and I have had a bottle of Morrison's 'Imperial Vodka'
It's been a funny old week. She's 34.
don't drink that bottle.
EDIT: and my sympathies. Hope she makes a healthy recovery.
I'm guessing the bottle's already empty. Hope she's ok dude.
I think had is a past tense thing, I hope your wife is ok and makes a good recovery. Don't forget to look after yourself though...
sc-xc if there's anything you need let me know x
bottle drunk - apart from th e glass in front of me. It's all very surreal. Cheers though....
kinnel! hope everything is ok.
Cheers Houns. You will have seen this wierd shit unfold. Can't ****ing believ it.
Nor me....fingers crossed she'll be home and back to normal ASAP
What happened sc-xc (apart from the obvious)?
Thoughts are with you and your wife. Hope she makes a full recovery. Don't know you from Adam but if you need to unleash an e-torrent to a stranger my email's in the profile.
+1 hoping things turn out well; 34 is too young to suffer this but well young enough to recover.
Hope your wife is ok. Life takes some funny twists and can sometimes be a real sod. Best wishes.
I hope she recovers and things get better for you sc-xc.
All fingers crossed for you.
She came back from work on Tuesday - couldn't speak properly. - she was not able to remenber simple words...very confuses. Turns out she had had a bit of a ;turn' so went to bed to sleep it off.
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Wednesday - got worse. Luclily, she's a nurse sowas at hospital. Her colleagues swaw her behaviour and took her to A&E. I was called, she went through the wardshaving tests until they told me today she ahs a hole in her heart and clots in her brain. looking at a coupl e o f weeks wiyhout her, and she has to have MRI, then up to the other hospital t ohave heart surgey to fix up the hole.
She's so young. Our lad Jake is pretty cool up til now - he's 9.... butour daughert is only 2 adn can't undesrtand where her mum is. ists aeful.
SC-XC, firsstly hope your wife is ok, and as fort eh morisons vodka, beaware a local shop has just been raided and they found some naughty people re branding a liquid that wasnt vodka as vodka.
Cripes. Apologies about spellinh - you get the picture.
Bloodyhell 😮 Healing vibes to your wife fella.
sorry, missed the 'have' in the OP
Get your game head on fella. She'll need you to be a rock.
Best of luck to both of you.
I know project. It;s been a long week. Jake has a footvall tournememt tomorow and we will be there - then visit mum later. Just a release.
To be positive, just remember some people don't get the 'warning'
Hoping for a speedy recovery, must have been a hell of a shock at that age, for all of you....best of luck with it
Cheers BH. Nothing, I know.
Ouch. take a moment for yourself - cos from now on its her first second and third!
The more effort she puts in - and to some extent that depends on you - the better she will get. Work hard, put the effort in, make it happen
All the best mate, it sounds really difficult. Easy to say, but necking booze only helps in the Right Now. I'd steer off it for a while to deal with the situation.
sc-xc, hope she makes a full recovery,chuck the vodka down the sink.
All that stuff sounds fixable. The young normally bounce back really well from strokes. Be optimistic, it should all work out and get back to normal eventually.
Bad shit, hope things sort themselves out.
Positive vibes to you dude. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Don't be reluctant to offload to friends if it starts to get on top of you.
I agree, Just getting through th news tonight. Tomorrow....different story. Mates have been ace, and lots of support. Selfish, but I'm struggling a bit.
Nothing constructive to add, but all the best to all of you.
It's okay to struggle, anyone would. Call on the support of your friends - it's what they are for.
Hope it all works out and your wife makes a full recovery.
Rachel x
Nothing constructive to add, but all the best to all of you.
+1
Going to bed now. It might not deem it ut this has meant a great deal. Thanks for your support. I.m sure it;s nothing, love you guys.
Just getting through th news tonight. Tomorrow....different story.
That makes sense. Be strong tomorrow.
sc-xc - definately not 'selfish'. It's really hard to be in your position, you need the strength to support your wife and children at a time when you're emotionally devastated. Make sure you also get the support you need from friends etc.
Really hope your wife makes a full recovery
My mates wife had a couple of fairly large TIA's and hasn't bee right for a good few years. She's just 40 now and has just learned the cause is a hole in the heart which is fortunately operable.
At that age theres very likely an underlying issue. Folk in their mid 30's haven't been around long enough for the vascular system to get so weak as to spontaneously fail.
Healing vibes.
Selfish, but I'm struggling a bit.
Of course you're struggling, damn. It's not selfish, get that thought out of your head. All the best, hope it works out for all of you as fast as these things can, and look after yourself.
Thinking of you and yours sc-xc, all the best mate
This...
Get your game head on fella. She'll need you to be a rock.
Look after yourself so you can look after her while she needs you to.
Tonight you are entitled to be selfish. Tomorrow it's all about her and the children.
You're allowed to be a little selfish if it helps you come to terms with it.
Am really sorry to read this, I don't know the OP but I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
Best of luck fella.
sc-xc I don't know you but I'm my thoughts are with you and your kids. What you're all going through is pretty tough but your wife is young enough to fully recover. I understand your need for a few drinks, the kids are probably in bed and it's your time to take stock. I'm sure you know that you don't want to make a habit if it though as you need to stay strong.
Best wishes, take care.
Nothing to add other than to echo thoughts from others. Don't forget a pint of water before bed.
My thoughts are with you, was with my mate tonight when she had a call her step mum, only 54 had had a stroke.. she's a mess and all I could do was hug her. So hug to you too, if you had the vodka so be it, I bloody would have, tomorrow you'll be there for xxx
