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So after an unbroken 30 years of access to the female form,it"s recently dawned upon me that I"m not actually that bothered or driven by chasing after the furry/shaven/brazillian/delete as applicable depending upon fashion/ triangle anymore.
I"m mid-40s now,been married with children,divorced,many girlfriends since divorce,am with a lovely lady now but can easily go for weeks without even thinking about anything sexual,much to my latest partners surprise.
I"ve had my test levels checked and they"re fine,so for me I think its just more of a total lack of desire nowadays.I do have a stressful job with long hours but dont we all nowadays.
Please feel free to discuss/flame/accuse of homosexuality/etc,but part of me just feels completely worn out by dealing with the intricacies of the female mind over the last 3 decades !
Did this lack of desire start when you bought a road bike?
Stress can be a real passion-killer.
Is it lack of attraction to your other half? Pheromones and the like?
Or is it just a complete libido bypass? If it's the latter, you've got to think it's the long hours causing tiredness and stress.
You're in a position to not need a girlfriend but hang out with your buddies and do your own thing full time instead? Doesn't sound so bad to me
Did this lack of desire start when you bought a road bike?
I'm guessing, based on the forum, it must have.
N+1?
Are your bib shorts too tight?
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I'm guessing, based on the forum, it must have.Chapeau sir - you got the link.Did this lack of desire start when you bought a road bike?
So your thinking about men instead...eh!!..... 😆
*puts on bad Aussie accent*;......like this you'd have thought they'd have had Champagne!
Rather have a cup of tea tbh.
Did this lack of desire start when you bought a road bike?
No, when I started on Citalopram. 😥
Try not having the opportunity for any - you'll find you have perfectly normal levels of desire then.
Do you fancy her?
My last was flabbergasted when I was nonplussed following her flashing her hamburger at me. she couldn't see some blokes are as complex/sophisticated as wimin.
scotroutes - Member
Did this lack of desire start when you bought a road bike?
not everyone has your experience druid!
Less fornication = quicker route to heaven.
Been with my wife for 27 years , the urge is still there at least half of the days of the week (or more). The feeling is mutual she informs me 😀
i can take it or leave it too....much rather have a nice pint and a pie.....but, mrs t is on hrt at present, and is like a nympho 🙁
[b][i]IS[/b][/i] like a nympho or [b][i]would[/b][/i] like a nympho?
If I wasn't any good at martial arts.. I probably wouldn't be that excited to go and wrestle on the Judo mat.
If I wasn't any good at tiddlywinks, I probably wouldn't be that motivated to go and flick that little button
If I wasn't any good at baking, I probably wouldn't want to stir the batter for that soft centered muffin.
If I wasn't any good at Chess, I probably wouldn't want the mental challenge of taking that queen with my king!
*insert better analogies please
10 quid says the OP is taking propecia.
Grown bitch tits yet?
This should go on the Bearbones forum. Don't think anyone's into it over there.
Making love to a beautiful woman is much like riding a bike. It should only be undertaken if you're going to enjoy it.
Thanks for the responses guys,some comedy gold right there but given the nature of the subject its to be expected of you all.
Its definitely more a lack of desire though,everythings still working just fine for when the mood takes me,still have all of my own hair thanks Tom (tenner to your charity of choice please )but it doesn`t excite me anything like it used to.To the extent that within the last 4 months there have been 2 separate occasions when I"ve chosen biking over an afternoon sesh with the g/f,which she (eventually) found hilarious after she"d stopped crying.
The new g/f is up for it all of the time which definitely takes the intrigue away from it,hope she begins to appreciate "quality" over quantity sometime soon.TBH after constant and mainly emotionally draining relationships i"m just tired of the female mind,body and soul,if they even have souls that is.
Definitely misogynist material imho ....
Making love to a beautiful woman is much like riding a bike.
Something most folk here don't do?
Dude, you're in your 40's. Nothing is as good or exciting as it used to be. Women, sport, music, film, food, holidays whatever. We live a sad black and white pastiche of our technicolor youth.
carlosg
Been with my wife for 27 years , the urge is still there at least half of the days of the week (or more). The feeling is mutual she informs me
Conveniently on the other half of the days of the week one assumes