love you but you need to do somthing about it or im of

i get pig noises from the kids when I'm eating too much..wouldn't hurt to try that?!

i dont have a perfect life far from it and i do like my food, but ALL things in moderation, i just was trying not to be to hash

Go to the park and play on the seesaw?

On the plus side no one else is going to want to s**g it unless they are a chubby chaser.

i love you but you need to do somthing about it or im off

Tell me you're having a laugh...

Make beeping noises when she walks backwards .

Buy a trombone and play it when ever she moves.

Arrange for builders to come round to quote for widening the doors.

Everytime she sits on the sofa/gets in bed, pretend to be flung up in the air.

Um...ok, i'm all out of mean 'funny' responses.

In reality I'm not sure...me and the wife joke about our flabby stomachs (although neither of us are fat really, just getting older). I'm not sure how I would tell my wife that she's getting less attractive cos she fat.

Perhaps tell her that you're lookin for local gyms for you two to go to as you think your BOTH out of shape (rather than singling her out), although this only works if you are also slightly out of shape.

Or you could subtly suggest going through your old clothes for charity shops, and ask her if some
of her clothes from a few years ago still fit...that might five you an opening to discuss her weight.

Alternatively, bite the bullet and say "you're getting fat, and I don't fancy you as much as I used to, could you think about eating less and exercising more?".

As was mentioned, she probably already knows.

Buy her some really expensive undercrackers, two sizes too small. Then tell her you'd have bought a 'G' string but you were worried she'd look like a joint of rolled pork.

Buy a trombone and play it when ever she moves

Superb!

Joking aside I do actually like a "big" girl. Each to their own eh.

I wouldn't have any problem telling my misses at all. If your that close to somebody there are no barriers are there? She tells me im fat and even insults my mother by saying shes a fat pig. You should be able to be straight with each other. If you have only just got together then thats different.

'AAVE A SALAAAAAHHHHD

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nielsonwheels earlier today 😀

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teasel, i am having a laugh, i wouldnt leave her for the world, i love her to bits just want to tell her that she is ..fat for the want of a better word

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Make oinking, snorting pig like noises whenever she walks in the room?

No?

Important thing is does she know she is over weight and if so does it bother her.?

only watch programmes on the subject?

you come on a forum with a serious question and all you get is tbh is how to insult youu better half, not what i expected

If she is genuinely overeating then you need to ask her why. Is she unhappy? Anything different in her demeanour?

my mrs just told me i was getting too big.
i got weighed and agreed with her.........and i am now over 2 stone lighter.
fat people know that they are fat trust me. it is just bad habits and lazyness that stops us from doing the right thing.
saviours like Idave and Solo are here to show us the way..... 😀

Well, in my wife's case, she just spanks my ass and shouts "watch that blubber fly".

She knows, you need to help make the changes in both your lifestyles to help her sort it.

My gf is by no means fat but she thinks she is, i got her started on a road bike last year and this year she is doing a divina's divas charity ride as a challenge. she has really enjoyed it

Can you do the cooking? say you fancy going on a diet, sick of eating fatty manky food makes you feel unhealthy

Both go to pilates classes together?

i'm no lady expert but on the tv don't they always eat when they are unhappy.....

you come on a forum with a serious question and all you get is tbh is how to insult youu better half, not what i expected

You must be new here.

i am having a laugh, i wouldnt leave her for the world

Good oh! Always hard to be certain on forums...

Buy a tuba, learn to play it in secret. Then follow her round doing a simple bom bom bom song. She'll get the idea..

Sorry to Hijack
difficult one this im somewhere at the oposite end of the issue . but I have been friends with this woman for years and we have allways had a thing. she is smart, sucessfull (70k a year job) Interesting , Kind, caring giving & would make good wife material .she wants to get together propperly but i have an issue. She is far from unatractive, but she is a little overweight and heavier set, call me shallow but i just dont get that sexual spark from her and that worries me, so much so that have actualy got the droop whilst engaged in it with her.

I have allways had relationships with Slim or Skinny women thats what floats my boat. I could have a great life with this lady but i Just dont fancy her ..and for me good sex is a huge part of any sucessfull relationship ..

Dont know weather to just be straight with her or **** it off !

for all you fellas out there that have super slim, fit women in you life your very lucky to have not had ask this question but one day you might, or she might even be thinking it about you

i just wanted guidence on the politest lest hurtfull way of saying it