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[Closed] Dilemma - sold my car to a mate and it's gone wrong; big time!

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I think there's a theme here - how much is a friendship worth?

Also, how do you judge how much of a friend somebody is?

Someone being pushy about a large sum of money I doesn't sound like a great mate to me., without any real right to do so

Exactly what I was thinking. I don't have 'mates' like this, thankfully.

If someone came to me and said this, I'd just laugh TBH.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 11:28 am
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sorry...but your "mate" is being a dick!

If he was really your mate, then he wouldn't ask.....he is just trying to pass the cost onto you

he wouldnt do it if he'd bought from any old joe down the road(or if he did, he'd be told where to go)


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 11:45 am
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I'd not be putting my hand in my pocket for anyone who bought a car off me. I'd be bloody furious if I sold someone a car at below the going rate and they started coming back with faults.

It's a private sale - everyone knows there is no warranty or comeback on a private sale unless the item is not as described.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 11:50 am
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When you by a car there's a chance something will go wrong at sometime in the future which is reflected in the price. I bought a car from my brother after getting several dealers to make an offer and I gave him the best price he could get and assumed all responsibility for it after that.

So you owe him nothing and he's a twunt for even asking - however there are some people like that; always looking for someone else to take responsibility.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 11:52 am
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Look on the brightside though. You've gotten out of the Landrover moneypit 😆


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 12:07 pm
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apparently he doesn't feel like he has!


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 2:32 pm
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i sold my troop sgt a car and the exhaust fell off on his way home , he came asking for cash and got ****ed off , sold as seen

ive just had our lasses car in for repair this morning maybe i should get round to the old owner for some money 😉


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 2:58 pm
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Since when did a standard Deafener or Disco have more then one diff to lock? No wonder they kept bouncing out on bumps!

Had a mate at the garage ring me the other week, "Ive a customer with a 110 here with a steering fault, its fighting back going round bends"
Me.. "front diff, CV's or stuck in diff lock- i'll nip down after i've dropped the wife off at work"

Got there, grabbed the keys and found the customers lunch bag hanging from the diff lock lever.

Why don't people learn how to drive them properly before buying the things on the strength of the image, advertising and what the blokes on the Fast Show say?


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 3:03 pm
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For future reference, when you sell a car, print this bad boy out and get a signature on it: http://www.theaa.com/motoring_advice/car-buyers-guide/cbg_sellerscontract.html

You can then tell him to go and swivel.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 3:06 pm
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The pedant in me wants to point out that 'Sold as seen' is a phrase with no basis in law.

The sensible bit of me wants to remain schtum.


 
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The pedant in me wants to point out that 'Sold as seen' is a phrase with no basis in law.

Isn't it just the colloquial shorthand for "sold without any warranties or representations as to performance, quality, condition etc?". I suppose a sale can't be done without any terms because you always have to have an implied term of good title - unless you explicitly didn't - but then the contract would be void for illegality - :confused:.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 3:40 pm
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If you were a dealer, yes. Private sale is caveat emptor.

(Says me who is not a lawyer, so reader beware)


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 3:42 pm
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The pedant in me wants to point out that 'Sold as seen' is a phrase with no basis in law.

And the pedant in me says he has no claim for repairs on a used car bought in good faith! 🙂


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 3:50 pm
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Something similar happened to me recenrly. Bought a family saloon from a friend of a friend. He said the cam belt had been done at 50k, but had no record/proof. I said that I'd therefore assume it actually hadn't been done, and do it ASAP. 2nd day after purchase, the cam belt fails, and I have to shell out £1500 for a new motor.
I told the seller what had happened, just to keep him informed. I never had any thought to ask for my money back/a contribution.

After all, as soon as you sign the document, it's your car, right?

On the subject of mates, I think I'm secure enough with mine to tell them they're being unreasonable. He's being a d*ck for asking for money, and the OP is being a bit wet for taking that kind of sh*t.


 
Posted : 13/08/2010 4:07 pm
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psling- whats happening?


 
Posted : 16/08/2010 10:09 am
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Sold a road bike to a friend and then 3 months later complained the rear rim broke? No way.

Same friend tried it on with not paying me rent money, not paying his tv licence when I rented the flat cheap to him as a friend...well we're not friends and he didn't pay his last months rent but then again I did sell 2 sets of concert tickets delivered to the address after he moved.

Never ever do business with friends-lessons learnt.

I think you should buy the vehicle back if you have the money and repair the car and sell at full price.

If you were the buyer you could easily think the seller has ripped you off.

Paying 50:50 is a good gesture too as you sold him a car not road worthy even if you didn't know it would happen.


 
Posted : 16/08/2010 4:22 pm
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Why don't people learn how to drive them properly before buying the things on the strength of the image, advertising and what the blokes on the Fast Show say?

I think you might find the the OP knows how to drive a 4x4. 😉


 
Posted : 16/08/2010 4:42 pm
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Oh 😆

Ps. Yes do sell to friends but you sell with

'Its done me well/worked fine during the time I had the car/bike etc however I obviously DONT have a crystal ball- understand? So if it fails tomorrow - tough'

YES/NO.

Talking of 4x4's - Notice how I never tried selling my old car on here?


 
Posted : 16/08/2010 7:18 pm
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mate of mine lent me his bike for a race (all of mine are too big and bouncy), the fu(king thing snapped in 3 places literally riding along.. i offered to somehow pay for replacement/fix or at least pay for building up a new frame (labour) but was refused flat - his view was that it was either going to happen to me or him, just unfortunate that at that time it was me! Muckers wont screw you around trying to ask for money when somethings screwed - f-ck him off..


 
Posted : 18/08/2010 3:43 pm
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Pay the repairs, but go and do his wife to make up for it.

problem solved.


 
Posted : 18/08/2010 4:07 pm
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It's a Land Rover.

When mine

"goes wrong; big time!"

I just hit the offending part with a big hammer until it's fixed again.

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Posted : 18/08/2010 4:17 pm
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Indeed Tiger - you have to show them who is pack leader.


 
Posted : 18/08/2010 4:38 pm
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I think you might find the the OP knows how to drive a 4x4.

So do i... mwhaa haaa haaaa

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Not even half of the toys i've owned... Only one i ever came near to getting stuck was the Mog when i dropped the passenger wheel down a hidden mineshaft. I was ready to go and get the John Deere to pull it out when i saw clear line out if i reversed.. Select low 1st reverse in diff lock and out it popped!


 
Posted : 18/08/2010 4:51 pm
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is this sorted now Peter ?


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 7:37 am
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U31, all that proves for sure is that you know how to BUY a landrover.

Let's off-road! Yeah!


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 9:00 am
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U31, all that proves for sure is that you know how to BUY a landrover.
chuckles

He tried to sue on the basis that he was expecting a Camero? but received a Buick? apparently.
IIRC it wasn't even the wrong model, s/he was [i]given[/i] a car but it was listed the wrong year, TG thought it was an 89 but it was an 88 or something, so s/he tried to sue. Cheek.

I sold my old car to my sister, my dad drove it the 350miles to her house no problem, practically on her drive the exhaust blew £150 replacement. Never ever gonna sell to family or friend again.


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 10:14 am
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So what's happened to the OP?


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 10:29 am
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a west side story style knife fight should sort out this situation.


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 10:33 am
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OK, I'm posting on behalf of Peter who is being held on remand for assault... 😆

is this sorted now Peter ?

I found best price I could for the parts required offered with warranty and said I would meet 50% of that cost and that my offer was a gesture of goodwill on my part and in no way suggested any acceptance of any responsibility for the vehicle. He has accepted that, begrudgingly I might add. He is very aware that he needn't ask again, the vehicle is no longer my reponsibity, and that he has bought an 8 year old vehicle, not a new one. I actually work for the same company as him, we currently have a business-like relationship!


 
Posted : 19/08/2010 11:46 am
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ps, thanks for all your input 🙂


 
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