EDIT – beaten to it but in combination I think you have the answers you need!
what is dual air? Can the travel be adjusted?
> Dual air is where the +ve and -ve spring chambers can be independently set to fine tune suspension action. Dual air needs U-turn to adjust travel. Dual position air is where both chambers are set up automatically at the same pressure but allows you to drop the travel 30mm at the twist of a dial. Do not confuse the 2 names as they are very different.
what is the difference between the rev models?
> The damper – basically XX is race damping so firmer, RLT Ti is top end trail damping and plusher but less efficient. Explained well on the SRAM site. XX is less tunable than the RLT Ti but comes with a remote lever.
Which is the better fork?
>Depends on what you are riding but both Revs sound too long for a flux.
Are the sids the wet noodles of yesteryear? (saying that my partner has a set of red sids 100mm and they are fab!)
> No. Stiff as for an XC fork esp. with the bolt through option.
can any be locked out?
> All of them as far as I am aware.
Axel to crown heights?
> Rev 150s ~529mm, Sid 120s ~500mm
All advice recommendations welcome!
100-120mm SIDs or Rebas probably the correct forks for the Flux but will doubtless feel a bit lighter and flexier than the 36s currently on.