Dont usually venture into the chat forum, but you guys are all friends, and I need a download.
Jan 8th. Wife annouces she is leaving me. 20 years and 2 kids down the spout. Make preparation for her to leave.
Feb 2nd. Mum has 2nd stroke. Admitted to hospital and contracts pneumonia.
Feb 8th.. wife cannot control herself and tells the kids we are splitting up (no mention of the fact that she is leaving me).
Early hours Feb 9th... Mum dies. holding her and my dads hand as she slipped away.
Long blur.......During which wife announces that she will move out on the 17th.
Feb 16th. Mums funeral day. Phone rings at 5am. Calls at that time never bring good news. Wife's nan died suddenly overnight. She was like a nan to me too.
10.30am Mums funeral.
1pm.. tell the kids about their great grandma, GG to them. Heartbreak.
Wife still moving out tomorrow.
Work.. well, not good.
So, how do you know when you have reached the bottom ? I thought I had hit it three times this year only to be plunged further. I'm a positive person, but you need to know when to start climbing again.
Sorry for the glum, I usually never post on chat, but needed to download to friends. Because, thats what this place has given me. Lots of Friends, some I have met and some I have yet to meet.