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You've had it. Get a solicitor and don't sign ANYTHING.
odannyboy - Member
quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.
A tragic loss of Common sense
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There are 3 pages of RUN..sounds like bloody good advice right there.
quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.
You have had it. You're now coming across as needy.....
Let's try another tack on this - should you actually be allowed out without a carer? Even if you are a bit 'special' there's still no excuse...
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Seriously though - I know it's easier for us to say 'run' when we don't have the emotional attachments, but you're about to be seriously abused. Think of this as her way of beating the sh*t out of you when she comes home drunk every night.
She doesn't love you - she loves someone else, thinks they're a better shag, and thinks you're just a convenient **** who's going to finance her lifestyle for a bit. Leave now, and find yourself someone who values you and wants to make a positive contribution to your life.
odb...do you understand what people are saying here?
or is it not clear enough as advice goes (please note, its STW and people are agreeing...)
O/T but I've always wanted to perfect the 'run forest run' accent. I've tried it soo many times when drunk but it always comes out like a Scotsman/Indian 😆
"We're about to get a divorce... so we're buying a bigger house together. Well, I say 'together', I'm paying for it and it's in her name."
Wait. Wut? Will you still be lodging there (and paying for it) when her lover moves in too?
Point the first, been there, "woman I love" etc etc. It's singularly difficult to extricate yourself for all manner of weird and wonderful reasons, and you'll be racked with guilt and pain and all the rest of it. But, get out you must. When you do, in five years time I promise you, I absolutely [i]guarantee[/i] you that you'll be sitting there thinking "dear gods, how could I have put up with it for so long, why didn't I do that years ago?"
Point the second, c'mon, read back. Read your own posts. If a mate came to you and asked you the same question, what would you tell him?
She doesn't love you, she realises she's stuck with you hanging round like a bad smell, and has taken the decision to bleed you for everything she can. If you go through with this arrangement and then decide stay with her, hey, free house! If you decide to MTFU and leave, you're out on your ear with precisely **** all. Whereas now, you hold all the cards. She cheated, all the property is in your name, she has nothing and no leg to stand on, and you're about to hand it all over to her. Why? Love? Guilt? Because she's told you to?
By all means, be a good father, support your kids, but you can do that without having to get such a sore bottom in the process.
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Oh, and if you need more convincing, you divorce her and then carry on living together, you're never having sex again ever. Though you might get to listen to it sometimes if you're lucky.
odb...do you understand what people are saying here?
This is why, as much as it pains me, I am siding with Hora. No-one is this [s]stupid[/s] naive surely?
OK im doing what you all say.end of.you are all correct and in my gut i knew that all along.end of thread.cheers all.
Good man. Hope everything works out for you.
Aye, best of luck.