Despite being female, I don’t often comment on these threads. I am an old lady. Yes, a real one, not one those those fake 40-something “old ladies” – I even have my state pension!
So I accept that I’ve been “beaten down by sexism since the day they were born”, and younger people might find my opinions outdated, or just plain weird.
However crazy-legs analogy with cycling fits neatly with my approach. I used to ride a motorbike every day, and tried to practice “defensive driving” techniques. So I assumed that every other road user was an aggressive idiot, out to kill me, and made sure to stay away from them. For example, simply let them overtake, rather than me accelerating away, to get some space between us.
I also dressed in an appropriate fashion for motor-biking (eg no bare arms or legs). And I tucked my long hair out of sight (mainly to prevent it going ratty) which affected other people’s perceptions of me.
I’m happy to be cautious on the road, and on my mountain bike, and generally when “”out and about”. It’s kept me relatively safe so far, and I no longer have to even think about it.
So there we have it, just one old lady’s observations . . .