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So sorry man.
It was obvious from the way you've always spoken about her that you had a remarkable relationship.
Please look after yourself.
Love,
Pete.
So sorry TJ.
So sorry & saddened to hear this. My condolences TJ. Take care of yourself.
Sorry for your loss TJ.
I met you both once a long long time ago on a Sharki's tour of the Quantocks. You guys were on the tandem and i remember thinking she was nuts to be a stoker on that, but it was obvious that you were the same type of nuts so it all worked perfectly.
Really sorry to hear this; and well done for all the support and love you’ve given her over the last few weeks so she could live her last days on her terms. Look after yourself now.
Ah so sorry to read this TJ.
I've seen loads of your posts about the adventures you've done together and thought that you must've had a fantastic lifestyle and relationship. Not sure what else to say really....if you ever end up in Cheshire there's an open door for you.
Sat here blinking stunned at the screen.
So sorry to hear of your loss.
Take care Fella.
So sorry to hear this TJ. Every time I move our tandem out the way (again), I remember a great weekend spent with the pair of you in the Dales. All the best from me and B.
Much love TJ, sorry to hear that and so sorry for your loss.
As horrible and painful as it must seem at the moment, at least you know those last weeks were spent on Mrs TJs terms, with the important people around to help. My condolences.
Oh buddy, I'm so sorry to hear this. Big hugs. I'm so glad you got to spend that time together
Just shit.
I met yourself and Julie just once: in the middle of Fisherfield when you were handing out sweets to those smelly individuals partaking in the HT550. Thankyou.
Take care and try and remember the good times of which I'm sure there were many over that 42 years.
So sorry this has happened.
Neil
I'm so very sorry to hear this TJ - thoughts are with you.
Marcus
So very sorry to hear of this news TJ.
Hope you can take some comfort that you where able to take care of Julie in the manner she asked for.
As others have mentioned I have never met you, but I always enjoy reading your posts and your opinions.
Deepest Condolences
Andrew
Oh man - so so sorry to read that.
Well done to you, family and friends for making her last days go as she wished.
Look after yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear this TJ, my thoughts are with you and your family.
Sorry to hear this TJ, cancer is indeed a bitch. Take care of yourself.
Condolences to you TJ. Sounds like you did you best to make her final days as she'd want them to be.
Everything I try to write sounds lame, but all the best from me to you and yours TJ, I can't imagine how hard this must be. x
So very sorry to read this, sweetly-written as it is.
Not sure what else to say. All the best to you.
Richard
I'm very sad to hear that, TJ. It would be a terrible loss at any time, but I know how you were both looking forward to enjoying your retirement together. I'm glad you were able to help her go peacefully.
Really sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself.
Really sorry to hear that TJ, my thoughts are with you.
Sorry to hear that, condolences.
I’m so so sad to hear this. It was great meeting you both at the tandem weekend in the Dales a few years ago and I can hardly process this news. I was sure we’d have another fun weekend together with the crazy bikes in all our futures. My heart goes out to you.
Beate
Aw that's just shite TJ. I know they're just platitudes, but all the best to you and yours. Tough times I'm sure.
Sorry for your loss TJ.
Thoughts are with you TJ
So sorry to hear that. I was so inspired by your plans and thoughts for the future. Gutted that you are now having to do the next bit alone.
Hope those 42 were as good as they looked from here.
Xxx
Been following things on Facebook, TJ. Tis rubbish news and you have my deepest condolences.
You have, however, handled it amazingly well from what I've seen and she had the best few weeks that could be hoped for in the circumstances.
Take care of yourself.
Sorry for your loss buddy.
I'm so terribly sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking about you and wishing you strength.
Condolences TJ, hate reading threads like this. But seeing that you both had 42 years together and that you both and your friends strived to make the ending as good as you all could are things you should be rightly proud of.
Very sorry to hear this, wish I could say something more meaningful.
Echoing a lot of the comments - so sorry for your loss. We've never met but I feel I know you through this site.
Really sorry to hear this news TJ, please accept my condolences and best wishes, you're in my thoughts. Hope you're doing as best as you can at the moment.
We've spoken on the phone after you instigated the gnusmobile journey but never met you personally, something I'd like to do one day. If you ever need a chat, vent or anything please get in touch. Not saying I can do much but more than happy to listen and help in any way if I can.
TJ, that is so desperately sad.
My sympathy and deepest condolences to you.
Sorry for your loss.
Remember the last few weeks were probably the most stressful experience of your life, so take care of yourself.
Sorry for your loss TJ.
I'm amazed at your positivity and stoical approach to all this.
See you on the hill someday.
Very Sad to read this TJ, My thoughts are with you and yours.
What crappy news, so sorry to hear this
Props to you for helping her go the way she wanted to. That must have been tough
TJ, so very sorry to read this and it must be comforting that you were able to carry out Julie's wishes for a peaceful passing. Please accept my condolences and sympathy, we're all here for you so don't feel that you're on your own.
Do take care of yourself.
To quote our late friend Bullheart: **** cancer
Sorry for your loss TJ.