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I'm surprised they allowed that sort of thing.
Careful now Ted/Cougar. 🙂
There's a 'specialist' shop round the corner from our office
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Macclesfield?
The breadknife went to see it, this morning she said, 'tie me up and do what you like' so I tied her up and ****ed off out for a ride on my bike...
Macclesfield?
Nope, London (appropriately in Leather Lane too!)
I don't think a lot of people who actually take part in BDSM would agree with the comments about abusive relationships.
I think they would, because,
People who know what their talking about or who are actively involved know it's all about trust and consent. There's none of that it the movie and that's where the anger is coming from, not the mere fact that BDSM is involved.
Without going into TMI territory, I've moved in some interesting circles over the years and I've a good friend who was in a 24/7 Sub/Dom relationship for a few years, so I do actually know a good deal about this. WNB is bang on the money, it's nothing to do with the sex and everything to do with him being a manipulative control freak stalker and then packaging that up in a bait-and-switch as "hey, it's ok, because it's not abuse, it's [i]kinky.[/i]"
A dom doesn't just take control, a sub gives it. Contrary to popular belief, it's the sub that holds all the real power. Compare and contrast a starting point of,
"I will submit to you and do what you ask"
with
"You [i]will [/i]do what you're told or else"
... now, which of those sound just a little bit rapey?
Just got back from seeing it with the missus. Felt more out numbered than at "Pink" concert. Really good atmosphere, everyone s****s at the shit dialogue and laughs out loud when he calls her "baby" , But you could of heard a pin drop once the guy took his shirt off and got the ice bucket out.
Its "beauty and the beast with butt plugs" for anyone who hasn't read the book but better than I expected. The lead looks a bit like her dad so I had Miami Vice theme tune going round in my head during the rude bits which didn't help..
Maybe well become Rocky Horror picture show for Hen-nights
shit film based on shit literature, if you can call it that. But for some reason it's a big deal, that I don't understand. Go into any charity shop and the shelves are full of these books for 50p. Hardly revered culture. why is crap stuff so popular?
Some of the female staff at work were discussing the book when it came out, they all wanted to know if I had read it. When I replied that I preferred my pron with pictures they were not impressed!
IfI am going to watch a film about sex with a bit of mild titialltion I think I will stick with porkies thanks very much! Yes I know it is low budget crap 80's affair, but bits still make me giggle like a idiot!
Maybe it may inspire a fee people who think it might be fun to have ago - and they may like it
I think the popularity of the book shows how many people could be interested in it but have never managed to achieve it.
the place was absolutely buzzing
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adjustablewench - Member
Being a girl I can say I'm with CG - i haven't and won't read the books, don't find the guy remotely appealing and am not fussed about seeing the films.
Ditto
So, went to watch it, and it was a bit of a let down.
So was the film..........(Pfnaaaaar) 😆
TBH it's a lot of good hype around a bad book..,film apparently 2 hours with 10 mins of thingy!. Fiancee not wanting to see it anyhoo,her mates some will,some won't. whatevs..,she did ask me if I would tie her up,so I had her fill in my Tax-return......