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Seriously though. How many hints do you have to drop before they stop pretending they don't know what you're talking about!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:07 pm
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Why are trolls so obvious?


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:08 pm
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wassup?


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:09 pm
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il go with the how many bikes answer so......however many u have already +1


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:09 pm
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No, we're just not telepathic, is all.

As for why we're so rubbish; well, can't answer that. Apparently God created Mayn first; he obviously mustuv ironed out the mistakes when he created Woman....


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:10 pm
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At least we post in the correct forum area - protocol young lady - CHAT FORUM


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:11 pm
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What are you talking about ? Give me another hint.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:12 pm
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Seriously though. How many hints do you have to drop before they stop pretending they don't know what you're talking about!

Ooh, ooh, I think I know this one! Is it 4? It is, isn't it? Yay! Get in!!!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:13 pm
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I don't get it.....


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:13 pm
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I'm not even going to pretend I'm the best person at saying what I want to say. But sometimes it just gets made even harder by the lack of response...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:15 pm
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**** off to mumsnet...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:16 pm
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I don't think you should judge the whole of the male population on the lower echelons you obviously mix in.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:16 pm
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Che?


 
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I don't think you should judge the whole of the male population on the lower echelons you obviously mix in.

no you're probably right. I sincerely apologise.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:17 pm
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What Tucker said...we is edukated sofisticated men init.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:18 pm
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Usually one hint is enough - secret present buying then takes place and you get a nice surprise. However, keep going on about it and he soon decides its not worth the effort and spends the money on a new bike instead.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:18 pm
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I'll give you a hint - hints dont work. If you are trying to communicate with a man say what you've got to say and await a response.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:18 pm
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Word to the wise...

He wasn't pretending he didn't know what you were talking about, he didn't know what you were talking about!

The most contented women I know are those that just come straight out and say things, no hints. We men don't get hints in case you hadn't guessed! Conversely I know quite a number of single girlies way into their 30's and they can't work out why they're getting old and unmarried... But would they ever even consider coming out with something rather than dropping hints?

I'll give you a hint... ๐Ÿ˜‰

EDIT: Dammit, beaten by SBZ...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:18 pm
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Fair enough. Should I take it from the lack of response to one hint that he's not really interested then?


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:19 pm
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Sorry, you're going to have to be MORE BLATANT on here too... I'm not getting the hints! ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:21 pm
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You just dont get it do you!!!

The only way to find out if he is interested is to ask him the question.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:22 pm
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I suspect the hint was made while he was asleep. Or drunk. Or watching Top Gear. Remember, clarity, eye contact, and simple words.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:23 pm
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Ok then 5. My last offer.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:24 pm
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maybe more context is needed.
without going into too many details, I really like him and have said so several times, with the response being, 'yeah you're not bad yourself'. which is nice, but I was kind of hoping for a bit more encouragement!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:24 pm
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Ohhh! Is that what this thread is about?

Yeah...you have to be obvious. A man will mever believe you're interested until you've actually told him.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:26 pm
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No! Just that he hasn't noticed your hint. Just ask him out!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:26 pm
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I think you should expand on the issue at hand, what are you hinting at?? It may help us give advice on how to get through to your man.

OOOOh....more context..thanks...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:26 pm
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See the "yeah, you're not bad yourself" thing it's a cue to jump him.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:28 pm
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What SBZ said...

ASK HIM THE BLOODY QUESTION (whatever it maye be!)

If you mean sex (as I'm suspecting you possibly do but still haven't quite worked out yet), most "gentlemen" (not boys, oiks or yobs) will need more than a little encouragement as they definitely don't want to stuff up their chances of things going further by asking out of turn. To be fair, with both ex's of mine I had it pretty good, as after about the 4th date in each case they both practically raped me anyway (I got the hint that time!) so I didn't need to ask the question...

You're going to need to be a bit more forward I'm afraid, otherwise nothing (whatever it is, I might have got the wrong end of the stick but you insist on using hints still, which don't work!) is going to happen and you'll be stuck in a rut...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:28 pm
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Hmmm, he's playing it cool? Worried about getting hurt? Doesn't have your riding skillz lexie? ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:29 pm
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I'd kind've like to be a bit better than 'not bad' though!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:29 pm
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but dose he understand what you mean by like? I always presume women just mean like as in you're a nice person rather than anything more.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:29 pm
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To be fair, looking at your profile pic, I'd put you in the not bad category also. ๐Ÿ˜€


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:31 pm
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I'd kind've like to be a bit better than 'not bad' though!

That's a really good response!

Moon on a stick!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:32 pm
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but dose he understand what you mean by like? I always presume women just mean like as in you're a nice person rather than anything more.


Really? I was always under the impression that you shouldn't appear too keen!

Doesn't have your riding skillz lexie?

I wish I could say no he doesn't.. but I can't!


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:32 pm
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I would say go for broke...sounds like you are being subtle because you don't know how he will react. He might not be sure what you mean so tell him, or ask him out for a date, not something that could be confused as mates hanging out.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:32 pm
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Show him your boobs.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:33 pm
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jump him ,that will get it across


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:33 pm
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Why are men so rubbish

Because we've got to be good at being something, and that's the easiest. ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:34 pm
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Really? I was always under the impression that you shouldn't appear too keen!

Different people different methods. I'm never 100% even after the first kiss. I've been with my current girlfriend about 6 years and I'm pretty sure she like me now.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:36 pm
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Just noticed you don't want to appear to keen...just show him
one boob.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:37 pm
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Akimbo is one of the finest words in the english language.


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:38 pm
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Some guys find that the expectation of initiating every relationship and shouldering the responsibility of being laughed out of the place quite disquieting.

Just a thought...


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:38 pm
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F*ck it. I'm going out on my bike tomorrow, that'll sort my head out ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 10/06/2011 10:39 pm
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Lick his ear. And if that don't get the desired result, then bite his face.


 
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