As long as the header tank on the hotter system doesn’t double as the header/expansion tank for the primary circuit you could use the same tank to feed both feeds although it would need to be a bigger tank and you would need to check that the roof/ceiling structure is up to the increased loads.
I’ve seen systems which use a boost pump to increase the water pressure of the feed to the shower and use an electric shower, although I’m not sure how these cope with inadequacies in the supply to the house and you would need a dedicated circuit for an electric shower capable of keeping up with the flow rates your looking at (most if not all electric showers require a dedicated circuit).
Went through the options above when we moved into our house but through a combination of relying on a solid fuel stove for heating and hot water and lack of funds I eventually found an electric shower that would cope with the low water pressure
If you need to ask about the pump power supply you need professional advice.