I went to boarding school. Left in ’09 and fair to say the school turned me around.
I used to go to state school until half way through year 10. I was awful. The school had rubbish sport facilities, disinterested teachers and some rough peers that could make life living hell. I was failing all my GCSE related studies and only had sights on joining the Marines.
I was sent to boarding school as my parent relocated to Germany and the company offered to pay fees as I was mid GCSEs. I hated the idea of going to some posh school. I grudgingly agreed to go and I’m so happy that I did. I was in a boarding house of 50 people and it was like a family. A tough few weeks at the beginning but made friends quickly. Teachers and housemaster were unbelievably supportive. I never experienced anything like it. I even started enjoying classes. Small classes and the quality of teaching was like night and day. The fact that no one (really) misbehaved themselves made a huge difference too.
Extracurricular activities were incredible. Any sport you wanted to do was possible.
Living at school made me grow up a huge amount as well. I got so much freedom. I used to go on huge cycles after school and the teachers encouraged it! There was no big ugly fence around the whole school with gates and concrete everywhere and that made a big difference. We had a pub at school for sixth formers so you could drink from 16 onwards- that made a difference to how people treated booze too.
Those saying ‘its a bubble and not the real world’, wrong! I did 10 times more real life related things there. We did factory visits, work placements and more. Plus we had to manage our own pocket money at the tuck shop/pub/visits. We had to sort/wash our own clothes. When you go to uni, you can really tell who went to boarding school. They are much more mature and handle themselves better.
Looking back at it, it was an amazing and life changing journey for me. I’ve now ended up doing a BSc and an MSc at a Russell group universities and got a graduate job at the end of it. It was all down to the boarding school. The state school gave me absolutely nothing.
Probably sounds soppy but it’s my experience. It’s the number one thing I want for my kid (if I ever have one).
Edit: the state school was/still is classed as the best in the county.