On my commuter, I’m currently mixing between GP4000s in the summer, Durano Plus through the depths of winter and Gatorskins for the rest of the year. My criteria is that, I really can’t be dealing with punctures of cold dark nights in the winter, but I like to go faster int he summer and will put up with the occasional flat as a result of running grippier rubber.
On the ‘weekend’ road bike, the compromise is more towards performance, so some old-stock Michelin Pro3’s are doing sterling service on the training wheels.
I think it really comes down to where your priorities lie: find a compromise in comfort, puncture resistance, ride quality, grip, weight, rolling resistance, price that suits you’re needs.