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Where else can you get to chat with clients who are direct descendants of Agincourt archers who still live in the same valley and farms as they did some 600 years ago.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 11:02 am
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Loving the generalisation of the Welsh going on here.
I have lived and worked all over the UK and am currently in Austria.
What I have learnt from this is that generally, if you are nice to the locals, they will be nice to you. If however you come across as an arsehole, you will be treated as one.
Another plus might be to learn a bit of the local language, even if it’s only the word thank you. I speak Welsh and English fluently. I speak very good German and my Portuguese is quite understandable. I could have not bothered learning another language and just spoken English to everyone as we all know “everyone understands English so what’s the point in learning anything else“.
My point is be nice, locals will be nice. Be a dick and suffer the abuse of the locals.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 11:14 am
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What I have learnt from this is that generally, if you are nice to the locals, they will be nice to you. If however you come across as an arsehole, you will be treated as one.

*Applauds*


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 11:39 am
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Riding round Beddgelert Forest once a couple of blokes in full camouflage gear with a hunting bow popped out of the trees. I asked them in English what they were hoping to get. One replied something in Welsh gesticulating wildly which I took to mean **** off back home you English **** but could equally have been an enquiry whether I wanted to buy some cheap venison sausages.

Another time me and a mate from the FoD went to TJs in Newport to see a Welsh punk band called Anhrefen (or something very similar). During one fairly lengthy song break they were urging a very receptive crowd (well 3 other blokes and a dog) to go round painting out the English on road signs and burn down English holiday cottages. Ironically they must have been saying this in English otherwise I wouldn't have understood it. That was the night I perfected my Welsh accent and a toleration for Brains beer.

No one burnt my tent down wildcamping up The Cambrian Way and back down Offa's Dyke recently but I'm sure I got overcharged for some pork pies in Mallwyd.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 12:20 pm
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Doesn't that just mean that they spoke Welsh in your vicinity?

No, I`m perfectly used to that, but when you walk into a shop and they speak to you in welsh and you politely say "sorry I dont speak welsh" and they continue to talk to you in welsh even when you again say you dont understand it can be a bit annoying.

I wouldn't expect any different in france or spain... but you know for a fact these people can speak english so you would think if asked politely they could talk to you to let you buy something rather than make you leave because you dont know what they are saying...

and I was only about 11...


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 12:24 pm
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No, I`m perfectly used to that, but when you walk into a shop and they speak to you in welsh and you politely say "sorry I dont speak welsh" and they continue to talk to you in welsh even when you again say you dont understand it can be a bit annoying.

Right, so the people in the shop were speaking Welsh. You told them that you couldn't speak Welsh and they continued to speak to you in Welsh - forcing you to leave.

I don't believe you. Where and when did this happen?


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 12:52 pm
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iolo +1 (particularly the last point)
I’ve lived studied and worked in Wales and made the effort of learning a few phrases, just as I have in all the countries I’ve worked in since. Generally a few phrases even poorly delivered are greatly appreciated (even when you get your Spanish and Portuguese mixed up or attempting Swedish in a Norwegian accent...)


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 2:17 pm
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One island, one people, one language. I vote for French because it sounds sexy.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 2:30 pm
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don't believe you. Where and when did this happen?

Not that I really care if you beleive me 😉 but in holly head about 16 years ago

Im welsh and as anywhere most people are great and some are cocks im just saying that there are people out there that do these things in a small minority which I have only experienced once in one location in a lifetime of living here.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 2:38 pm
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One island, one people, one language. I vote for French because it sounds sexy.

Only sexy when spoken by the 50% of the population with tits.

Spent two weeks in Wales this year. Was due to be Slovenia, but seeing as I was already in London it kind of made more sense to sit on the M4 for a few hours.

Didn't have any bad experiences and felt welcome wherever we were.

Beautiful landscapes, deserted beaches, good food and beer.

Not sure I'd like to live in some of the old mining towns or valleys. The size and shape of the locals was shocking.

If the climate was more Mediterranean it would be as crowded as Tuscany.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 3:12 pm
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Only sexy when spoken by the 50% of the population with tits.

Bonjour.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 3:33 pm
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If the climate was more Mediterranean it would be as crowded as Tuscany.

Give it a few years! 🙂


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 3:43 pm
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Bonjour

Swoons


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 3:48 pm
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In the farmers arms in St Davids currently. All a lovely friendly place


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 4:26 pm
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Good pub that 🙂

Lived in Wales for a long time now, definitely a friendlier place in general than the SE where I grew up


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 5:25 pm
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We go there every year for boxing day, but today the time came up spare so we went for a few beers. Proper fun, loads of chatty locals. One trying to chat up Mrs weeksy. Back home for beers.


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 6:06 pm
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Love the way that copa's only response to people seems to be " I don't believe You, when did that happen

I've had a few experiences of people being complete xenophobic dicks in Wales. Wouldn't move there as a consequence. But then given that they've got the English behaving like dicks next door I suppose I need to cut them some slack


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 9:31 pm
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Lived in Wales for a long time now, definitely a friendlier place in general than the SE where I grew up

Prick!

Sorry, I meant to say season's greetings neighbour!

(Ps I might make Kev's ride on wed)


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 10:14 pm
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I've had anti-english sentiment shown to us while staying in Bala while paddling, but not for over 20 years. At the time we also had problems with being a mixed gender group in a pub which had a definite policy of blokes in one bar and women in the other. More recently it's been an incredibly friendly place to visit, and living on the English / Welsh border I spend a fair bit of time there. The only problem I've had recently with the Welsh is my best mate who's a Brecon lad. He's rubbish after a couple of beers 😉


 
Posted : 24/12/2017 10:51 pm
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Good stuff Wonny (making the ride not calling me a prick you arsehole! 😆 )

Bah ****ing humbug


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 7:49 am
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I didn't abuse you yesterday, ferrals - should I have? 😆

Not sure about Kev's ride yet, but it would be nice to get out.

I've had a few experiences of people being complete xenophobic dicks in Wales.

I've had the same, as a Welshman living in England. What's your point?

The bunch of us riding yesterday were half English. My stepmother and sister-in-law are English. Several of the people I work with are English. If anti-English sentiment was so bad then I suspect they'd struggle to live in Wales. There really are lots of English people living all through Wales.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 11:22 am
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After moving from Canada to Manchester 15 years ago, and spending 2 years there, circumstances then brought us to Cardiff, where I have been the happiest I have been since leaving Montreal in the 1990s.

I love the city, and our adopted country. I have visited North Wales a few times, spent quite a bit of time in the West (between Lampeter and Aberystwyth), and done a lot of exploring in South Wales.

For a Canadian expat, Wales has provided all the culture, the history, the wilderness, the beauty, and the adventure I could hope for. And although there are other parts of the UK I dearly love (the Northeast, for example), I can't imagine being happier anywhere else.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 3:46 pm
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Love the way that copa's only response to people seems to be " I don't believe You, when did that happen

The general trope is that English speakers go into Welsh pubs/shops and everyone suddenly switches to speaking Welsh - as a sign of hostilitiy.

Despite the various claims on here, I don't think this has ever happened...in the history of the world.

It's rooted in people going into Welsh speaking areas and feeling uncomfortable when not everyone in their vicinity switches to speaking English.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 5:21 pm
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Had good and bad experiences in Wales. Just like anywhere else on this planet. There are dickheads everywhere. Visited a social club in Resolven (nr Glynneath, South Wakes) in 2003. There was a sign in the window that read ‘No Dogs, No English’. I thought it was a joke until about half a pint in! Also met friendliest people ever in Conwy. Couldn’t help enough. They continued to speak Welsh after dealing with us and it didn’t bother me a jot. Felt rather embarrassed I couldn’t even say thank you in Welsh. I’d usually make an effort in other parts of Europe.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 5:29 pm
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I've had a few experiences of people being complete xenophobic dicks in Wales.

We've had anti Welsh xenophobia on this very thread!


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 6:08 pm
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Visited a social club in Resolven (nr Glynneath, South Wakes) in 2003. There was a sign in the window that read ‘No Dogs, No English’. I thought it was a joke until about half a pint in.

Why would you go somewhere like that? I live maybe 10 miles away and wouldn't venture into that sort of place unless I was with a regular.

Is this the problem? People don't realise that they are visiting quite rough, very working class areas?


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 8:06 pm
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I went a party at a valleys social club a few year ago and they still had a separate bar with no women allowed...


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 8:45 pm
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Despite the various claims on here, I don't think this has ever happened...in the history of the world.

FWIW this has happened to me in a pub near Llanelli.

Thought it was a bit pathetic & pointless IMHO.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:24 pm
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IdleJon, went with my brother-in-law who was living local at the time, in Ynysarwed, albeit Irish. He was also a Para based in Sennybridge (detached). I guess it was easy to spot my accent being a Yorkshireman. He thought it was highly amusing. And so did I, but that could be because I was with a 6’5” brick s#*thouse!


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:28 pm
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I've been in Wales a few times and never felt any hostility towards me.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:29 pm
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I went a party at a valleys social club a few year ago and they still had a separate bar with no women allowed...

Pretty sure the social in Ponty is still men only.

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People don't realise that they are visiting quite rough, very working class areas?

Bit of stereotyping to go along with the Welsh xenophobia?


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:31 pm
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Don't ge me wrong - I really like Wales & find the Welsh very friendly. I've spent a lot of time there in form or another.

But don't kid yourself that there's no such thing as a chippy Welshman.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:32 pm
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Oh, by the way, I’m from The arse end of Huddersfield and wouldn’t use that as an excuse to act like a troglodyte. However, there are equal troglodytes in Huddersfield as there is everywhere else!


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:32 pm
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But don't kid yourself that there's no such thing as a chippy Welshman.

Aye, of course.

But that's different from the story that's being claimed here ie that a pub full of people will switch to speaking Welsh after an English speaker walks in, as a show of hostility.

It's absurd. It's an apocryphal tale.

What may have happened is that you've been in a Welsh speaking area and an environment where you feel uncomfortable; where you felt it would have been polite if people had switched to English.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:48 pm
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Bit of stereotyping to go along with the Welsh xenophobia?

I'm Welsh you div (I've also met you plenty of times 😆 )

Are you suggesting that the average valley town is demographically similar to the average Surrey town that the abused English MTBer is from?

That's really made me chuckle.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 9:56 pm
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Get over yourself Copa.

Been uncomfortable?

You assume a lot. I'm 46 & ive been to a lot more uncomfortable countries than Wales.

It happens.

Show of hostility? I don't know, don't care either.

Point being it happens - accept it.

What happened was:

I walked into a typical S Welsh boozer with about 3 men in it. Within a minute or 2 I heard a switch of language by one bloke - after we left I commented to my Lancs mate, who lives there, to check it just happened & he agreed.

We were both surprised - 20 yrs of playing & working in Wales & this was the first time.

I can accept it's rare, but you need to accept it does happen.

I was there & I know what happened, I've also a witness whose lived in Wales for the last 20yrs.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 10:03 pm
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I walked into a typical S Welsh boozer with about 3 men in it. Within a minute or 2 I heard a switch of language by one bloke - after we left I commented to my Lancs mate, who lives there, to check it just happened & he agreed.

So you were in a pub in Wales and heard somebody speaking Welsh.
Am I missing something?


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 10:17 pm
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Lived in wales for seventeen years
Never ever seen this happen ever which is weird because I hear the tale spouted by just about everyone I’ve ever met that visited once
It’s allways a pub or a local shop
What I have witnessed though is people switching between welsh and English constantly during conversations it’s just part of life


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 10:21 pm
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What I have learnt from this is that generally, if you are nice to the locals, they will be nice to you.

Yep.
I've been to plenty of different countries (as a tourist) and generally people are nice and will always try and help despite any language barriers.

Except Wales.
Miserable bunch, I blame the weather.

What I have witnessed though is people switching between Welsh and English constantly during conversations

Which merely proves what a pointless and ineffectual language Welsh is.

😀


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 10:49 pm
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True 😀


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 10:53 pm
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I've been to plenty of different countries (as a tourist) and generally people are nice and will always try and help despite any language barriers.

Do you just shout loudly and slowly and point a lot.

Which merely proves what a pointless and ineffectual language Welsh is.

Only if you're an ignorant asshat.

Given their form I'm surprised the English are as tolerated/welcomed as they are.


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 11:34 pm
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So you were in a pub in Wales and heard somebody speaking Welsh.
Am I missing something?

No, you nugget.

I heard 2 blokes switch from speaking English to speaking Welsh.

Why is that concept so hard to grasp?


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 11:38 pm
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I went a party at a valleys social club a few year ago and they still had a separate bar with no women allowed...

But to fair plenty of posh English golf clubs have that too, so that's not really a Welsh thing or a class thing either 😆


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 11:45 pm
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But to fair plenty of posh English golf clubs have that too, so that's not really a Welsh thing or a class thing either

Best part was it was a fancy dress party and a mate was dressed as a woman... we went down there because that was where the pool table was and they tried to kick him out and he had a full on argument with some locals that barely came short of whipping his cock out 😆


 
Posted : 25/12/2017 11:50 pm
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I heard 2 blokes switch from speaking English to speaking Welsh.

Why is that concept so hard to grasp?

Because, like all of these claims - it's absurd.
You heard people speaking Welsh in a Welsh pub.


 
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