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[Closed] Yesterday I did something stupid, but would have done the same?

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I like dogs but I shy away when humans treat something lower down the food chain as basically 'one of the family'.

Its a pet not a surrogate child FFS.

Now can we have a mosh thread please 😆


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 8:57 pm
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I wonder if you'd still think you'd done the right thing as the cold flood water fills your lungs...


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 8:57 pm
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Dogs live ~10-12 years, people might have 5+ dogs in their life, they die you get over it eventually. That's quite different if it is your father or son...

Not to mention if someone else is killed in the process. How would you feel if you And your dog got out but the person who saved you didn't? Any normal person would never really get over that.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 8:58 pm
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Sorry, but I hoped that this thread would die the quiet death it deserved.

As somebody who has trained people in Water Safety for 10+ years, acts as a tester for water safety equipment and performed rescues in water the OP's actions were reckless in the extreme. If you make an emotional reaction to an emergency situation you had better be very lucky. The floods recently always bring back memories of tragedies and lucky escapes that I have seen.

If you take the emotional responses to these situations, particularly those involving nearest and dearest, whatever species, we all know that we would think:

"I need to do something."

However from bitter experience that thought, more often than not, involves the death of the person thinking it unless trained and resourced to do the job. You still need all the bravery and luck that you would to get in, but you would know how to change your actions as the situation develops. Very few people can sit by and watch events unfold without wanting to get involved. In cases such this a very small change in circumstances leads to a very different outcome.

So if you want to get in by all means do so, but think: think of the people that may then have to get you out of the situation if things go wrong; think of those you may leave behind if you do decide to get in; think what you can do with the least danger to yourself. Have a back up plan, make a call and be lucky.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 8:58 pm
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Ours is a surrogate child, probably explains a lot about me.
Still, I can see this is just becoming a good old stw circular argument & Moonfleet is on telly so I'll default the win to the none dog lovers and keep my blood pressure at a reasonable level. X


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:00 pm
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To the I'd risk it crowd- If you loved dogs THAT much you could not take it to be put down at the end of its life.

Comeback to sanity, its nowhere near worth a human life. Ever.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:03 pm
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mattbee,why didn't you adopt a child?Or do you not like people?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:05 pm
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Again you make a few reasonable points binners and then you just go back to calling all dog owners stupid and then start bleating when someone responds in kind.

Hora, are dogs lower in the food chain? I would suggest that wolves and humans are on very similar trophic levels. Not sure daschunds etc count.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:05 pm
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I wonder about the psychology of dog "lovers" Do they feel that dogs are the same as people on an emotional level? Is that because of,or in spite of,a dog's low intelligence level,and inability to communicate in any meaningful way?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:13 pm
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Oh,and it feels very odd to agree with hora 🙄


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:15 pm
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Are dogs that stupid? Many can be trained to do all sorts of useful things such as guide dogs or assistance dogs. They are able to read and respond to human emotions in ways that truely stupid animals, sheep for example cannot. Mind you the question on this thread isnt about intelligence its about how you respond in stressful situations and even the op said what he did was stupid. Dogs play on human emotions in much the same way as kids do, acts seemingly altruistic are in fact from an evlutionary point of view rarely altruistic. We are genetically programmed to respond in these ways that put us at risk.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:22 pm
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Grow up,and stop treating them like that,dogs and kids.Treat the dogs as the animals they are,and the kids as potential human beings.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:25 pm
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Was that post aimed at me? If so you might have to explain just wtf you are talking about. If not feel free to carry on ranting.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:31 pm
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AA you appear to be saying that dogs have human like intelligence and emotional responses like children,if my interpretation is incorrect,please explain,otherwise feel free to carry on ranting.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:38 pm
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Try reading it again


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:40 pm
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why didn't you adopt a child?Or do you not like people?

I wonder about the psychology of someone who'd post something so jaw-droppingly crass


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:43 pm
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Your dog, your life, not sure there is anything else to discuss is there?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:43 pm
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Dogs play on human emotions in much the same way as kids do

Now I know what you mean, and I dont disagree, but you could have clarified. It is not unreasonable to claim this means you are comparing them


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:44 pm
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Based on actual science rather than emotion, dogs aren't even in the top 10 for intelligence. So if you are basing on that I hope you don't eat pigs and I'm sure you treat rats with the same respect as a human being as they are considered smarter then dogs.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:44 pm
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This is going well.. 😀


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:44 pm
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huckleberryfatt,my wife and I could only have one child of our own,we wanted a larger family,we didn't buy a dog,we adopted a child.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:45 pm
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a dog is not worth the loss of a single human life. how many family members would mourn you for years to come ? a dead dog however the is owner upset for a few weeks, then replaces it with another pup.
last year a lad went in after his dog, his brother went after him, and then the father went after both of them.all three died, the dog trotted off. thousands at the funerals, go figure


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:46 pm
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If taken in isolation from the rest of the post and you read it determined to find fault and with preconcieved ideas about what you want it to mean. Even then thats not what it means because thats not what it says. My dog shows very few emotions but is able to read mine very astutely at times.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:47 pm
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Based on actual science rather than emotion, dogs aren't even in the top 10 for intelligence. So if you are basing on that I hope you don't eat pigs and I'm sure you treat rats with the same respect as a human being as they are considered smarter then dogs.

based on actual science wolves are thought to be better at problem solving than dogs, but dogs try and get the experimenters to solve the problems because they know that the humans can do it. Is that stupid or not?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:50 pm
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My pet dolphin - Colin - is miles more intelligent than any dog! Has never needed rescuing from a river, and as an added bonus, I've never stood in one of his turds that he just curled off on the pavement outside the front of the house


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:50 pm
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You know AA on rerereading your post it is even more worrying,are you saying that human beings are genetically programmed to respond to manipulation by dogs?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:52 pm
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Thejesmond...., your comment about adoption was aimed at me. At least you knew that my wife and I had been declined as adoptive parents, it would have been a bit thoughtless of you to have just assumed we hadn't exhausted every ****ing possible way of having children, wouldn't it? Since you know me so well. I mean, dogs are just bloody stupid animals whereas people are so intelligent...


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:53 pm
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To the I'd risk it crowd- If you loved dogs THAT much you could not take it to be put down at the end of its life.

Some people take their loved ones to be euthanised if/when they deteriorate to the point of having no quality of life. Is it not the same thing?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 9:58 pm
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Sorry mattbee,not aware of your adoptive problem or wouldn't have made the comment,my apologies to you and mrs mattbee,it wasn't meant to be so offensive.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:00 pm
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Your dog, your life, not sure there is anything else to discuss is there?

Not always the case, though. Not when someone has to go in and find the owner of the dog.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:00 pm
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Thankyou. I appreciate that.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:06 pm
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I think some people on this thread need to get out for a ride.
They seem a little up tight and in need of a bit of an outlet of all their pent up feelings.
The OP saved something he loves.
Seems like he did the right thing to me.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:10 pm
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Stu - I couldn't agree more mate! I've not been near my bike for a month due to my spazzy shoulder. Hence me being an even more insufferable dick than usual!

Sorry to everyone I've called stupid!


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:20 pm
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Binners.
A couple of wet and cold nightrides and a few beers in the pub after will see you back to full mental wellbeing. 🙂


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:23 pm
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my apologies to you and mrs mattbee,it wasn't meant to be so offensive.

Thankyou. I appreciate that.

Sorry to everyone I've called stupid!

😯 I've woke up in some STW alternate reality..


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:24 pm
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Khani,I don't mind offending people,but I don't like hurting them.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:28 pm
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You know AA on rerereading your post it is even more worrying,are you saying that human beings are genetically programmed to respond to manipulation by dogs?

nope, keep trying


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 10:54 pm
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To the OP: Yes I would have done the same, well done for saving your furry friend. And yes, it was a stupid thing to do 🙂

Dogs are ace. Whether they are intelligent or not intelligent is beside the point. You love them, they love you.

Dogs and bikes. Bikes and dogs. The two best things that ever happened to me 🙂


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:12 pm
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Oh AA you're so mysterious,why don't you just say what you mean?


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:16 pm
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My pet gibbon - Nigel - has just looked up contemptuously from the Times crossword and remarked that dogs are even more stupid than squirrels! And you should hear the jokes he tells about squirrels


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:18 pm
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Oh AA you're so mysterious,why don't you just say what you mean?

I did.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:23 pm
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[i]just view dogs as a noisy, filthy, smelly, stupid and potentially explosively violent, crap-generating nuisance. [/i]

To be fair, that description applies to lots of people as well.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:25 pm
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Must be me then,not owning a dog has obviously made me moronic.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:29 pm
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just view dogs as a noisy, filthy, smelly, stupid and potentially explosively violent, crap-generating nuisance.

To be fair, that description applies to lots of people as well.


Football fans spring to mind.
Even my dog thinks they're stupid...


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:29 pm
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I'm quite surprised by some of the responses here - I think mainly the idea that people believe they're somehow correct in the arrogant opinion that we're somehow more important than any other creature on the planet.

Of course, our survival often depends on prioritising the importance of our own being, that of our family, and even of our species. But to state, like it is an absolute fact of the universe, that human beings are the most important thing on this planet, is ****ing stupid. We're only important to ourselves.

OP, you obviously feel a strong bond with your dog, and you did what you felt you had to do at the time. Well done. That compassion is one of the greatest features of the human race. It just doesn't seem very prevalent on STW.


 
Posted : 28/12/2013 11:33 pm
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