Does this year get any better !
Mother in Law has put me in a predicament and Im not sure what to do…
To cut a long story short about 8 years ago she had skin cancer at the time all sorted out and is still okay.
On sunday she told me that another mole had gone all funny/crusty etc I asked shed been to the doctor yet, no was her answer she’s to scared to go, not had time as her husband (FIL) also been treated for cancer again he’s hopefully ok.
She asked me on Sunday not to tell her daughter (my wife) I said as long as you make an appointment ASAP.
Today I went over as the kids are staying at hers tonight (she lives 10mins from work) to set up beds etc. She is going on Friday to the doctors, we got talking again and the mole has been like this since the summer, wether thats good or bad I dont know nor do I want to know so please refrain from any medical stuff. Again I promised not to tell wife.
Now the thing is something doesnt feel right about not telling her like im lying or something, but on the other hand my wife could well do without extra stress even if its for a few days as her friend has the C (you can read about that on previous post )
On a selfish note if I tell her shes going to panic rightfully so and I dont need the extra stress anxiety that it gives me (I have my own issues)
When shes been to the doctors she will have to tell her I cant keep that from her…
I know none of you can give me the answer nor am I seeking one but any thoughts would be great…
Thanks in advance