I understand your problem as I have similar.
I store my music on a computer and run a upnp/dlna server so I can access this collection, but that eats through my data plan plus I send it reduced so it sounds a bit rubbish. So I copy the files I want to my phone, which is as easy as plugging the phone to the computer and transferring the files. I don’t know why you are bothering with the older phone.
I can then play those files via bluetooth audio in the car, but that sounds horrible, so I end up copying the files to a sd card for use in car. Mp3 is probably good enough in the car as the system sounds rubbish anyway, but I can never be bothered to convert them as that’s too much hassle so the car storage fills up quickly.
But basically when I get a new cd and want it in other places, I put the cars sd card in the computer and plug the phone in the usb and copy the files to both at the same time and then it’s done.