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Ah crap my wife died, cancer sucks

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I gave away a lot of Julies stuff to friends.  It was well received and made me feel better.

I did get pals to clear her clothes tho - I just couldn't do it


 
Posted : 06/01/2023 11:18 pm
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johndrummer

Yep, one day at a time. I’ve had a good clear out of the house and it was really cathartic. Still loads to do.

John its 3 years since Carolyn died & I have still got whole cupboards of her stuff to go through! Don't get too carried away!


 
Posted : 07/01/2023 12:04 am
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Some folk want it done quickly, some want to keep stuff

Ive got rid of pretty much everything of Julies now bar 3 pairs of reading glasses that I will use and a kindle 'cos I broke mine.  I had most of it cleared in a couple of months.  Quite a lot of it I got pals to help / do it for me

Its another no right or wrong answer.  Just what feels right for you but don't feel you have to get rid of it unless you want to -


 
Posted : 07/01/2023 12:15 am
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It feels so inadequate - but I am so sorry to hear this johndrummer.

Take care,

Jay


 
Posted : 07/01/2023 12:19 am
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@johndrummer hitting up Gisburn tomorrow with some friends if you have the time/headspace for a pedal.

Take it steady chap.


 
Posted : 07/01/2023 1:27 am
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Thanks for the offer of Gisburn but I’ve only just seen it, not going out today unless I have to


 
Posted : 07/01/2023 10:04 am
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