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Thanks CFH. Yep, I'd smash that.
I do hope the OP will be referring to this thread throughout his date. Maybe live updates/questions?
My first and only on the subject - cant she find someone more her age group? Im 40 BTW and I wouldnt if I was looking for something more than sex.
Does age really matter within reason? After a while; a chap wishing to be free of the burden of child-ownership must take younger partners in order to avoid 'the ticking clock'.
Is that what you think he should ask her, hora ? 🙂
Is she less than half your age +7?
Jeez, just be yourself
Worst advice ever!Jeez, just be yourself
Be George Clooney.
Jeez, just be yourself
Christ! If I listened to that sort of advice I would be single.
....oh wait 😥
hhmm ... 😕
Question to all.
How do you know if you are in a date in the first place?
How do you know if she likes you or there is a chance to progress?
What's the Mum like?
bearnecessities - MemberWhat's the Mum like?
Never seen the mum ... 😆
Probably went to school with her
Am I allowed to say... Just go have fun!! She's just over 20 ffs, I'd be wanting a right laugh at her age! Have no expectations and the night will roll on beautifully. You've got nothing to prove, she likes you already - proven by 'a date!' Enjoy it for what it is and let whatever happens happen....
Ps; I also want photos... 😉
[i]How do you know if you are in a date in the first place?
How do you know if she likes you or there is a chance to progress?
[/i]
1. you decide this beforehand
2. you just know
DezB - MemberHow do you know if you are in a date in the first place?
How do you know if she likes you or there is a chance to progress?
1. you decide this beforehand
2. you just know
Hhmmm ...
1. I might think it is a date but she might consider a friendly chat? No?
2. Problem is I don't have a clue at all so far ... 😕
arrgghhh ... 😐
Hhmmm ...
1. I might think it is a date but she might consider a friendly chat? No?
2. Problem is I don't have a clue at all so far ...
arrgghhh ...
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Just listen to what's 'inside'. Does your gut not tell you??
solarpowered - MemberJust listen to what's 'inside'. Does your gut not tell you??
A difficult one as I think my gut says 50:50 so far.
I was just being myself when we met and not the zombie maggot I was on STW.
How do you proceed from here? Ask her for another date or meeting up?
😮
How did you get on?
santacruzsi - MemberHow did you get on?
Me? Well I guess but I did not crack any jokes. I think I can describe the meeting as pleasant. She did not pull long face put it this way.
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just listen to her, encourage her to talk about herself
dont expect wild monkey sex straight away
find out what her 'thing' is eg what she really likes and toward the end of the night mention how shes very good at it
eg I see you have great taste in shoes or training for all those triathlons you must have so much commitment, the idea is to leave her with the impression you 'get' her, sounds corny but its worked for me
Kimbers 20 somethings bang like crazy straight away WITH the lights on.
Just listen to what's 'inside'.
Not sure that's appropriate for a first date...
Hora your opinion totally contradicts your earlier advice.
Thanks Kimber that's good advice. I shall try that when I meet her again ... hopefully.
I am not expecting wild monkey sex and I am not in any hurry. 🙂
hora - Member
Kimbers 20 somethings bang like crazy straight away WITH the lights on.
yeah but if you make them wait till the 2nd date theyll be up for a 24hr drug fuelled banobo shag marathon thatll take in every room in her house and leave her flatmates wondering why the mirror in the hallway is broken and the arms fallen off the sofa
OP reporting for duty. Some amusing responses which is what I was after more than genuine advice. Clean undercrackers, have a wash- come on guys?!
On the way now. Looking forward to it a lot. However, seeing as we met last Saturday and she left on Monday morning as I was being picked up to hit Welsh super-trails any traditional first date nerves don't really apply 😉
I actually did possibly my best UK mtb ride ever on Monday too.
Inset riding 26er jokes here..
Gotta love a young enthusiastic lover, I was 38, she was 22. Great times but we both knew it was just going to be sex, make the most of it
On the way now. Looking forward to it a lot. However, seeing as we met last Saturday and she left on Monday morning as I was being picked up to hit Welsh super-trails any traditional first date nerves don't really apply
Lordy lord! You ARE in for a good un! Have fun 😉
Well, that was alright. Eight days after meeting I now have a hot new girlfriend (her words)
Moral of the story is be open, honest, friendly and buy a magic shirt the day before (seriously) - I met a 32 year old Sussanah Read lookalike on Friday, then bumped into her again on Saturday night. She invited me to a bar after the beer festival which I was legging it towards when I started chatting to my new lady friend. So if it all goes wrong my desirability rating to 'Sussanah' has gone through the roof by virtue of being seen with the young hottie! *
* if any of this makes me sound like some prolific playa that couldn't be further from the truth!
Her name's not Nicole is it?
and
zbonty - MemberWell, that was alright. Eight days after meeting I now have a hot new girlfriend (her words)
That soon! 😯 You did not say "look into my eyes, look into my eyes ..."
How and what did you do conversation wise? I must try that as I have a 2nd date coming with the same girl.
🙂
I must try that as I have a 2nd date coming with the same girl.
With the OP's 'hot new girlfriend'? Bit cheeky.
Just be yourself and don't talk too much about yrself. Sounds glib, but anything else sets the universe off on a tilt, trust me. Texting is a minefield, don't text except for emoticons, even then lay off it some more. Jeezus.
Pornstache is always a good idea. They love pornstache. Go easy on bar snacks, unless it's scampi fries, don't offer them around, eat them without looking at the bag as you gaze into her/his captivating eyes.
If you buy pork scrathings make sureyou use a plate and knife and fork.
I must try that as I have a 2nd date coming with the same girl.
that's not on, mate....
oh, and we're still waiting for pics, OP...
[i]How and what did you do conversation wise?[/i]
I reckon - if [s]she's right[/s] (sorry) you're right for each other, the conversation just flows.
My first date was sat on a beach. We just nattered. I enjoyed. 🙂
martinhutch - MemberI must try that as I have a 2nd date coming with the same girl.
With the OP's 'hot new girlfriend'? Bit cheeky.
😆 No, no, the one I met [u]Not OP's[/u]. Also I don't want Nicole Shaggisger lookalike whatever as her face really put me off my fish & chips. 😆
DezB - MemberI reckon - if she's right (sorry) you're right for each other, the conversation just flows.
True, true. With my ex I simply said "How often do you come here" (my one and only chat up line - really) and the conversation just continued ...
@zbonty - a certain amount of smugness is totally justified. If you won't show us a photo of the gf let's at least see the killer party shirt 8)
Very funny, chaps. Dezb is spot on, the conversation just flowed. Re texting thats a funny one. I would'nt say i was the chattiest/banteriest guy out there and would'nt know what a chat up line is.
She asked me to download Whatsapp and we've been chatting all week. Did'nt speak once on the phone. Weird. Its all down to the magic shirt..
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She's 32 now? She's aged quickly within 8 days.
@ Drac- that was the 'other' one just in case the actual new gf didn't work out!! 😆
I lurve the shirt! I'm with you on the theory about a wacky shirt.... Us girls love em (or at least I do), shows you're confident enough to wear ....a more.....'daring' option of clothing.... 😉
@Chewkw.... You are going to be fine! Please don't worry, she's gonna love you!! Just enjoy it.
I tried being myself. Did me no good. Twelve years later married with three children...
Nice one zbonty! I pulled a 21yr old recently and it does wonders for the ego (especially being a speccy ginger 😉 )