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br, I agree and wasn't trolling Aracer. An "OK" policy is £500 a year and you will get taxed on that at 40% as BIK. It's good for surgery that's moderately urgent and non-elective and it also gives follow up care that would be unaffordable on the NHS.
As posted above, I am a big believer in NHS at a "good" level for all, but there will always be people who want to pay more of the money they have earned to get an "even better" service. I don't begrudge them.
Same with education...you pay for private? Great! That means you pay for state education AND don't take a place in it. Both my kids go to a local state school and are getting good grades. Good education should be available to all, but the key is EVEN better state schools, not hammering private schools.
Where do people get this super rich bollocks from? Stop reading Socialist Who ker and in the next life LISTEN and revise at school instead of slacking/expecting life to be given to you.
b r - MemberThe only way I could see you been able to live on £17k is if there is only one of you (in an expensive area) or two folk in a cheap area and/or you've no rent/mortgage.
And as that is less than minimum wage for two people, does that mean you don't work a full week each?
we don't work full time and we get money from child tax credits, working tax credits which help. we also bought our house 12 years ago when we didn't have children and we were both working full time and I actually got a decent wage. things have sadly changed for the worse with my employment 🙁
Hora, thats fine, but many folk don't have the combination of luck, opportunity and circumstances to make a really good life.
If you are lucky to have a talent and a good job and make a good living then its fair that you should pay a fair level of tax. Both my brothers earn very modest wages and I would be happy to see policies put in place to ensure that a living wage is paid to all. If you want more than a living wage then work harder or study more...alternatively...chill out and ride more bikes.
hora - I think I love you
hora - Member
Socialist Who ker
Eh?
Of course...on the internet, you don't get to hear from the hard working, but "done to" people...the Starbucks and carehome workers.
Instead you hear from people who equate sitting on their backsides with being "done to".
How else do you describe these "super rich" then, Hora, if not super rich? The duke of Westminster with 13 billion, The Reubens, Philip Green and Ecclestone. Read Forbes for a longer list.
Edukator has a point. The super rich need the rest of us more than the rest of us need the super rich. But this thread is about folk on £50k or so. So mixing up "well paid professional" with "super rich" is hardly helping this conversation.
AFKASTR
Low rent on a small 2 bed gaff in a non-descript town near where we grew up..
No debts (I've never even tried to get credit))
No vehicle
Pretty much exclusively second hand stuff inside the family home
Mostly charity shops for clothes
No expensive holidays
Sensible food budget
No luxury items obvs
Triggers broom bikes
I'm a stay at home dad but can take on casual labour if and when required, and I sell a painting two or three times per year..
My other half works as few hours as poss (NHS and cafe/bar work) to cover rent and living costs and will put in extra hours if we decide to save up for a trip abroad or a festival or summink
A couple of gigs per year and a show or two.. plenty of books music and R4 at home and a drop or two of wine on a regular basis.... err
a stay at home dad but can take on casual labour if and when required, and I sell a painting two or three times per year..
Like that bloke with all the looted nazi paitings?
heh! I wish... Art thief was one of the careers I considered at school 🙂
So yunki. Back to your first post on page 1.
You chose and actively chose your life and lifestyle yet slag off someone who actually goes out to work and thus earns money?
I really hope you don't claim any assistance/tax relief if you both want to avoid work.
[i]AFKASTR
Low rent on a small 2 bed gaff in a non-descript town near where we grew up..
No debts (I've never even tried to get credit))
No vehicle
Pretty much exclusively second hand stuff inside the family home
Mostly charity shops for clothes
No expensive holidays
Sensible food budget
No luxury items obvs
Triggers broom bikes
I'm a stay at home dad but can take on casual labour if and when required, and I sell a painting two or three times per year..
My other half works as few hours as poss (NHS and cafe/bar work) to cover rent and living costs and will put in extra hours if we decide to save up for a trip abroad or a festival or summink
A couple of gigs per year and a show or two.. plenty of books music and R4 at home and a drop or two of wine on a regular basis.... err
[/i]
And how much money do you get from the state - child benefit, Working Tax Credits, Housing Benefits?
Sounds like you are living off us? 😕
I get child benefit
I consider myself more lefty than nasty right winger but have I read correctly, there are some commenting regarding the selfish greed of the OP yet they choose not to work full-time but receive 'benefits'?
Ah, the politics of envy coming out now.
hora et al..
I've just never understood the nation's grand delusion that acquiring wealth is the mark of a man
I've never understood why a job with a suit is better paid than a job in boots and overalls
I've never understood the preoccupation with surrounding oneself with expensive status symbols..
I've never understood why my hard work should line some posh ****'s pockets..
I would however, quite like a nice garden, but alas for now that is not meant to be
I think the envy starts with the OP
We can only afford to have one child. If I dropped salary drastically and played the numbers I could have a second. Quid's in!
Got those sums done yet Hora?
Live YOUR life but don't bregudge another person who chooses to work long hours for the rewards they might get. Its their choice. You original post shows you can't see this.
hora - not quite mate..
I think you're a prize tit at the best of times son.. and this is one of them
I just thought he was moaning cos he wasn't getting his extra few quid that he doesn't need, and that makes me squirm.. In fact looking back at it he was probably actually just having the same moan as me in a way I spose 😳
I see two key themes in this thread:
OP - earns a decent wage and points out oddity in how child benefit is worked out, perceives this as unfair. Misses how this would be interpreted by the High Horse Brigade. OP tops up income with benefits. STW says OP is bad. STW says anyone earning £50k a year and getting benefits is bad.
Yunki - yunki and partner choose to work as little as is feasible to keep family afloat financially (not suggesting for a moment that there's anything wrong with this, merely pointing out that it's out of choice). Yunki tops up income with benefits. STW says Yunki's situation is OK because he's not rich.
Hmmmm, could it be that the "right" to benefits isn't as black and white as everyone wants it to be?
I don't agree that anyone with [i]significant[/i] means should be entitled to benefits (I can't define significant because it's entirely dependent on lots of factors - ie you're probably going to be comfortable with a £30k household income for two adults and two kids in gateshead, but not in London).
Yunki. I've not descended to your level until this point. Your first post was full of vitorol even though you chose to work less.
I see you've edited and tamed your post being rude to me..interesting.
hora - Member
Yunki. I've not descended to your level until this point. Your first post was full of vitorol even though you chose to work less.I see you've edited and tamed your post being rude to me..interesting.
😆
hora - Member
Yunki. I've not descended to your level.On a different level I dread being in your situation. Children seeing their role models like that. I have a fair measure of pity for you x
Good night soft lad.
Aww.. thanks for concern hora 🙂
A better role model?
I don't understand?
Work our whole life away, ungodly unsustainable hours to buy shit that we don't need? Using our vote to line our own pocket? Is that what we hope for?
It's not what I hope for my own kids
I take child benefit cos I'm entitled to it.. I dunno if I would if I was able to earn a higher wage.. I really don't know if I would moan about it cos I was just above the threshold..
How am I wrong in that?
Although I'm aware that the OPs point was more to do with the unfair tax bracket separate/joint income nonsense so I've gone off on a right tangent clearly..
yunki has stated that he's happy with his life but it seems hora isn't happy that yunki is happy. 😐
hora - have a word with yourself.
thanks CG - I flippin LOVE my life 🙂
As a fellow stay-at-home dad I suspect Yunki is a great dad and role model. Having time for your kids is perhaps more important than throwing money at them.
yunki - reckon you're one of the few on here that can say that and genuinely mean it. Your kids are lucky to have you as a Dad, you sound great fun!
Edukator +1
Having time for your kids is perhaps more important than throwing money at them.
Being a good parent is the most important thing, and there are plenty of good parents who stay at home, and plenty of good parents who go out to work.
Money only becomes an issue if you choose increasing wealth over your relationship with your kids (I know plenty who do mind you, but at the same time I also know a few stay at home parents who I wouldn't want as a role model).
[s]Oh no, oldschool glitch-bump[/s]
Maybe not!
Stay at home Dad = Stay at home mum with bigger testes.
Same thing except the woman is working 30+ hours a week to make it pay.
You are just lucky that it has worked out that way for you. Doesn't make you a better parent than any stay at home mum imo.
Definitely not.. hardest job in the world.. I have no idea how single mums/dads stay sane
I wonder how much of the recently announced unexpected government surplus is from high income families paying back their child allowance?