seems that toiler roll orientation attracts more ire than partner email peeking.
Uuuuhhh huuhhhh.Why isn’t she OK with giving you full access to her messages and emails if she has nothing to hide?
I call psychological projection!
Your wife's suspicious because she feels that everyone else acts like her.
oooooh, look at you lot wi your lah di dah toilet roll hangers 😀
My bog wipe sits on top o t'bog, or t'floor if im using it. Not fussed which way it 'angs like.
Is your wife Teresa May?
If my wife didn't read my e-mails I'd never know which ones need acting on or replying to.
However, I have asked my son to remove his account from the ones Outlook automatically opens as getting half way through an e-mail that ends "je t'aime" before realising it's not to me is a little disconcerting.
I wouldn't be too bothered about the lock on her phone, her need to check up on you doesn't need to be reciprocated by default.
As has been suggested, sounds like she has trust issues and regardless of your previous email antics she needs to put her trust issues to bed or it will lead down a road to ruin sooner or later.
RM.
EDIT: Bog roll against the wall? I won't sleep tonight now...
Lock on her phone is imminently sensible. What if she loses it?
She should of course volunteer the code to you if you ask for it, and before she has chance to clean it up; after all, what has she got to hide?
If she refuses this request, she's set the standard, change all your passwords immediately. Being open is fine, being closed is fine, one rule for one and another for another is bloody not.
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I'm pleased someone married you. I always thought you was a decent geezer
If they are doing that it ain't a good sign.
My last girlfriend started that kinda shit and invented an affair for me that I wasn't having. We got though that one but then she started belittling some heart felt campaign I've been on for some years and it ended. I find her very good company and almost started it up again but then she did me a huge favor and started loudly decrying something I knew to be fact but which didn't suit her inherent predjuidices.
Best not to have your enemy at your side...........get out.
@greedo, the reading of emails etc has to stop but to do that you have to address the root cause.
I think if it doesn't stop things will deteriorate and it will be terminal
My email is in my profile if you care to contact me offline. I have some experiences I can share.
Mrs Toast speaks much truth, as do a great many others. For myself, had I a partner I lived with, then inspecting each others phones for text, messages or mail would be verboten. Any shared devices, like pads or whatever, would be set up so that either emails were disabled, or we had several accounts that were public/private. I wouldn't [i]dream[/i] of checking someone else's mail or text, the very idea makes me squirm uncomfortably, but I have known very close friends with partners who do such things, and it never has a happy ending. Such people are inherently controlling to an unhealthy degree, and generally almost impossible to wean off that behaviour, they just can't help themselves.
Greedo, I'd have passcodes on my phone, were I you, and just say 'goose, gander' when confronted about it.
But that's me; anything for a quiet life, but there are limits to what I will tolerate.
How do you order Christmas/birthday presents etc? Do you delete the confirmation email before your other half sees it?
Er, I go to the shops...........
Assuming the OP and his mrs both have jobs and they have the kids - how does she have time for this crap?
Joking aside, even if I were up for a bit of the other, there's no way I could find the time, let alone be 'on it' enough to cover my tracks!
9th wedding anniversary tomorrow as it happens - we must be doing something right (or she's just really tolerant). Actually, I think the latter..............
