I bought a fat bike….
in my early to mid 40s had a bit of a MLC run - did a one night in Ibiza ( flew in sat AM - went clubbing - flew back sunday AM, no hotel) bought a Rolex ( which since doubed in value) bouight Steve Peats Megatower off actual Steve Peat, spent about £15k on high end guitars and a drum kit and started wearing a biker jacket and going to tons of gigs again like I did when I was a student. Did test drive a porsche boxster and almost bought it but my senseible hat was on that day!.
The guitars have all mostly held their value so I guess that was almost a good investment as it stopped me splurging the cash on C+H!
Still going to gigs though so I suppose this is my life now.
Not even sure it counts as a crisis, but I have bought an Audi TT earlier in life. It was decently priced, well maintained and had space for the dogs or a Stumpy FSR with the wheels off. Kept it for a few years and then, when I knew I was moving to Sweden, tried to sell it to someone that would actually take care of it. No takers at the book price, so it went to WBAC and I took the loss.
Ended up driving my T5 around until I moved, with that, to Sweden. Sadly had to scrap the T5 when it came to the time for "import or get shot" time and no one wanted an RHD T5. Van owed me nothing though, but still miss it despite _eventually_ buying a Citroen Dispatch equivalent this year to make up for it.
I'm glad I did; since my partner broke up from me it is my only mode of transport.
Sold my new'ish L200 pickup (last 20+ years this has been my drive, so as I am office based you could class this as a midlife crisis?), and bought an older VW Caravelle. For the first time in 35 years I got back on the tools and did all the work myself, except the new engine, and went through it top to bottom. I now have a slightly dented, sort of Swamper and mint to drive old van.
Camp in it, take bikes on massive road trips to Corfu, Ventoux and skiing etc. Now saving for my fun older vehicle. Lancia Beta Coupe VX for the odd track day (I know Beta's back to front so no need to tell me how bad they are). All this instead of buying new and having big loans 🙂

Liking the Curtis and '78 Clubman. Not fussed about the rest. I am also likely past mid-life and not had a mlc, nor can afford one if means a fancy car. Can I target a faux mlc at say, 55/60 or so? Steel bike seems a good plan.
I’m considering buying a shirt from HebTroCo, does that count?
I'll save you some money - buy a Porsche.
Got myself polio a skateboard for my 50th.
sorely tempted to make the hodge to this:
though it’ll prolly be 35c in the shade 🙂
@Tracey, we're currently looking at Motorhomes or people carrier vans (like Tourneo) - thinking the van better for general driving and lane access/parking. That particular Chausson (Flash 610) is top of the list if a camper, with the boot.
I'm in my early 50s and get distracted looking at cars now and again. Last research was reading the 40 page build thread on this
sadly a Stratos replica is beyond my means. So ill take the donor car for the engine - Alfa 916 with Busso V6, Alfaholics handling kit and diff upgrade. Still can't afford it just now!

Its a 718 Welcome so a bit longer 7.49m than the 610. we can get 4 29rs in the back with wheels on.as the gas bottles are in a locker behind the cab. some of the later models have the gas locker in the garage which limits the space for bikes unless you remove wheels
We have never slept in our LWB Tourneo Custom but our youngest daughter has been all over Europe in it as we couldn't get the camper insured at a reasonable cost for under 25s


Thanks @Tracey - how do you find the motorhome ? Do you have to plan journeys a bit more - thinking steep hills in N Wales.
Just a little bothered about it advertising we're not at home (it will be on the drive) although there will be four cars there. I ideally want a Pug Traveller with all the bells and whistles and 180 horses under the bonnet. Remove one row of seats, pop in fold out bed in boot, paddle boards/bikes and stuff in back. Also for carrying camping gear - we've got a really nice tent, but use Traveller for a day van to coast (many of the car parks have height restrictions). Occasional overnight sleeping in the Traveller.
The sports car has gone out the window ! Don't need one. Got a few months pondering to do before pressing the button.
Working in an industry that made good profits during Covid and working silly hours with good reward for doing so , I treated myself to a second mid life "want"

I can honestly say that its been fantastic, a 4500 mile road trip during the glorious summer of 2022 being the icing on the cake.
@Fossy No more planning than we would normally do before we got it. We use it all year round in the UK and abroad. It been up and down loads of hills in the Alps and Pyrenees with no problems and is easy to drive. Now Abigale isn't racing EWS we tend to have two longish MTB holidays in Europe, rather than 4 or 5 shorter ones for races, and at least one or two weekends a month in the UK a year.
Its always ready to go. Just needs bikes, food and some spare undies and we are off.
had to sell it after a few years mainly because 944s are like greenhouses on wheels and with no air-con are unusable on sunny days
Yes only an idiot would remove the aircon on a black 944, especially a turbo, which generates enough heat to shut an iPhone down in the height of summer…
Does it count if you’ve owned the same type of car for 20 years (30 then)?
I bought the car at 23 so hopefully not a midlife crisis! It's pretty much appreciated inline with what it costs to keep running so I can't complain.
The bikes new to me though.
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I bought my fat bike for my 50th and went on to do things like the Rovaniemi 300.
My 60th is in January and I've convinced Mrs DB to let me have a Rockpool Taran - the 'boy racer' of sea kayaks - I've got a nice kayak at the moment, but wanted something more suited to downwind runs and better handling in big swells as I'd like to do a round-Mull next year as well as some of the off-lying islands such as Staffa, Coll & Tiree.
I've already got a 1974 VW camper in the garage.
Had a Civic EP3 and now a Golf GTi, some I'm half arsing the car thing, but with an eye on reasonable performance and practicality. So for me the silly stuff is usually coffee (Niche, Flair Pro2, Hario switch, Commandante C40 and currently thinking about a flat burr grinder)/home theatre (5.1 surround with a Panasonic OLED) based.
Sports cars I like the look of, but really can't see the point, I think I'd rather go in a friends than own my own money pit. Motorbikes would end poorly and rapidly for me I suspect. Divorce, not really for me there are enough overweight balding IT workers on dating apps already I'm sure.
I spent as much at the vets keeping this rescue dog alive as I would have on a sports car too, she's a combination of my new kitchen, lots of ski trips and a sports car all rolled into one fur shedding sleeping/eating machine.
My second car was an Audi. But I didn't pass my trust until I was 27 so not sure if that counts. ?
Always thought my MLC would involve something nautical, but seems not now.
@dorsetknob I've had a few steel hardtails over the years none of which come close to what Gary has blended together with Reynolds and Columbus, yeas a hoot down Franks and the descent back into Corfe !
And it's one of the last to be brazed by Brian Curtis as he's finally passing his torch at 82 .
I got a Mustang a couple of years ago in my early 40s but for some reason Toyota Finance gave it me for £308/month so I'm not sure that's financially irresponsible enough to count as a mid-life crisis purchase - it was very nearly half the monthy cost of a new Yaris!
The mid-life crisis bit came when I decided I definitely wanted to keep it so I paid off the finance and got it supercharged. It was a comfortable GT car with a glorious exhaust note and surprisingly good fuel economy that was my daily driver. It's now a 700+bhp hooligan, in equal parts wonderful and terrifying, and I've driven our van more since it was done purely out of a sense of self-preservation. An utterly ridiculous waste of money, but I love it.
Here it is leaving the Ard Rock campsite/mudfest in full "family car" mode - bike, tent, roof box, wife, two kids and a labrador - and it still managed 28mpg back up to Fife.

Currently in the process of ordering it. Thread to follow.
Not my picture but I keep day dreaming about a turbocharged MX5 with some kind of home made bike rack. Just for days when the wife has the Octavia

I say 'daydreaming', I've also had an actual dream about it. I dreamt that I was in an MX5 with the roof down and my Airdrop Edit in the passenger seat, disembarking the chunnel and driving south in the middle of the night. When the sun started coming up I could see thunderstorms in the distant mountains and it looked like the bit at the end of Terminator where she says there's a storm coming.
To be honest, of all the wild dreams and nightmares I've had, this one seems quite achievable.
I’m not sure if it’s a true midlife crisis purchase more if I don’t buy one now I’ll probably never buy one. Harley Davidson 883 Sportster, not particularly expensive, not loud and no tassels on it. Actually quite a capable bike, below is when I rode it over to Kerry last year - that trip was probably the midlife crisis thing.

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I’m considering buying a shirt from HebTroCo, does that count?
Given the price of them, yes!
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Its bloody brilliant. Best thing I’ve ever bought.
Lovely! Quadrofolgio?
MX5 above
I've got the use of daughters Eunos Mk1 roadster that she has worked on including removing the air con to squeeze a turbo in giving 235bhp
MX5s you say? Bought this in 2016 I think so still in my 40s. Just 😉 It was fab, I was working in Cheltenham at the time so had a fun a/b road 30 mile commute to enjoy it. Loved it in the spring and summer. Was only the 1.8 but it made a nice noise and handled brilliantly.

Sold it to fund a car for my daughter. Keep looking at getting another one, but not sure how much it'd get used now as I really don't have to drive much post Covid.
Also does 'paying off your mortgage and sliding into semi-retirement count'? No, thought not!
Keep looking at getting another one, but not sure how much it’d get used now as I really don’t have to drive much post Covid.
Same. I either work from home or commute on foot. My last fun car was awesome but it just sat there doing nothing 90% of the time. I had to think of excuses to take it out.
Bought a DeRosa King XS, that I couldn't afford and didn't need.
Then bought some carbon aero wheels, and as a 50th present to myself, had Di2 fitted.
It only gets ridden on nice days and will see me to the grave I imagine, currently looking to replace the 3650 Scribes with some 5065's, because Aero (and it'll look cool)
It's probably the reason I'm still on 26" MTB!

Midlife crisis purchase/investment/impulse buy/PSA whatever ...
Walked into John Lewis few days just to see what's going on with sales (not exactly intending to buy anything), ended up with:
1. SkottsbergCast Iron Frying Pan, 24cm x 2
2. SkottsbergCast Iron Frying Pan, 28cm x 1
3. SkottsbergCast Iron Wok with Helper Handle, 34cm x 1
If you love to cook and want a lightweight cast iron, get them. These are really good. I am amazed that the Chinese can make such strong and lightweight cast iron pan and wok (traditional cast iron wok is much heavier). I am still trying to figure out how they make them.
Can anyone explain to me how they make lightweight cast iron?
Same. I either work from home or commute on foot. My last fun car was awesome but it just sat there doing nothing 90% of the time. I had to think of excuses to take it out.
Same back when I had my Audi S5 (V8, manual). Too good and fantastic a car to be sat doing nothing, but couldn't find reasons to use it more!
Mind you, driving back from a skiing trip in it was always cracking
What's the Boxter been like to run in terms of expense, I am retiring in 6 months and have a Porsche Cayman itch 😉
the key to a fun car if you don't commute is to have one that you can use day-to-day. I've a gt86 at the moment as bikes & surfboards will go in it, or I can carry both the kids around (and for shortish journeys, my wife and both kids as well). It still doesn't get used enough, but we logistically need a second car, so it might as well be one that's good.
Absolutely nothing pictured on this thread made me think I'd missed out on a mid-life crisis (at 40) during covid.
Backpacking through Europe or Asia on a 6 month sabbatical would be far more fun.
Can anyone explain to me how they make lightweight cast iron?
Make it thin, but with clever heat treatment to also make it tough would be my guess.
mid-life crisis (at 40)
OK youngster, get back to us in a decade. 🙂
OK youngster, get back to us in a decade.
But with the current avergae life expectancy, 40 is very much mid-life (less if your Glaswegian) ?
@nicko74 yep it’s a quad. It’s amazing and my daily. Somehow I had four kids and two dogs in it the other night.
@peteimpreza that’s a gorgeous colour. I need to take better care of mine aesthetically. She doesn’t get washed or hoovered out as much as she deserves - I’m too busy driving it!.
with winter tyres and its diff it’s oddly capable.






