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Been on 2 dates and its not going to work. I REALLY don't want to upset her? Any advice, never had to do this before.

Is this the best place to ask?

Probably not.....


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:48 pm
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Maybe just don't call her when you say you will! Or nicer just say to her I don't think it's working out for us. You're never going to know if you will upset her or not, you never know she may be feeling exactly the same way as you!!! But hey better to say "no" now as it won't take much for her to "get over it" and move on!!!


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:49 pm
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DO you want ot speak to her in the future?

If not turn your phone off for a few days and avoid places where you might see her, simples. 😆


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:49 pm
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*Pulls up a chair.*

This could run and run!

I've got a few of the Meantime IPA (the greatest REAL India Pale Ale on the market today, IMHO)

Anyone bring any nibbles?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:49 pm
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"Your sister/mum looks dirty".

"I only like it in the council"

Where do you start (the question should really be where do I stop 🙂

Or just say that you don't want to go out with her any more, and you are saying now so no-one can get hurt. Honesty is the best policy, but not too honest, trust me I know 🙂


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:50 pm
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Well, you've nothing to lose, so try anything you want....


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:50 pm
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Tell her you have the bad Aids


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:51 pm
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Nice one houns.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:53 pm
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Tell her you´re gay.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:53 pm
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Just tell her you think she should see other people......and only other people.
Might be dull and say honesty is the best policy although making something up may save her feelings, really depends on why it's not working and how she feels.
It's possible she's on another internet forum asking people the very same question.
And this is a dreadful place to ask.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:53 pm
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tell her you're starting a cult and ask her if shes up for intensive "pig" farming


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:53 pm
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In the words of the great H J Simpson

'Welcome to dumpsville. Popualation, you'

That should do it


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:54 pm
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She definitely doesn't feel the same. Do I want to stay friends? Probably.

I am most concerned about upsetting her. I have to say something not replying to texts is not an option.

HELP!


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:55 pm
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Ask her if her dead *insert female relative here* was a cute as her as you are into munging


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:55 pm
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Tell her to read STW.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:56 pm
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Well, if your mugshot is anything to go by, she will be devastated! 8)


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:56 pm
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Tell her you´re gay.

That might work,


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:56 pm
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Have you had all available entries before you dump her?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:56 pm
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Just tell her you only started to see her to get closer to her Dad. You've been having a relationship with him but he's now refusing to answer your calls and this was the last resort.

That might work.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:57 pm
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If you dont want to see her again, why does it matter if you upset her?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:58 pm
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Basically, you're ****ed.

Is she a psycho hose beast?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 9:58 pm
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If you dont want to see her again, why does it matter if you upset her?

I'm have morals!


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:00 pm
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Arrange another date and turn up wearing lederhosen, nothing else


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:02 pm
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Have you had all available entries before you dump her?

Very good point.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:02 pm
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Does she like you because you're have morals?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:02 pm
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[url= http://download.lardlad.com/sounds/season3/lover18.mp3 ]Homer says[/url]


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:03 pm
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Get her to dump you. That's been my tactic for, well, ever. And you get sympathy.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:04 pm
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Does she like you because you're have morals?

No idea why she likes me.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:05 pm
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Get her to dump you.

Not an option.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:07 pm
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2 dates and your worried?

Sorry luv, you ain't doin' nowt for me.

Bosh, simple.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:08 pm
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This thread is useless without pictures !! 😆


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:09 pm
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This thread is useless without pictures !!

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Posted : 26/02/2009 10:11 pm
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😮


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:12 pm
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wrote a short email.

Is that a cowards way out?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:15 pm
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not the best place to ask loads of "hilarious macho toss"
let her know how you would want to be told if the situation was reversed that is nicely and with sensitivity etc. If she really digs you then there is no real way of doing this without upsetting her. Rejection is never nice but you can handle it better than most of the suggestions above .. i dont think I needed to say that last bit did I?
Good luck it is never nice to do
yes the e-mail is cowardice as is text


 
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not the best place to ask loads of "hilarious macho toss"
let her know how you would want to be told if the situation was reversed that is nicely and with sensitivity etc. If she really digs you then there is no real way of doing this without upsetting her. Rejection is never nice but you can handle it better than most of the suggestions above .. i dont think I needed to say that last bit did I?

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😉


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:16 pm
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Yes it is....

Just tell her you don't feel its working out, you like her but you don't get a boner when you see her. Don't want to hurt her etc.

You know what I mean


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:17 pm
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Does she have a good looking friend you could sleep with?


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:17 pm
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Oi!

50, well 75% toss, and the rest sound advice. 🙂

Cheeky!


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:18 pm
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Do it Terminator Style!
"I don't want to see you any more!" with your best poker face and arnie/cameron accent! then walk away with a slow stair...

or

Jedi style

"You dont want to see me any more" wave your hand...
"you can go about your business, move along..."

then run just in case...

basically tell the truth, dont elaborate.. and get the hell out of there


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:18 pm
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Tell her that you ask for relationship advice on here.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:22 pm
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Well its done. She took it well.

Thank you. I am surprised you guys all must be sober as there was some good advice.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:34 pm
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go on admit it, you dumped her by text didnt you? 😉

now you going to get stalked hardcore!!


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:40 pm
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nope a little email.


 
Posted : 26/02/2009 10:43 pm
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nope a little email.

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