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Re-read my previous post and just to be clear, those two statements in my previous post should be more independent of each other. The apprenticeships generally require no previous experience.
Alternatively, volunteering can open the doors to progression through non-trainee roles.


 
Posted : 27/08/2016 2:08 pm
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I feel like I should finish this thread off since so many people contributed to it. I don't want to leave it hanging but I didn't wan't to constantly update it with gory details or during the long periods where nothing was happening.

It's been an eventful couple of months that's for sure. I've spent way too many nights sleeping in the van in mostly unknown areas. You can't really rest because you're always scared something will happen or you'll have to move. So you always feel exhausted and of course, you stink. This unusually hot weather has been a nightmare for body odour and general van stench.

The van had an MOT which it failed. I then had to wait for parts then a repair and retest. I could not drive during this time so spent around 48 hours on a bleak industrial estate while trying to pretend like I wasn't there. I had to accept financial assistance at this point as I was wiped out. This was a pretty miserable period.

Oh, then I got foot rot. I had a pain in the ball of my foot which felt like a blister so I ignored it. Then overnight while sleeping on a mates floor it ballooned into a bright red, swollen monstrosity. It felt like it was on fire and I couldn't put my foot on the ground at all. I hopped into a walk in centre and got an inspection and some antibiotics. I'd picked up some kind of skin infection and the Dr. predicted at least 4 to 5 more days of pain and swelling. He wasn't wrong. You know when you stand on a plug? Imagine if the plug had 3 knives instead of prongs. Nothing I could do but codeine and elevation.

During this time I went somewhere that I was trying to avoid. My grandparents cat infested, one bedroom bungalow. They've got just enough room for my sleeping mat but at least I could put my foot up and take pain killers all day. All I had to do was endure the itchy eyes and sneezing triggered by the presence of felines. Once the pain and swelling went down, that's when the skin came off. All of it. Like a big crispy pancake of dead yellow flesh. This was a grim week and a half.

Now the good news...

Using nothing but a smartphone and mobile internet I managed to find a full time job and somewhere to live.

I used Facebook groups full of bike riders to see if there was any industry jobs going anywhere. I was contacted by a manager of a shop who said their mechanic was leaving and they were looking for a replacement. Luckily I've got years of experience but it's not something I was expecting to go back to. I went in for a chat and that was that, I got a start date.

Then I used Gumtree and Spareroom to start looking for somewhere to live. I've been to view some rooms this weekend and paid the deposit on my favourite.

So now I'm sitting in a BnB in Sheffield. I start work on Monday then move into an attic in a big, posh house next week. I'm going to be living with an old couple who seemed cool. I tried to avoid the more lively areas as I'm not up for partying or living in other peoples filth.

So yes there's been ups and downs. I've had a lot of time to sit around and sulk about all the things I've done wrong in my life. I've done a lot of stupid shit. I've never killed anyone or anything like that but I've certainly gone the long way around on everything. I've always had to make my own mistakes, sometimes multiples times before I learned from them.

Right now though I just feel relieved. I've got nothing else to pay for. I've got a job that I can't wait to get stuck into. I don't have to drive anywhere. I've got a bed in a pitch black room and last night I slept for about 12 hours. The soft, pink, raw flesh on my foot is starting to toughen up.

Thanks for reading. Special thanks to everyone that got in touch and offered help and careers advice and tried to point me in the right direction.

I'm off to bed.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:22 pm
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Good news, and good luck for Monday.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:24 pm
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That's excellent . Sleep well.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:24 pm
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I just found this thread. What an excellent conclusion! Best of luck, OP.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:29 pm
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Great news.
You'll be laughing about your former exploits and looking back with fond memorys soon.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:29 pm
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Awesome ending


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:31 pm
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Good man and a heartfelt well done.
Sheffield is a great centre for trail riding so you could use that as a way of expanding your network.
If your employer was ok with it you could....ahem....*mention* them on the forum - it might generate some additional business.
Would be good if you posted occasional updates on your progress.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:44 pm
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Great ending. Good luck in your new job and for the future.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:44 pm
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Just read this right through, great to see things are looking up & good luck for the new job on Monday!


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:46 pm
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Made my night, thanks for sharing.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:47 pm
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great news, glad to hear you're getting back on your feet

(see what I did there?)


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:47 pm
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Wooo! Best of luck for Monday's new start....


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:49 pm
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Excellent news, well done.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 9:59 pm
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Thanks for the update. Congratulations and best of luck in new job!


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 10:02 pm
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Fair play pal, keep on truckin'


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 10:24 pm
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Great news and a great place to be.


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 10:28 pm
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Well played, sharkattack !

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Posted : 24/09/2016 10:39 pm
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Nice one!

Cool to have a happy ending once in a while...


 
Posted : 24/09/2016 11:17 pm
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Result fella! Happy days ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 3:39 am
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Inspiring stuff. Glad you're beginning to find your feet (if you excuse the pun!).


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 7:24 am
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Where is the shop? We could use them to show support for his efforts


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 7:57 am
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Nice one Sharkattack, I love a happy ending ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 8:12 am
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Just read the whole thread. So glad everything worked out for you shark. How's the job going? Really great to see how this place comes together to help people in a time of need. Gotta love STW.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 10:07 am
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Best of luck, good to see you're sorted.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 10:08 am
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Awesome, great news.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 10:12 am
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Just goes to show what a resilient person you are, hope you are not smelly now ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 11:24 am
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Good stuff mate. Best of luck!


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 12:03 pm
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Great news. It's a cliche but how a person responds to adversity is the real test and the making of a man. Job and home sorted. Onwards.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 12:08 pm
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Big smiles all round here Sharkattack - really pleased to hear this, well done and I hope this is a real turning point

[i]'But when I said that nothing had been done I erred in one important matter. We had definitely committed ourselves and were halfway out of our ruts. We had put down our passage money--booked a sailing to Bombay. This may sound too simple, but is great in consequence. Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, the providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way. I learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets:

Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it!'[/i]

WH Murray


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 12:52 pm
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Wicked ! Must be great to have a bit of security.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 1:05 pm
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Good news. Put a post up on here if you fancy a bike ride around sheffield


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 1:27 pm
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Bravo and good luck SA - really good thread to read and follow.


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 2:10 pm
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Like ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 4:23 pm
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Best of luck nice to hear some good news, all the best


 
Posted : 25/09/2016 7:03 pm
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Nicely done, Sharkfella. Hope you continue on this up streak.

hope you are not smelly now

๐Ÿ™‚


 
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