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Want to truly have empathy for animals? Stop owning pets

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https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/04/want-to-truly-have-empathy-for-animals-stop-owning-pets

<span style="font-size: 0.8rem;">Whilst I agree with many of the points raised in article, the author's outlook seems overly negative and rather throwing the baby out with the bath water. I mean I wonder if the author would take the same extreme viewpoint on having children, as there is so much individual suffering and environmental damage caused by that. </span>

<span style="font-size: 0.8rem;">I think close contact with pet animals generally increases people's empathy for animals. I don't think humans before pet ownership saw animals as anything other than prey or a threat and they would have been killed without hesitation. Would our ancient ancestors have been dedicating time and energy to saving an injured or orphaned animal?</span>

Like everything in this complicated, messed up world pet ownership needs huge improvements but is stopping it altogether the answer?


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:16 am
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Or just get a cat. Cats don't have owners, they have staff.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:18 am
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There's always one or two at the loony end of the spectrum, in both directions.

Myself, I could have a dog or a cat... or many many rats and mice.

I choose dog.

Also, I question a goldfish's ability to be bored.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:22 am
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I don't have pets.... or empathy.... I'm mostly devoid of feelings 🙂


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:26 am
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I’m mostly devoid of felines

FIFY


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:29 am
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Came real close to adopting a rescue greyhound over Christmas - I love dogs and WFH makes having one much more sensible, Mrs Pondo couldn't quite get on board and it has to be a two-player game, it does compromise what you can do. I'm prepared to, she isn't (quite), so no dog just yet. 🙁


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:36 am
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Go on then.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:37 am
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Well that article's a bit late.

We went and looked at a Cocker Spaniel puppy last night and he'll be home with us in a few weeks time!


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:40 am
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It’s sad that the Guardian resorts to click bait


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:43 am
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I don’t think humans before pet ownership saw animals as anything other than prey or a threat

Collaboration with animals is exactly what defines us as a species and how we evolved the way we did  - we don't need incredible hearing or senses of smell or fangs or claws- we can extend our senses with dogs, extend our speed and  range with horses, navigate oceans with ravens....and  ummmm open tins for cats.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:46 am
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What a load of rubbish click bait.

Next weeks story will be if we really want to save the planet we should all just kill ourselves and be done with it. Mother earth will get along fine without humans.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:47 am
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Oops, just got this Labradoodle pup a few weeks ago! WFH does make it easier, but with my kids being 12 and 14 I've forgotten what sleepless nights were like.....and cleaning up piss and shit....Shes great though!

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Posted : 08/02/2023 9:54 am
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We have rescue hens. Ive just popped out to ask them their thoughts on this. Apparently they prefer being pets than mcnuggets.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 9:59 am
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A miserable rescued dog earlier...


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:01 am
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but with my kids being 12 and 14 I’ve forgotten what sleepless nights were like…..and cleaning up piss and shit…

Dont worry - it won't be long before they start drinking


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:01 am
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Member of 'staff' here to 4 cats. Bloody door man in the evening !  Our cat's are house cats (3 pedigrees and a rescue with cat flu), so have a run in the garden (quite extensive). With it being cold, we shut the door to the conservatory, so they access the run via the conservatory window. One in particular is in and out all evening. Let him out, 10 minutes later he's in banging on the window to come in. Let him in. Two minutes later, he's either banging on the window, ripping at the carpet, or standing on you meowing  to go out. This goes on all evening, then you add in the other three who are slightly less frequent.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:02 am
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I’m mostly devoid of felines

Deserves more recognition- bravo sir, and very quick too!


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:02 am
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Pets are great for teaching kids responsibility for others apparently, although in my experience once the novelty has worn off, it is the parents who have to walk the moving shit factory every day. After that, pets seem mostly there for the amusement and vanity of the owners. If you are happy to treat another sentient being as a toy then fine, fill your boots and I am sure the animals are either grateful or too dumb to know the difference.

I don't have kids or pets.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:04 am
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What a load of rubbish click bait.

This.  I expected better of the Guardian.  Even if there's a valid point to be had here, it's expressed exceptionally poorly with loads of non-sequiturs and whataboutery.

Eg, "It is hard to fathom the boredom of pet fish" - well, yes, it is, but this is begging the question.  Are fish bored?  Do they bob about in fishtanks longing for a game of Canasta?  Are they pining for you to get home and put the telly on because Arsenal are playing Man U at 7?  Whilst we're here, have we researched the excitement levels of our lawn?

Eg2, "dogs are often hit by cars."  The number one cause of testicular cancer is "having testicles," what does the author propose as a solution here?

I could go on but it's too early on a Wednesday with too little coffee for me to give it further credence.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:07 am
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Dont worry – it won’t be long before they start drinking

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Posted : 08/02/2023 10:12 am
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Our cat’s are house cats... so have a run in the garden (quite extensive).

Would you mind sharing a photo of that please?

With it being cold, we shut the door to the conservatory, so they access the run via the conservatory window. One in particular is in and out all evening. Let him out, 10 minutes later he’s in banging on the window to come in. Let him in. Two minutes later, he’s either banging on the window, ripping at the carpet, or standing on you meowing to go out. This goes on all evening, then you add in the other three who are slightly less frequent.

Cats don't want to be out or in particularly, they just don't like closed doors. Fit a cat flap?


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:15 am
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Came real close to adopting a rescue greyhound over Christmas

Do it, wonderful dogs. Lazy and occasionally aloof, but still amazing.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:15 am
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If you read the article on an non individual scale then it makes sense.  It is not saying you have a pet therefore you are a bad person, but there is more going on here that deserves looking at.  My take on it is that it has gone away from being domesticated by dogs, or the other way around we aren’t quite sure, to the benefit of both to most of the benefit being for the human.  There are plenty of exceptions, but there any many times that people get a pet to help with something missing in their lives that potentially used to be filled with people.

As a highly social species when we stop living in social groups and become isolated then pets have often filled the gap.  If the level of pet ownership has increased so much then it is good to ask the question about how we are functioning and why people get pets.

As usual people have taken the article personally rather than looking at the population level question being raised and critically analysing their own situation in light of the different perspective.

For full disclosure I keep chickens, that mostly feed themselves and I provide some shelter (when they deign to use it). The local fox takes a few occasionally and I get a few eggs.  I also used to have rabbits when my oldest had mental health issues, but as they got better we both felt they were not getting the life and attention we wanted for them, so they now have a large garden to roam in and two more children looking out for them.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:32 am
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Bored shitless rescue dog
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Is that a mythical Brocken Spectre that I can see from the top of this mountain? Oh well....I'm still bored.

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Posted : 08/02/2023 10:32 am
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I haven't read the article but, too many pets are overfed, under exercised, therefore overweight, this is not kindness, it's treating the pet as a fur baby.

If people really want a pet they should go to a rescue centre. These centres are overrun with unwanted guinea pigs, domestic rabbits, dogs, cats and many other animals.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:33 am
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Or just get a cat. Cats don’t have owners, they have staff.

Indeed. God knows what our cats would do if i wasn't there to provide them with the 24 hour running buffet they've come to expect

Let him out, 10 minutes later he’s in banging on the window to come in. Let him in. Two minutes later, he’s either banging on the window, ripping at the carpet, or standing on you meowing  to go out.

Working from home, this is my entire day. I've just had to get up and let one of the little sods in now. He only went out 5 minutes ago

If people really want a pet they should go to a rescue centre. These centres are overrun with unwanted guinea pigs, domestic rabbits, dogs, cats and many other animals.

Ours are rescue cats. One (Nelson) was found abandoned and feral. He's as soft as anything


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:36 am
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@cougar, I'll see what photo's I can find on the phone. Cat flap won't work well in two full height patio doors ! It's fine when it's warmer as the door is left slightly open.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:37 am
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Once I find out just who's cat is shitting in our garden I'll happily watch them picking up the poo instead of me, until then I will remain full of hatred and rage for the pet owners of the world.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:44 am
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@cougar,

This section links up to the conservatory side window - this was the original section. It's about 3m long and 1.2m deep

https://www.flickr.com/photos/166882394@N07/52676826768/in/dateposted-public/


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:49 am
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Then this extension runs under the arbor, and a tunnel along the back of the garden, with the additional 'chicken' coup over the fence (spare land ahem)

https://www.flickr.com/photos/166882394@N07/52676617559/in/dateposted-public/

The tunnel needs replacing this year as the timber floor is starting to warp.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:51 am
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Oh, that's brill!  Thanks.

I ask because I have indoor cats, I've idly tossed about the idea of 'controlled outdoors' for a while now.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:56 am
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Once I find out just who’s cat is shitting in our garden I’ll happily watch them picking up the poo instead of me, until then I will remain full of hatred and rage for the pet owners of the world.

Get a dog? I recommend a sighthound. They love cats!

Since rescuing ours, cat shit in the garden has ceased. And a few of the slower cats have lost a little bit of fur.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:57 am
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The article makes good points but takes them to strange places. The solution to mistreatment of domestic animals is to gradually eliminate them as a species?

I think the argument against owning birds or caged rodents is stronger, since they clearly don't want to be caged and need constant attention to not get bored. Cats and dogs have cohabited with humans for a long time though.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:59 am
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If you read the article on an non individual scale then it makes sense.

I'm unconvinced.

<span style="font-size: 0.8rem;">Even if the author's point it did make sense, it's terribly presented.  "Thinking about getting a goldfish?  But what about all the wolves, you monster!"  It is, frankly, a weird article.</span>

Cat flap won’t work well in two full height patio doors !

You can get flaps to fit glass doors (or your window).


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:59 am
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Cougar

Cats don’t want to be out or in particularly, they just don’t like closed doors.

You sound like you might be projecting here.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 10:59 am
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I knew there had to be a reason I carried lockpicks.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 11:07 am
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@ Cougar

we also have a "Catio" with tree branches and trunks, multi level sleeping pods, loads of plants etc.. for our 3 indoor (rescue) cats and then walk the wee fuzzy blighters in harnesses daily


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 11:34 am
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Our 'catio' is a little more overgrown at the back now - got a few climbing honeysuckle on it that  have to go over and 'control'.  We got the chicken coup via amazon - worked out cheaper than the timber needed to construct it, but the platforms inside did add up in cost terms. The cat's love it and will use the bark at the bottom for toilet duties, hence reducing the litter we need. The original section was over an existing border, with plants in it already. The wire is bird cage netting, and ordering on-line is much cheaper than DIY places.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 11:48 am
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@ Cougar

we also have a “Catio” with tree branches and trunks, multi level sleeping pods, loads of plants etc.. for our 3 indoor (rescue) cats and then walk the wee fuzzy blighters in harnesses daily

I experimented with harnesses.  It ended... predictably.  I might try again now they're a little older.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:21 pm
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Intruiged as to why people (who have gardens and doors outside) have house cats.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:42 pm
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Intruiged as to why people (who have gardens and doors outside) have house cats.

I like cats.

I don't particularly like injured or dead cats.

🤷‍♂️


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:46 pm
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Trying to show empathy with animals by limiting pet ownership is small-fry when compared to the realisation that 2/3rds of the mammal population currently on the planet are bred so that humans can eat them.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:46 pm
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Slow news day !


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:47 pm
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Here's our two bored, depressed, unloved, non-walked, neglected & lonely pooches......

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Posted : 08/02/2023 12:50 pm
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We've a rescue dog from a kill shelter in romania. Figured if we were going to enslave an animal we may as well kill it with human kindness rather than lethal injection.

She spends most of her days watching me on the laptop between getting fusses and sleeping, with the periodic wander around the local field where she ignores all other dogs, and trips to the beach, and overnight adventures in our tiny camper.

Such is our desire to keep her burdened by not being euthanised, we've been housebound for the past 4 weeks looking after her after she had a bout of GDV and surgery, then surgery for a disc prolapse (our insurance currently loves us). So has needed a lot of rehab, but is on the mend.

her tail keeps wagging. she still nudges us whe she wants more fuss. she greets us with an excited 'smile', a kinda wonky tooth bearing thing. no idea how she figured that out, she's always done it for her people. 🙂

made me realise that I like dogs more than humans.


 
Posted : 08/02/2023 12:51 pm
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