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I spoke to her yesterday.
She still suggested meeting (tonight) to chat as “friends” but understands if I don’t want to.
I think that the best thing for the both of us is no more contact.
It’s time to move on.
Did you not watch Normal people? Sounds a bit like that really.
It does a bit, and that's not a good thing (unless you enjoy drippy people being drippy)
An honest heart-to-heart tonight might not be a terrible idea, it could be the best way to either end things cleanly, or realise, between the pair of you, that there is something there that you want to pursue. And by 'something' I mean the prospect of an actual, proper, relationship, not just continued horizontal jogging.
But, like others have said, there is no such thing as 'the one', so don't sweat that too much.
If you do go and meet her have a **** first, might stop you thinking with your dick for a change.
If you do go and meet her have a **** first, might stop you thinking with your dick for a change.
That is genuinely quality advice. Applies to more than just these kind of situations too!
If you do go and meet her have a **** first, might stop you thinking with your dick for a change.
That is genuinely quality advice. Applies to more than just these kind of situations too!
Only downside is the funny looks you can get from the other passengers.
I think it was on a TED talk where the speaker believed the physical side of a relationship was the most important part. Fact is - many wars have been started over it.
Want for sex + love + relationship is a very hard thing. Good luck op.
I think that the best thing for the both of us is no more contact.
It’s time to move on.
Good for you.
I'd probably rather think of it as you deciding you're not interested in what this is. She's not heroin, you don't have to go cold turkey. Just tell her you've decided that you're no longer looking.
It’s time to move on.
Wow, I should give advice more often!