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Sorry to hear that, stay strong, and all the best to you and the family.
I'm so very, very sorry for you all.
Not sure what else to say.
@JohnBoy so sorry to read this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife and your daughter. Tough times.
Been in a similar situation a few months ago. Horrific experience... No words can describe it.
Best to you and your wife.
Sincere condolences.
JonBoy - Member
As horrible as this is we are so so so lucky that we do have 2 girls.
Considering the circumstances, this positivity ^^^ is impressive.
So sorry, for you also Merak.
😥
That's a crap hand to be dealt. My thoughts are with you. We had a couple of miscarriages before going on to have 3 kids without any dramas at all in the pregnancies. And very little the docs can/want to do as unless you've had a string of incidents it's relatively normal, despite the dreadfulness of it all. Hugs.
So sorry 😥 Please take care of each other.
So sorry, for you also Merak.
This too.
So very sorry. Condolences.
So sorry to hear your devastating news. Hold your wife close and look after each other. Your beautiful daughter will forever be a part of your family.
I know there are no words at this time which will make things better.
I lost my first son shortly after he was born at 41.5 weeks. It was 6 years ago and not a day goes by without thinking of him and I carry him with me always.
email me if you feel you want to.
Mother Natures way of saying something wasn't quite there.... when its right it will be beyond wonderful.
That's stopped me in my tracks. Love going out to you and your wife JonBoy and to Merak.
My wife was in hospital a couple of years ago (rather earlier than 22 weeks - molar pregnancy), and we met a woman who had lost two in similar circumstances and who had then gone on to have a healthy girl. I read the entries she and her husband wrote in the "condolences" book in the lobby of the maternity unit about her first two. Heartbreaking.
Be brave, and reach out to all of us if you need help. And make sure the healthcare services look after both of you.
Oof. ****ing shit. Thats brutal. I hope you guys are able to recover in time.
You still have each other.
love from all of us.
Kev
Really sorry to hear that, just an awful thing to have happen.
JonBoy, I share you pain.
My wife and I have lost two in a similar situation, our first at 20 weeks (on the day of our 20 week scan) and our second at 21 weeks following an emergency suture at week 20 and a massive infection. We buried her 9 months to the day after we buried our first.
It's a terrible, terrible thing to have to go through for both of you. If you want to talk, please get in touch.
Not sure what you mean by that Earl but believe me, that comment is neither helpful nor true. edit [though i'm sure the intent was good].
Jonboy, be prepared for some difficult discussions and choices you'll have to make in the next day or so, don't rush in to anything and don't let the staff steer you in a direction you don't want to go. You'll know what I mean.
I realise looking at this thread that we haven't properly dealt with things 5 months on and it really is important to manage everything the way you want to. Take what counselling the hospital offer too, it really can help you get your head straight.
My condolences, not much more I can say.
So sorry to hear that, as others have said its rough now and you'll never forget but we've also had friends go through similar circumstances and both couples now have happy healthy children. Best of luck staying strong and getting through now and best of luck for the future
There are obviously no words that can make this any better.
As a father, I can just about imagine how you feel.
Remember that as strong as you want to be for your wife and girls to make sure that you're coping okay.
Helped with us when we were in the same situation.
My commiserations go out to you and yours
Realy so sorry to hear that, my thoughts are with you. Can only say that for me it was devastating, it happened to us a few times before our little miracle arrived . . . . he's 18 months and a real blessing. It has happened since as well, but eventually I hope time will heal your loss. It did for us.
So very sorry to hear about this.
Heartbreaking.
Bunnyhop x
Awful! So very sorry.
So, sorry for your loss. Be strong and look after each other.
Have only a small idea how awful this must be. We have two kids from four pregnancies, but have been luckier than many.
Look after each other, and ask for help if you need it. The father can get overlooked among all the emotions.
It hurts just reading the sad news.
Be strong and take care of each other.
Wow, wasn't expecting that message when I opened this thread
So sorry for you, that is unfathomably terrible
I truly hope for the best for you both
🙁
thats shit 🙁 . big hugs from all at the vaders
Lost for words. Hope you both are well and can get through it.
Can't say anything to help - I'm just very sorry to hear of your loss.
chewkw - Member
It hurts just reading the sad news./quote]
^^ This
So sorry.
Very sorry to hear about your loss.
No idea if these words and others help but thought I should post anyway In case it does.
No words can describe how this must be. Very sorry to hear of your loss. As others have said, stay strong if you can.
words can't do it justice. just make sure you're there for each other. Really feel for you.
Erm. Dusty. All of a sudden.
Hold your partners hand. Never let go.
Real sorry for you dude. That's the shortest thing I've heard in a while. And I thought I was having a rubbish day.
So sorry ,wish you all the best. Every now and then something reminds me just what is truly important
Sorry to hear
Hang in there, times are tough now, but things will come good again in time, be strong.
Jon, so sorry to hear. Stay strong. Our best to you and and your wife.